BIP Season 2 - Samantha Steffen - *Sleuthing Spoilers*

nd4reality wrote:Speaking of kids not wanting to eat their traditional food, I have friends whose kids were put to a baby sitter that fed them a steady supply of Mac and cheese. Then they wonder why the kid comes home and refuses to eat their curry and rice.
While Samanatha genuinely does not like to eat spicy etc. she came across as being snooty and wanting to fit in with the white crowd.
She just rubs me off the wrong way and this just crowned it  for me.

ironcat wrote:


She just strikes me as someone who is accustomed to having guys fall all over her with very little effort on her part because of her looks, and I think she also comes from a pretty privileged background as well, right?  I think she's as nice as she needs to be to get along socially, but just not seeing a lot of true compassion, empathy or warmth from her.  Her lukewarm apology seemed forced to me because I doubt she's used to having to give one.  I may be totally wrong, but I suspect she has probably had it relatively easy all her life and treats people as if they're more or less disposable.  

Samantha Steffen ‏@SammiSteffen  Aug 30
Hocus pocus, all of Twitter will now bow to me & stop being mean!  Abracadabra #BachelorInParadise (crystal ball emoji)

GuardianAngel wrote:

Samantha Steffen ‏@SammiSteffen  Aug 30
Hocus pocus, all of Twitter will now bow to me & stop being mean!  Abracadabra #BachelorInParadise (crystal ball emoji)

ironcat wrote:

nd4reality wrote:Speaking of kids not wanting to eat their traditional food, I have friends whose kids were put to a baby sitter that fed them a steady supply of Mac and cheese. Then they wonder why the kid comes home and refuses to eat their curry and rice.
While Samanatha genuinely does not like to eat spicy etc. she came across as being snooty and wanting to fit in with the white crowd.
She just rubs me off the wrong way and this just crowned it  for me.

She better watch out for the wasabi in her sushi then.

She just strikes me as someone who is accustomed to having guys fall all over her with very little effort on her part because of her looks, and I think she also comes from a pretty privileged background as well, right?  I think she's as nice as she needs to be to get along socially, but just not seeing a lot of true compassion, empathy or warmth from her.  Her lukewarm apology seemed forced to me because I doubt she's used to having to give one.  I may be totally wrong, but I suspect she has probably had it relatively easy all her life and treats people as if they're more or less disposable.  

ironcat wrote:
She just strikes me as someone who is accustomed to having guys fall all over her with very little effort on her part because of her looks, and I think she also comes from a pretty privileged background as well, right?  I think she's as nice as she needs to be to get along socially, but just not seeing a lot of true compassion, empathy or warmth from her.  Her lukewarm apology seemed forced to me because I doubt she's used to having to give one.  I may be totally wrong, but I suspect she has probably had it relatively easy all her life and treats people as if they're more or less disposable.  

IWouldMarryAshleyI wrote:As silly as this sounds, now I'm considering she isnt that bad after all. Maybe she just was talking to two guys she liked before the show. Probably not the greatest move, but many people have talked to two different love interests at the same time.

Maybe she was half joking when she sent those texts and she didnt realize that Joe was just going to be a jerk about it.

She didnt care about Juelia because they werent as close as Juelia made them out to be. They were just fellow bachelorette friends. Not BFFs. ?

And if Juelia gave her permission beforehand, why would she let Juelia accuse Joe without allowing him to defend himself?

And then later on she actually realizes that he did actually screw over Juelia, although him dumping her should not be a big deal (ideally), he went about manipulating her in the wrong way.

So then she distances herself from Joe.

Believable?

Seabear wrote:Samantha is the beautiful privileged girl who is used to getting her own way. Her looks are a tool she knows how to use to entice and manipulate others. IMO she is so spoiled and self involved that she has very little self awareness. She seems to always see herself as right and sees herself above others. I do not believe her apologies are sincere. I do think she is Sorry....Sorry she went in BIP and by showing herself got a "Bad Edit." Poor Sam such a victim. Not.

Regarding Dan's continued support of Samantha. I think Dan is hanging onto the hope for his "happily ever after" with Sam. After all Dan believes he and Samantha have the most in common and the best chance for being a real couple in RL. Whatever.  JMO