The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Shawn Booth - #10 - Media - Tweets - IG - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

Kashathediva wrote:She said there was pre-FS sex. Several sources report there was FS sex.
I can not recall if she actually said there was, however she does not refute the sources or anyone referring to the FS sex.
In the FS the cameras leave, showing them in bed and then showing the next morning breakfasting together in different clothes, so it is simply highly suggestive but not conclusive.
I know if a constantly reported untruth were told about myself, I would correct it. Ben H corrected that he did not have sex in the FS after another source said she had sex with all 3.

Ok, it totally makes sense now why S and K love Ben H so much and are promoting him to be the next TB. 1) He's not Nick and 2) He never slept with K. (It was an unwritten agreement between the 3 of them, for sure.)
For Ben H's sake, I hope he quickly distances himself from S and K. They are so beneath him. Maybe leaving the country is his strategy.

Shawn and Ben are best friends so that is probably why he loves him. And when did Ben confirm sex never happened?

lexforlife wrote:Apparently Nick thought Kaitlyn was good enough to want forever with her. The girl just enjoys life-that's an admirable trait and just as the multiple sex is just hear-say and not confirmed,  there might have been behind the scenes stuff we are not privy to. I  try to keep my "in depth knowledge of these pple surface level" since I  don't know them at all. All of them including Nick should go somewhere far away from my tv,I wouldn't mind not seeing any of them on my tv again , JMO.

And even if she did have sex with them all it really doesnt seem to matter now. Shawn is fine with it, she is fine with it, Nick is fine with it. Its their prerogative and their lives to navigate. I persnally would have a problem being with smene who had sex with multiple women days before me but as i am not the bachelorette nor is this my relationship, i have learned to not dwell on it, not be bothered by it and not be judgemental about it. Each to his own. Nick seems t have moved on which is good for him. K and S seem to be enjoying and living their lives on their own terms which is equally good for them

Let peace and tolerance reign

Kaitlyn said during the FRC that at the moment every thing they did was real. The time off camera, the overnight date, paraphrasing, which to me meant FS sex. Putting off camera time in the same sentence as the overnight date, as being real, IMO meant yeah, I enjoyed our sex.

I love your signature See2love and I agree with you completely. Their lives, we live and let live.

iamreal2u wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:She said there was pre-FS sex. Several sources report there was FS sex.
I can not recall if she actually said there was, however she does not refute the sources or anyone referring to the FS sex.
In the FS the cameras leave, showing them in bed and then showing the next morning breakfasting together in different clothes, so it is simply highly suggestive but not conclusive.
I know if a constantly reported untruth were told about myself, I would correct it. Ben H corrected that he did not have sex in the FS after another source said she had sex with all 3.

This is the thing.  Some of what was reported were not true so who really knows.  Why not imply that she had sex again with Nick many times wasn't that the storyline.  Ben H did come forward and say that it wasn't true but not sure if anyone else would have IMO.

My speculation only:
IF K had only had sex with Nick one time, this was something she could have stated and hung on to showing actual remorse and guilt. "I made a mistake. From that point on, I knew and changed." blah blah.
She had ample chances to correct this situation. Ample. She chose not to. Why? If it was true, there would be no further issue leading to so much more via SM slamming. Ben corrected his FS mistruth. I think Nick would have also had it not been true. I believe K definitely would have.
She did not correct the "myth" because it was true.
If she had tried to defend herself and said it had been one mistake and she moved on, it would have opened up a pandora's box that would have crucified her, if it were lying. So she stayed quiet and presented the idea of the mistake being she told Shawn too early on he was the one.
Was that a mistake, yes, she admitted that. Did she admit sleeping with Nick as a mistake? No. She stated the timing was and dropped it justifying what she did as being her journey. I agree with that, personally. It was.
She never attempted to rectify the presentation of having sex with Nick multiple times and I believe there are solid reasons why.

MiaHawk wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:She said there was pre-FS sex. Several sources report there was FS sex.
I can not recall if she actually said there was, however she does not refute the sources or anyone referring to the FS sex.
In the FS the cameras leave, showing them in bed and then showing the next morning breakfasting together in different clothes, so it is simply highly suggestive but not conclusive.
I know if a constantly reported untruth were told about myself, I would correct it. Ben H corrected that he did not have sex in the FS after another source said she had sex with all 3.

Ok, it totally makes sense now why S and K love Ben H so much and are promoting him to be the next TB. 1) He's not Nick and 2) He never slept with K. (It was an unwritten agreement between the 3 of them, for sure.)
For Ben H's sake, I hope he quickly distances himself from S and K. They are so beneath him. Maybe leaving the country is his strategy.  

love this!
I do wonder how Ben feels about his BFF Shawn with his recent media tour. Doesn't to me seem like it would be Ben's cup of tea. And if B wants the bachelor deal part of his support for K and S is that they support him.

I assumed B also had sex with K. If he has denied that being true that would be all the more reason for S to support him. He can't however refer to him as an Eskimo bro'... just a bro'.

Kind of OT, I thought Shawn's BFF is Dr Chris? No, it's Ben H?

^^ I think both.  He mentioned that he speaks with Chris and Ben almost daily.

sdmom wrote:Kind of OT, I thought Shawn's BFF is Dr Chris? No, it's Ben H?

My understanding is that Ben H was his roommate throughout the process, so it stands to reason why they would be friends. Shawn & Dr Chris both live in Nashville so I think they've gotten closer post filming.

The "real man" stuff comes from being the type of guy who brags about being Eskimo brothers with a country singer. He bragged that he "banged" her first. That type of guy always puts up a protest when they find out they are getting what they and others like them consider sloppy seconds.

Cecilia wrote:Shawn drinking straight from a bottle of wine, Kaitlyn in her underwear, a random guy in their room. I'm all for a fun night but I have no idea why this is what they are sharing with the public.

Because they are in the moment? LOL
To me, it's disgusting. How old are they? DUH. We never saw any such thing with Ashley and JP ( my favorites ). IMHO Kaitlyn is going to regret this adolescent behavior later rather than sooner.