Finale and After the Final Rose Spoilers - Bachelorette 7 - Discussion

Nativenewyorker wrote:

Coastal wrote:

Pattycake92 wrote:It sucks that Ben proposed and I'm sick about it. But maybe he should have gotten confirmation of her feelings before hand. I have to give it to Ed, he was one smart cookie asking first. Ben took a chance and u can't blame Ashley for that. JMO

Yes, you can blame Ashley for a portion of it........She allowed him to continue.......when he first went down on knee.........she should of immediately stopped it. That is what I blame her for..........it's called respect for someone that she says that she really cares for.

Dare I say.........if JP was the F2 and things happened the way they did with Ben.........this board would be alive with anger regarding how Ashley handled things but because it was Ben as the F2, the JP fans are fine with things to the point that they are saying that we should all cut the new couple some slack..........talk about a double standard here.

Okay, let's get real here! If it was JP who was F2 and rejected after proposing and he "stormed" off the way Ben did, we all know what we would be reading here! It would be all about how - I told you so! - JP was a psycho all along and this proves it, I was right, my sources warned all of you and here is the proof! So let's please not be insulting with this hypocrisy. Now that it's Ben, suddenly it's the crime of the ages. One would think that Ashley committed a capital offense! Oh my goodness! She didn't stop him before he proposed! Off to the gallows with her! Honestly, this is getting more aburd by the moment. This cherry picking of the faults of the guy you don't want to be F1 and then more cherry picking and accusing the lead of now being heartless to the core because she didn't pick your guy, is like a kid having a temper tantrum because he didn't get his way!

Gina wrote:Just for effing clarification NONE OF US WERE THERE AT THE FRC, NOT ONE SINGLE MEMBER! geez a whiz

richlp wrote:

Gina wrote:Just for effing clarification NONE OF US WERE THERE AT THE FRC, NOT ONE SINGLE MEMBER! geez a whiz

...except Fijiman...

richlp wrote:

Gina wrote:Just for effing clarification NONE OF US WERE THERE AT THE FRC, NOT ONE SINGLE MEMBER! geez a whiz

...except Fijiman...

Reality Mary wrote:Pattycake isn't blaming anyone, she is expressing her opinion about what happened.
That is how these sites work. We talk, we express ideas and opinions and everyone has the right to agree or disagree. No one person is able to judge our ideas right or wrong.
This is a dialogue about the final rose ceremony, so let us get back to it.

AND in my opinion Ashley probably was so stunned at Ben's proposal she had the old deer in the headlight moment when you just freeze. I know I have had situations where I just froze up running into my ex and it stopped me in my tracks. I could not move, talk, or get away, just stood there. Not fun.

Reality Mary wrote:Stop this nonsense. We all have a right to OUR OPINIONS and do not have the right to judge others for their opinions. Ironcat can express her opinion and we should allow her to do so.

This is getting as old as company after five days...it stinks.

Let's just have some good old talk about how great it is to finally have a love story to read about. :loveboat:

Coastal wrote:

Gina wrote:

Reality Mary wrote:Stop this nonsense. We all have a right to OUR OPINIONS and do not have the right to judge others for their opinions. Ironcat can express her opinion and we should allow her to do so.

This is getting as old as company after five days...it stinks.

Let's just have some good old talk about how great it is to finally have a love story to read about. :loveboat:

Agree Mary. Thankfully 95% of the members are this board are not like that. too bad one fart can stink up a whole room.

Thanks for the attack once again Gina..........get a life before you judge others.............no one on here knows me personally yet you are full of judgements and bull crap. Before getting on my case, why don't you try my shoes on and walk a block in them............bet you couldn't handle it.