Nick Viall - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion #5

t is very possible that Andi and Kait have shared notes on Nick.  Maybe Kait did not feel so special if he said the same things to Andi.  Then, you have Nick commiserating with her good friend Whitney at a bar for two hours.   Andi is /was jealous of Nick's interactions with Kait. She wanted him to be devasted about only her.  I am a woman, but most women I know are not happy about ex- boyfriends dating girlfriends.  Who knows what Shawn has said about Nick's comments/actions?  Maybe he did contact her up to snapchat, not knowing the ending and it made her uncomfortable, especially with jealous Shawn.  She may just be trying to have people like her, and seeing the hate, feels if she disses Nick and calls it a f$&@king mistake, she will be back in good graces.  Like others here, I was struck by the video in which she gets the Nick hate now.  Kaitlyn does not seem very strong to me; she is more of a go with the flow, take the easiest path type of person.  Still think ADHD Kait and Nick would not have lasted long-term anyway.  Different goals and different intellect, despite both liking movie quotes.  Despite this, I would love it if I was totally foiled and she ends up with him, doing a complete Mesnick.

Kait called sleeping with Nick a f%#! mistake during filming, not after. She was probably that upset thinking Shawn is leaving her over this or will leave her. She's taken the stance post-show that she can have sex as a single woman and no one should judge her. I don't know what she thinks privately or what she's told Shawn privately, but publicly, she's not calling it a mistake.

I get that she has not said it post- show, but IMO, her recent interviews give that impression. Again, actions not matching words and vice-versa. However, I stand corrected. She did not verbally call it a mistake, yet.

She can't/won't call it a mistake publicly. Everyone who watches knows she slept with Nick. If she publicly calls sleeping with Nick a mistake, she's essentially telling everyone she didn't pick Nick. 

Also, I do believe that she's genuine in regards to feeling like women can do what they want with their bodies, so while she might regret doing it with Nick, I don't see her ever stating that publicly. Whether she had to say these things for the sake of the show or not, it would make her look ridiculous if she repeatedly said one thing for two months, and then completely changed her previous point.

Kashathediva wrote:Per Alanna

Kait called sleeping with Nick a f%#! mistake during filming, not after. She was probably that upset thinking Shawn is leaving her over this or will leave her. She's taken the stance post-show that she can have sex as a single woman and no one should judge her. I don't know what she thinks privately or what she's told Shawn privately, but publicly, she's not calling it a mistake.

peggy0221 wrote:Kasha, it should be thread #5

Rolly wrote:And if she lets Nick get down on one knee and propose I will lose a lot of respect for her. Especially since honesty is supposedly so important to her and she knows what it felt like to be let go and be totally taken off guard when it happened. I have no doubt that TPTB would love a proposal with a rejection and will do whatever it takes to make that happen.JMOAA.