The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - #9 - Media - Tweets - IG - *Sleuthing - Spoilers* - Discussion

remockered wrote:If it had not been for Kaitlyn's self- spoilers (snapchatgate and subsequent blogs/snapchats) I would have thought she ended up with Nick or no one.  Ncik was the only one where intimacy was blatant, including the morning after, which we never saw with Shawn.  Nick is the only one she responded to when he said ILY, with "promise?"  Nick seems to be the only person she is not tense around and can be herself.  However, I think the real spoiler was that after Nick came, she went to Shawn's room; otherwise, if she was really serious about Nick, it would have been "game over" once he arrived.  This whole season has been FUBAR, IMO.  What is even more bizarre, is that Nick's family has been supportive of Kaitlyn.  

CHO wrote:

remockered wrote:If it had not been for Kaitlyn's self- spoilers (snapchatgate and subsequent blogs/snapchats) I would have thought she ended up with Nick or no one.  Ncik was the only one where intimacy was blatant, including the morning after, which we never saw with Shawn.  Nick is the only one she responded to when he said ILY, with "promise?"  Nick seems to be the only person she is not tense around and can be herself.  However, I think the real spoiler was that after Nick came, she went to Shawn's room; otherwise, if she was really serious about Nick, it would have been "game over" once he arrived.  This whole season has been FUBAR, IMO.  What is even more bizarre, is that Nick's family has been supportive of Kaitlyn.  

There's a lot of bizarre in this season.  If you are falling in love - how can you want to sleep with someone else - multiple times.  How can you say - when I am with the other person (Nick) , I get lost in that world and can think of nothing else.  When you love someone and want to take care of them and "protect" them, how can you say the other person makes me feel like a desired woman ?  If you truly are opposed to cyber-bullying, if you believe that people should try to see the best in each person and not pre-judge, how can you possibly be with someone like Shawn after his tirades about and with Nick? 

I would hope that K's eyes were opened after viewing the show ...

remockered wrote:I think the real spoiler was that after Nick came, she went to Shawn's room; otherwise, if she was really serious about Nick, it would have been "game over" once he arrived.

Lucas15 wrote:

remockered wrote:I think the real spoiler was that after Nick came, she went to Shawn's room; otherwise, if she was really serious about Nick, it would have been "game over" once he arrived.

I'm going to quote something I think Alanna posted on this very subject - having sex with Nick in Dublin should have been the end of her relationship with Shawn if she had deep feelings for Nick. Instead, it was the end of her relationship with Nick. This IMO was indeed the real spoiler.
JMO

SueSt wrote:

CHO wrote:

remockered wrote:If it had not been for Kaitlyn's self- spoilers (snapchatgate and subsequent blogs/snapchats) I would have thought she ended up with Nick or no one.  Ncik was the only one where intimacy was blatant, including the morning after, which we never saw with Shawn.  Nick is the only one she responded to when he said ILY, with "promise?"  Nick seems to be the only person she is not tense around and can be herself.  However, I think the real spoiler was that after Nick came, she went to Shawn's room; otherwise, if she was really serious about Nick, it would have been "game over" once he arrived.  This whole season has been FUBAR, IMO.  What is even more bizarre, is that Nick's family has been supportive of Kaitlyn.  

There's a lot of bizarre in this season.  If you are falling in love - how can you want to sleep with someone else - multiple times.  How can you say - when I am with the other person (Nick) , I get lost in that world and can think of nothing else.  When you love someone and want to take care of them and "protect" them, how can you say the other person makes me feel like a desired woman ?  If you truly are opposed to cyber-bullying, if you believe that people should try to see the best in each person and not pre-judge, how can you possibly be with someone like Shawn after his tirades about and with Nick? 

I would hope that K's eyes were opened after viewing the show ...

CHO, some really good points here, but I also have to chock up some of the schizophrenia you note up to the format of the show.  K's dating multiple men moving towards a proposal.... as are the men.  That format would naturally bring out over the top emotions and actions from all parties.  

Still, IA, Shawn and his tirades are worrying... I wonder if CH will address it with S or K.  Normally the F1 comes out and it's just flowers and cotton candy...  e.g., the F1 normally gets a freer pass on their behavior... I guess we'll see...  

SueSt wrote:

CHO wrote:

remockered wrote:If it had not been for Kaitlyn's self- spoilers (snapchatgate and subsequent blogs/snapchats) I would have thought she ended up with Nick or no one.  Ncik was the only one where intimacy was blatant, including the morning after, which we never saw with Shawn.  Nick is the only one she responded to when he said ILY, with "promise?"  Nick seems to be the only person she is not tense around and can be herself.  However, I think the real spoiler was that after Nick came, she went to Shawn's room; otherwise, if she was really serious about Nick, it would have been "game over" once he arrived.  This whole season has been FUBAR, IMO.  What is even more bizarre, is that Nick's family has been supportive of Kaitlyn.  

There's a lot of bizarre in this season.  If you are falling in love - how can you want to sleep with someone else - multiple times.  How can you say - when I am with the other person (Nick) , I get lost in that world and can think of nothing else.  When you love someone and want to take care of them and "protect" them, how can you say the other person makes me feel like a desired woman ?  If you truly are opposed to cyber-bullying, if you believe that people should try to see the best in each person and not pre-judge, how can you possibly be with someone like Shawn after his tirades about and with Nick? 

I would hope that K's eyes were opened after viewing the show ...

CHO, some really good points here, but I also have to chock up some of the schizophrenia you note up to the format of the show.  K's dating multiple men moving towards a proposal.... as are the men.  That format would naturally bring out over the top emotions and actions from all parties.  

Still, IA, Shawn and his tirades are worrying... I wonder if CH will address it with S or K.  Normally the F1 comes out and it's just flowers and cotton candy...  e.g., the F1 normally gets a freer pass on their behavior... I guess we'll see...  

soccermom333 wrote:^^^ I don't think TPTB will venture too far away from their usual routine.  Hehe!  They are NOT that clever.  A segment with Kait, one with Nick then Nick and Kait together.  Finally the happy couple and what their plans are.  I think Kait is moving!  JMO Also, maybe Ben H. is there for an announcement.  

soccermom333 wrote:^^^ I don't think TPTB will venture too far away from their usual routine.  Hehe!  They are NOT that clever.  A segment with Kait, one with Nick then Nick and Kait together.  Finally the happy couple and what their plans are.  I think Kait is moving!  JMO Also, maybe Ben H. is there for an announcement.  

soccermom333 wrote:Well the good news is the ATFR is only one hour and then Kait and shawn are off to GMA.  They won't have to put up with TPTB bu@@sh** for too long.