The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Epi 9 July 13th - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

AllAboutLove wrote: I think Kaitlyn lives so "in the moment" she forgets there are repercussions for what she does...:

looks like that...  

AllAboutLove wrote:Imo, her behavior is completely inconsiderate and selfish and to just claim it is just being "in the moment".

Well, she is doing the show...what is she suppose to do??? All show is  about Nick vs Shawn, now she just have to play it to the end! They wouldn't let her do anything else! Who she was suppose to keep for F2?
Though it's very painful to watch...
But this is how it goes every season, we know it well by now! What is knew?  
They do edit it the way that it looks like she might end up with Nick, but again, nothing new... :strings1

sbolduc wrote:
Onto the families, both great families. Bella crying actually broke my heart. I think that Kailtyn knew it was Shawn the moment he said ILY. She grabbed his face and responded to it so strongly. That is why she broke down because I actually think she thought it might have been Nick until that moment and she realized what Nick's mom said "my thought it why you would bring him all this way to F2 and dump him".

In Chris Harrison's latest interview, he actually said that Kaitlyn was in love with both of them. That could obviously be him just making stuff up to build up suspense for the show, but he has in the past given away the storyline for a finale (said that Chris's finale was not a fairytale happy ending, said that Brooks was not in love with Des, etc), so it's possible he's telling the truth and Kaitlyn reacted that way because she realized that she loved them both when Shawn told her. It's also possible that her crying was completely unrelated to that, because I can't imagine that Shawn or Nick didn't say ILY off-camera at the FSD. Especially Shawn. I also think if she was really just crying about knowing it's Shawn and hurting Nick, she would be pretty checked out with Nick in the finale and it didn't seem like that from the promos.

Obviously, we'll have a much clearer picture in two weeks, but, for some reason, I do think that she was conflicted and had strong feelings for Nick. She seems to really go out of her way to not talk about him now, whereas she openly compliments all her other guys. I just don't think it was an easy break-up for her, but we'll see!

LenaActually wrote:Becca is live-tweeting the show. Looks like Shawn has at least one bff's approval:

What is it with women thinking a man acting jealous/possessive is love??  Sad, imo.

Chasingpavements wrote:I just don't think it was an easy break-up for her

Ugh, I hope Nick didn't take the bait and get really really upset at the FRC. Not looking forward to that epi...

AllAboutLove wrote:

LenaActually wrote:Becca is live-tweeting the show. Looks like Shawn has at least one bff's approval:

What is it with women thinking a man acting jealous/possessive is love??  Sad, imo.

Wait a sec - it just struck me: knowing Becca's style of sm, could her tweet have been sarcastic? Because I was thinking while watching his scenes "yea right, Shawn just loves Shawn."

AllAboutLove wrote:

LenaActually wrote:

What is it with women thinking a man acting jealous/possessive is love??  Sad, imo.

I don't think she meant that...though I don't know Becca that well to be sure about that...

BKay wrote:If K had seen the side of S that we saw tonight during his "talk" with Nick, she would have run fast and far. Can you imagine trying to resolve relationship issues with someone who won't let you speak, but just keeps yelling and over-talking when you try to respond? He couldn't express anything concrete, but was just emotional and acting like a school yard bully.

After watching this, she may think he'd never be that way with her, but I would bet he will. I've been there, done that and it only gets worse as time goes on.

ITA. Seen relationships like this firsthand and when things are good they are really good...but when things are bad they are really bad.
I don't see this lasting no matter how good things may presently be. jmho

soccermom333 wrote:^^^ My viewing party actually likes shawn and his family, and think Nick will be blindsided.  I guess different strokes.    I actually think Kait knew it was shawn awhile ago and was crying knowing what she had to do with Nick.  I wonder if TPTB offered more money if she let him propose??  

So they offered her more money if she would let Nick propose...and she does it. Why does that not shock me? Who does that kind of thing? Oh yeah....I know...the Bachelorette. And she doesn't have a job after all so it totally makes sense. #haveyounoshame

^^^ Regarding Becca's tweet... watching Becca's live Periscope while she was watching the episode and just from her face you could see she was freaked out by how Shawn (and Nick) were.

Becca has a more mellow personality so I would think seeing that side of her nugget, Kaitlyn's fiance was probably not so great.

I always keep in mind that Becca supported Whitney post-show especially around the time of the breakup rumors for Whit and CS.

I think she would do the same for Kaitlyn... will have to see whether she supports Shawn too and for how long. May be telling as it was with Whit.

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