Ben Higgins - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion #2

albean99 wrote:I like Tenley more than I like Ben H. If he's not interested in her he's a big boy and can let her know, especially if he's going to be the next lead.

I like them both, and I agree .

Alanna wrote:

loveactually9 wrote:The diff between Tenley and Kaitlyn here is that Tenley is pursuing him and seems a tad bit more desperate.

A tad?!?! Kait acts like she's 20 and has her whole life ahead to kiss cute boys, Ten acts like she's post menopause, the ship has sailed and the cats are scratching at the door loudly. She really needs to stop chasing Ben or any of these Bach boys and go on match or Christian mingle or whatever and stop this craziness and embarrassment already. IMO of course.

OMG Alanna, we agree! Tenley the bachelor has not worked for you, you are now 0/4 on bachelor related relationships if we count Joshua. Step away from MF picked suitors and try the real world. Each continued dalliance in bachelor world and dating to me is just sadder and sadder. If she actually likes Ben H, have a stinking conversation with him directly and stop telling the world. Her over sharing of her Ben H love is almost bullying to me, please everyone tell him to pick me, it is pathetic.

How do we know Tenley is pursuing Ben H? All because pictures? She did defend herself when people thought she was dating JJ.

I still think Ben H will be the next bachelor unless he doesn't sign. Then I think TPTB has a backup in Ben Z.

california90 wrote:How do we know Tenley is pursuing Ben H? All because pictures? She did defend herself when people thought she was dating JJ.

I still think Ben H will be the next bachelor unless he doesn't sign. Then I think TPTB has a backup in Ben Z.

I believe she has talked about liking him on periscope and that she doesn't want him to be the next bachelor, he can do better. It is so high school to me. This is a guy she has met multiple times already. Have the conversation that you like him with him, not with everyone else you know on a SM app.

california90 wrote:How do we know Tenley is pursuing Ben H? All because pictures? She did defend herself when people thought she was dating JJ.

I still think Ben H will be the next bachelor unless he doesn't sign. Then I think TPTB has a backup in Ben Z.

In Clare's periscope after the MTA she was in the background texting Ben H to join them (ironically, Josh was too ). Then last week when she had lunch with JJ, she sent a video of them at lunch to Ben. Add to that her gushing about how cute Ben is and how he loves Jesus in her other Periscopes, I would say she has a huge crush.

loveactually9 wrote:

california90 wrote:How do we know Tenley is pursuing Ben H? All because pictures? She did defend herself when people thought she was dating JJ.

I still think Ben H will be the next bachelor unless he doesn't sign. Then I think TPTB has a backup in Ben Z.

In Clare's periscope after the MTA she was in the background texting Ben H to join them (ironically, Josh was too ). Then last week when she had lunch with JJ, she sent a video of them at lunch to Ben. Add to that her gushing about how cute Ben is and how he loves Jesus in her other Periscopes, I would say she has a huge crush.

 Oh god. I don't blame her for having a crush but this is OTT. What does she stand to gain by gushing about him on periscope? I wonder if he even realizes she's interested.

And if he is not interested then you just look really silly with all the gushing. She claims she would not go back on the bachelor, but if he is picked I bet TPTB try really hard to get her to change her mind. Seriously, she has done three already, why not four?

albean99 wrote:I like Tenley more than I like Ben H. If he's not interested in her he's a big boy and can let her know, especially if he's going to be the next lead.

I'm sure that he will not lead her on if he is not interested.
Unfortunately, Tenleech has a history of not getting the message when it comes to men.

Run, Ben! Run far away!

Tenleech

What did she say in that Clare periscope that made people believe she texted Ben to join them? Same with Joshua?

Why are people picking on Tenley for having a crush on Ben H, when half of Bachelor Nation also has a crush on him... including me.

OnePromise wrote:Why are people picking on Tenley for having a crush on Ben H, when half of Bachelor Nation also has a crush on him... including me.  

Crushing is one thing, the man is hot. If you could talk to him in person and instead chose to talk about him on SM, then I would make fun of you too. I think it is the repeated mentions, the "he shouldn't be the bachelor, he deserves better". This is a guy she has now had pictures taken with multiple times. Pursue him face to face, not via SM. JMO.