Ben Higgins - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion #2

Kashathediva wrote:In all fairness isn't his ex like 23?

Even better I think she's 22

Ok. I grant her some slack then. She does need to explore her options. Maybe it was not finessed well, I don't know, but if it's meant to be it will.

I agree with young love sometimes you need the chance to make sure. If you love something set it free, if it comes back it is yours forever and if it doesn't it never really was.

loveactually9 wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:In all fairness isn't his ex like 23?

Even better I think she's 22

That is very young still.

Kashathediva wrote:Ok. I give her grant her some slack then. She does need to explore her options. Maybe it was not finessed well, I don't know, but if it's meant to be it will.

IA. And Ben said they had broken up for 2 years? So when she was 20 and he was 23?

stuckinsc wrote:I agree with young love sometimes you need the chance to make sure. If you love something set it free, if it comes back it is yours forever and if it doesn't it never really was.

Yup, As Kasha said, if it is meant to be it will be. Ben H still had his photos of his ex on his Twitter while the show aired until halfway through.

If there are still feelings there they will still be there whether Ben is TB or not. So if he wants to figure that out best to do so now or at least gain some closure because it didn't seem like Ben had closure, imo.

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Ben H and Dr Chris doing the hard work carrying their bros on their back.
That's nice guys for you. J/k

Really though, they both seem like very nice guys.

If Ben is the bachelor it is gonna be a boring season have to look for something else to watch from now.

^We haven't even seen him as the bachelor yet.

reason wrote:If Ben is the bachelor it is gonna be a boring season have to look for something else to watch from now.

I would prefer boring to this disaster. And I think there is a quick wit and funny guy in Ben. We never saw it because his name wasn't Shawn or Nick and he decided to be an adult and stay out of their crap.

I also like that Ben doesn't seem to be addicted to SM like most of these people. It was something I admired about Nick too. We got some stuff, but weren't overloaded. I am sick of these reality TV people who share everything. It is just too much for my taste. I have no desire to know that much about any of these people. I neither need nor want daily or more frequent updates from them, every now and then is okay with me. But to me the oversharers seem to me to want as many followers as possible so they get free products to endorse and free trips. I am kind of tired of people whose only talent is being on reality TV and posting on SM.

Ben H has a real job, goes to church, and works with his dad on his own house. So far so good to me.

So, when are they going to announce this cutie as TB?

I hope at AFTR.