The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Epi 6 Jun 22nd - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

mysthelma wrote:For the life of me the tptb are a bunch of perverts to continue filming such an intimate act of two consenting adults. I am disgusted. It's totally distasteful and classless. I wanted alone time and they should have respected it, they had every intention of giving K the slutty bêtte edit and it bugs me. They should be ashamed of themselves

TV reality IS about shaming contestants, no question about it. This is how they make money, to ridicule and push the drama to the max. This is not real life, it is a TV show with producers and handlers all around who have a script and will use people to fit their places in the chess.

no fairytale here

So on timeline let me get this straight. Nick has another 1 on 1 date in Cobh, Kennedy Park. Then is one of F2 AND has a fantasy suite date. Shawn only has the fantasy suite date coming up? Baffling how she could have chosen Shawn. Spending more one on one time with Nick does indicate as Shawn said, and rightly so, Kaitlyn's actions do not match her words......

Then there are the screen caps of Shawn going to Kaitlyn's door in maroon stripe shirt and in her bed, or is that the fantasy suite bed? She is just keeping things fair, right? So continues to have "intimacy" with both until the very end, Whew!!!!

Wonder of wonders why Ben H. stayed till F3. They did filming in his hometown around the end of season so the producers probably said stay & we'll make you next bachelor. Guess we'll see.

mysthelma wrote:For the life of me the tptb are a bunch of perverts to continue filming such an intimate act of two consenting adults. I am disgusted. It's totally distasteful and classless. I wanted alone time and they should have respected it, they had every intention of giving K the slutty bêtte edit and it bugs me. They should be ashamed of themselves

It's called good TV.

I don't think they gave her a slutty edit. She did THAT to herself. She invited Nick to sleep with her. Nothing wrong with having a little "poke in the whiskers"....BUT not if you're telling Shawn that he's the one, a couple of days earlier....A person like that cannot be trusted.

My problem is with her real life character. The stuff on TV just makes good drama, but the way she acted by ignoring and backstabbing Shawn is WRONG....so I'm glad it was all on audio, because I wouldn't believe it otherwise, because WHO DOES THAT? Only a backstabbing, shady person.

A woman and a men can have all the s ex they want-that comes and goes. CHARACTER and TRUST are traits forever.

HEA wrote:

mysthelma wrote:For the life of me the tptb are a bunch of perverts to continue filming such an intimate act of two consenting adults. I am disgusted. It's totally distasteful and classless. I wanted alone time and they should have respected it, they had every intention of giving K the slutty bêtte edit and it bugs me. They should be ashamed of themselves

TV reality IS about shaming contestants, no question about it. This is how they make money, to ridicule and push the drama to the max. This is not real life, it is a TV show with producers and handlers all around who have a script and will use people to fit their places in the chess.

no fairytale here

Well I get that it's a reality show but forgive me if the premise of this show is to find love with a fareytale ending.

Anyone who still believes the show is really about a fairytail ending is seriously drinking TPTB koolaid. Sure it looks good for them if the show ends that way, but the process of getting there and all the drama that happens on the way is really what the show is about, and why most people tune in to it.

mysthelma wrote:

HEA wrote:

mysthelma wrote:For the life of me the tptb are a bunch of perverts to continue filming such an intimate act of two consenting adults. I am disgusted. It's totally distasteful and classless. I wanted alone time and they should have respected it, they had every intention of giving K the slutty bêtte edit and it bugs me. They should be ashamed of themselves

TV reality IS about shaming contestants, no question about it. This is how they make money, to ridicule and push the drama to the max. This is not real life, it is a TV show with producers and handlers all around who have a script and will use people to fit their places in the chess.

no fairytale here

Well I get that it's a reality show but forgive me if the premise of this show is to find love with a fareytale ending.

I think the premise of the show changed when they traded the catch phrase "the most romantic' for "the most dramatic".

I have never seen a contestant with their hands all over the lead before. Nick had his hand up her sweater at the bar and a few other strange places. It may have been done in the past but never shown but they were showing everything last nite and left nothing to the imagination.

mysthelma wrote:

HEA wrote:

mysthelma wrote:For the life of me the tptb are a bunch of perverts to continue filming such an intimate act of two consenting adults. I am disgusted. It's totally distasteful and classless. I wanted alone time and they should have respected it, they had every intention of giving K the slutty bêtte edit and it bugs me. They should be ashamed of themselves

TV reality IS about shaming contestants, no question about it. This is how they make money, to ridicule and push the drama to the max. This is not real life, it is a TV show with producers and handlers all around who have a script and will use people to fit their places in the chess.

no fairytale here

Well I get that it's a reality show but forgive me if the premise of this show is to find love with a fareytale ending.

this TV reality show is heavily scripted. Every contestants interviewed explained it. Dirty stories, sex stories came public sooner or later but no way this show is what it seems. Everyone has an agenda and finding love is the excuse of the show the last in the list of why contestants do participate. ... IMO

nannymargie wrote:I have never seen a contestant with their hands all over the lead before.  Nick had his hand up her sweater at the bar and a few other strange places.  It may have been done in the past but never shown but they were showing everything last nite and left nothing to the imagination.

The ratings were not good last season... so what is THE element public are ALWAYS starving for? SEX.

Scandal is excellent rating people......

heather_m_s wrote:Anyone who still believes the show is really about a fairytail ending is seriously drinking TPTB koolaid. Sure it looks good for them if the show ends that way, but the process of getting there and all the drama that happens on the way is really what the show is about, and why most people tune in to it.

nannymargie wrote:I have never seen a contestant with their hands all over the lead before.  Nick had his hand up her sweater at the bar and a few other strange places.  It may have been done in the past but never shown but they were showing everything last nite and left nothing to the imagination.

IMO Nick was very clearly "putting the make" on Kaitlyn - as if he wanted to "turn her on" and get her aroused. After all day of that the evening was predicable.

Lucas15 wrote:

nannymargie wrote:I have never seen a contestant with their hands all over the lead before.  Nick had his hand up her sweater at the bar and a few other strange places.  It may have been done in the past but never shown but they were showing everything last nite and left nothing to the imagination.

IMO Nick was very clearly "putting the make" on Kaitlyn - as if he wanted to "turn her on" and get her aroused. After all day of that the evening was predicable.

Heck, he had been doing that since their first few kisses. That scene of them kissing outdoors in his first episode I believe where he's pulling away so she can essentially chase his lips to kiss him again makes me want to gag

I wouldn't be with my boyfriend right now if he tried to kiss me like that after knowing me in person for less than 24 hours. I would like to be treated like a lady. I don't need a bedroom kiss after basically not knowing me at all. Have some class, Nick.