Re: The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - Epi 6 Jun 22nd - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

by Guest Mon Jun 22, 2015 11:34 pm

rosesrREd wrote:
Kashathediva wrote:Did it not bother anyone else to hear Shawn use the terminology: and then she will take 2 guys to the Fantasy Suite and "bang them".
To me this is not a very respectful way to talk about the woman you are in love with.

Exactly! If they are together, and that's a BIG IF, there is no way they are going to stay together.

Or, maybe it's history repeating itself. Last time, there were two leads, the guy ended up in a long-term abusive relationship. It seems like this time, the girl will also end up in a (emotionally) abusive relationship. I really hope not because I love Kaitlyn, but this dynamic terrifies me. For someone to be THAT possessive over someone they've spent maybe 24 hours with?

by AllAboutLove Mon Jun 22, 2015 11:34 pm

Yup. Posted the exact thing about Shawn saying regarding FS "bangs dudes".
It wasn't just the words it was the way he said them.
In fact, it is his tone about a lot of things that has bothered me about Shawn for a while now.

by mercieme Mon Jun 22, 2015 11:35 pm

Alanna wrote:BTW, I don't think Shawn watched, he's out with Cupcake and friends.

Good for Shawn, because i was for sure worried he might have a heart attack watching this episode. I also hope he warned his sweet dad not to watch tonight, frigging mess overall IMO.

by happygolucky Mon Jun 22, 2015 11:36 pm

Nick Viall ‏@viallnicholas28 23 minutes ago - Chicago, IL
If I kissed and told my guess is the mood of that group date would have been much much different #TheBachelorette #bachelorette

1) Nick didn't "tell"
2) Nick reported the date ... as all the guys/contestants have to after their 1:1s ...as did Shawn too (when someone said that Shawn had the same "privilege" to have some time alone)
3) Shawn had his 6/7 hours alone with Kaitlyn on their 1:1 the week before ... and I would safely assume, that "you're the one" was said after some deed.

by Ariela Mon Jun 22, 2015 11:37 pm

umngirl wrote:I liked this season a whole lot more when I thoughts Kaitlyn walked away happily single.

I agree.
Kaitlyn is behaving badly.
You don't tell one person that you're it and then sleep with another.
I don't have a problem with Kaitlyn sleeping with ALL of them as long as she would have kept it LIGHT and just exploring the dating.

Once you tell a person a la Shawn that he's the one, and you sleep with another, you are a sl*t not to be trusted.
Her words and actions DO NOT MATCH.

Run Shawn!

Let her get back with disgusting Nick!

by bilolo Mon Jun 22, 2015 11:37 pm

This whole thing is whack (in a Quentin way).

by AllAboutLove Mon Jun 22, 2015 11:38 pm

Are we sure that Shawn and Kaitlyn didn't sleep together before she did with Nick?

Because the way he is acting and him saying they had offcamera time makes me think that they may have and it wasn't caught on camera/microphone.

He has acted like she belongs to him in a way and so it would make sense if they were the first to sleep together. jmo

by luvstx Mon Jun 22, 2015 11:38 pm

Didn't the guys say that Shawn got extra time after the second group date? Am I forgetting something?

by isittrue Mon Jun 22, 2015 11:38 pm

Kind of glad tornado coverage pre-empted majority of the show. I missed all of Shawn's meltdown but what I read it does not look good for k and s. Not sure how they come out if this and serious wonder if snapshot is a hoax which they went along with.

by rosesrREd Mon Jun 22, 2015 11:38 pm

Ariela wrote:
Alanna wrote:It just doesn't stop:

Nick Viall ‏@viallnicholas28 54s54 seconds ago Chicago, IL
Sex is not shameful. Whether we admit it or not, sex is important part of many serious and meaningful relationships #TheBachelorette

Nick Viall ‏@viallnicholas28 33s33 seconds ago Chicago, IL
Despite what we have been led to believe, both men & women have an emotional connection to sex that we all should respect.#TheBachelorette

Bolded: Sure, sure....BUT Nick grosses me out, and I never thought of sex as GROSS until he and Kaitlyn slept together.
I don't find him attractive and definitely see how manipulative he is, just like when he had the ATFR rehearsed in telling Andi about sleeping together....He is one slick SOB. Stupid women.[/quo

To each their own. While Nick was very willing, it was Kaitlyn that pursued this sexapade with him, not the other way around. Also, he didn't tell anyone, and now it seems Shawn also got lucky with Kaitlyn as well.

by mercieme Mon Jun 22, 2015 11:39 pm

happygolucky wrote:Nick Viall ‏@viallnicholas28 23 minutes ago - Chicago, IL
If I kissed and told my guess is the mood of that group date would have been much much different #TheBachelorette #bachelorette

1) Nick didn't "tell"
2) Nick reported the date ... as all the guys/contestants have to after their 1:1s ...as did Shawn too (when someone said that Shawn had the same "privilege" to have some time alone)
3) Shawn had his 6/7 hours alone with Kaitlyn on their 1:1 the week before ... and I would safely assume, that "you're the one" was said after some deed.

Unfortunately for Nick most viewers are not savvy with how this TPTB edited the show tonight, it's just not good for him to defend himself or Kaitlyn which is why I think he should just stay off SM and not address the issue, he can't win regardless IMO. Heck you have Josh and Andi calling Nick out on SM tonight and they know how this show is edited, just really unfortunate for Nick but it is what it is at this point.

by Ariela Mon Jun 22, 2015 11:40 pm

AllAboutLove wrote:Yup. Posted the exact thing about Shawn saying regarding FS "bangs dudes".
It wasn't just the words it was the way he said them.
In fact, it is his tone about a lot of things that has bothered me about Shawn for a while now.

Oh puh-leeze. The guy is hurt not violent....Then again, I'd probably do an "Ian" on Kaitlyn if I were Shawn.

Nick and Kaitlyn deserve each other-both gross.

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