Kaitlyn Bristowe - Shawn Booth - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion

gatorfan1987 wrote:its not like nick is taking the high road either. he keeps bashing them in different mags.... people and us weekly come to mind.

albean99 wrote:I've seen a few posts saying Kaitlyn or K/S were "bullying" Nick and I have no clue what that's about. Have I missed something? I saw a couple of jokes about him throwing the ring. As far as underplaying Kaitlyn's feelings about the f2 what would you expect her to say? None of the leads will admit to having strong feelings for the f2 right up until the end and in most cases that's not even true. I'd probably be re-writing history also if I was stupid enough to do the show which I'm not. This will all die down now and there won't be questions about Nick and no interviews for anyone. And then there's BIP. I'm so ready. :Nod:

albean99 wrote:I've seen a few posts saying Kaitlyn or K/S were "bullying" Nick and I have no clue what that's about. Have I missed something? I saw a couple of jokes about him throwing the ring. As far as underplaying Kaitlyn's feelings about the f2 what would you expect her to say? None of the leads will admit to having strong feelings for the f2 right up until the end and in most cases that's not even true. I'd probably be re-writing history also if I was stupid enough to do the show which I'm not. This will all die down now and there won't be questions about Nick and no interviews for anyone. And then there's BIP. I'm so ready. :Nod:

Ladybug82 wrote:

luvlady345 wrote:The thing for me we ask these people who were on the show to let things go, the ones that actually lived through it....  But others on the sidelines can't let things go either, I don't have a problem with any of them saying whatever they want, they are human, it seems like once you go on a reality show, you are not suppose to have feelings or be human....

I guess I have to both agree and disagree.  Yes, we are all human and beautifully flawed, but we all need to be able to deal with and own those flaws.  I think people can say what they want as long as they're ready and willing to deal with the consequences and repercussions.  And most that are really controversial seem to be able to dish out the ugly and rude really well, but they can't take the heat that follow and often seem surprised they're receiving it.  

I was raised to say please and thank you, yes/no sir and m'am and in general to have manners.  So, I don't actually think you (a general you, not you specifically) should say everything you think.  Yes, you have the right and ability to, but there are somethings that should just be thought and not actually said aloud.  Yes, often times my snark, sarcasm and temper get the best of me on the board and real life and I say things that I shouldn't and regret later.  But I take responsibility for them, no matter how much I don't want to at times.  If I can't control the snark, sarcasm or temper, I confide in trusted friends and family...not tweet about it, write blogs or do multiple interviews on it.  Agreeing to disagree or learning to forgive and forget in order to move on is an important part of life.    

Sometimes, it surprises me at the lack of feels and manners these people show to each other, leads and the guys/girls alike.  And I'm not too much older than most that go on the show.  Maybe it's because I was raised in the rural south, where its more expected, but if I acted like some did, my parents would still come up with some sort of punishment for my lack of thought, decency and manners even as a grown adult.  

As always, this is all JMHO.  

albean99 wrote:I've seen a few posts saying Kaitlyn or K/S were "bullying" Nick and I have no clue what that's about. Have I missed something? I saw a couple of jokes about him throwing the ring. As far as underplaying Kaitlyn's feelings about the f2 what would you expect her to say? None of the leads will admit to having strong feelings for the f2 right up until the end and in most cases that's not even true. I'd probably be re-writing history also if I was stupid enough to do the show which I'm not. This will all die down now and there won't be questions about Nick and no interviews for anyone. And then there's BIP. I'm so ready. :Nod:

BlackHalo wrote:The Clint and JJ comments are way out of line. Give it a rest.