Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #4

Beach Lover wrote:

SueSt wrote:Interesting also that her love affair with Sharleen seems to have calmed down.  They were together every week (everyday?) on instagram for a while and now not so much.

I think that's because Sharleen has been in Canada the last few weeks doing an Opera, although I think she may be back in NYC now. Andi seems to have made a lot of new friends so she probably doesn't depend on just Sharleen for her social life anymore.  Maybe these new friends are single like her. It had to be getting hard to only hang out with married or engaged women all the time.

Thanks for the Sharleen update BL!

Just saw a video interview with Sean and Catherine where they talked a little about Andi's book. For those fans that were very confident that she would keep things classy, brace yourself. It sounds like it's going to be very "saucy". Catherine said Andi has shared parts with her and that it will be her "Fifty Shades of Gray" Hmm...sounds like she's definitely not shying away from talking sex. I'm sure some will love this, me not so much. Some things, like what went down between the sheets, should just stay private IMO.

http://www.wetpaint.com/sean-catherine-lowe-bachelor-nation-interview-1460344/?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=twitter

LOL at all the shade Catherine was throwing Josh's way - "I'm not suprised [he did another reality show]". I agree with Sean: it would be tough to be told "these are all the reasons you're single!". 

And, I'm suprised! I expected a lot of snark, but I didn't think she would be "50 shades of grey" saucy in the book. The last thing I want to do is read about Andi's bedroom activities with JP, Josh, Nick, and that random country music singer...but I'll probably still read it. I'll just cringe in secondhand embarrassment for the "saucy" parts, like I did with Courtney's book.

But I thought that stuff was supposed to be private! Isn't that what she said on the ATFR? Hypocrite. I never thought she was a classy woman so this doesn't surprise me in the least bit.

So Andi is trying to outsex Courtney? I said that she would need to bring up the sex quotient if she wanted anybody to read this book this far after her season.

Does anyone have any idea how well Courtney's book did? vs. Melissa'a vs. Sean's?

Definitely did better than Melissa's. I'm not sure how it compared to Sean's, but I would predict it did better. I think Andi's is probably going to perform very well too - you know everyone wants to know how Nick keeps getting these hot women to sleep with him. Jk! I just think it's going to provide a lot of gossip like Courtney's book and that's what the average Bachelor fan is going to be interested in.

ETA: I actually think Sean's book did better. I just quickly looked at their sales rank on Amazon and Sean's did better in all formats.

The ole' going below the belt routine?

I really think her desire for fame affects her brain. We all know who you got between the sheets with. There's no surprises and I really don't want the visuals. I wouldn't read that book if it was the last book on earth, and I love to read.

At least Courtney asked for permission from the people she talked about before talking about any sexual encounters. Hope Andi does the same! I'm not a fan of people sharing others' personal info like that. I definitely think that girls get it worse (no one is going to sl*t-shame JP or Josh after reading this like they did with Andi) but it's still their right to keep it private.  JMO.

I agree and hope she gives the guys a heads up but I kind of doubt she will since she doesn't seem to be on speaking terms with any of them. Will she really talk about all the guys she recently slept with, or just keep it to one or two?  The "Fifty shades" reference could just be about her and Josh, and maybe Nick. But I guess I would really be shocked if she talked about getting it on with JP since she was never actually outed for that. And for a woman that said it was awkward making out with guys on TV with her dad watching, is she going to ban Hy from reading her book?

IMO I don't care if you are male or female. If you're going to write a book about your sexual encounters and not ask permission of those involved, then you should expect to be vilified for it. She is the one who treated TOG like she wanted to injure him for announcing what they did, and now she is doing the very same thing, for profit. If TOG was writing the book I'm pretty sure he'd be more than vilified.

bluwavz wrote:But I thought that stuff was supposed to be private! Isn't that what she said on the ATFR? Hypocrite. I never thought she was a classy woman so this doesn't surprise me in the least bit.

I'm not surprised either, always know she is that mean girl who thoughts she is above everyone. And only when things not in her favour should be kept private, because this is MeAndi Dorfman, who thoughts she is the centre of the whole world.

And if she talks about the sex with Nick, she should apologies to him for demonized him for such a long time!!!!! Such a bxxxh.

Eh, I think Nick deserves it. He's the one that broke that rule in the first place. Never really understood that as it seems like he's not opposed to casual sex himself, but no sense in trying to figure out why people in this franchise do or say the things they do! That said, it would be silly for Andi to ask him permission when he didn't ask for hers. Now, when it comes to Josh or JP or any other ex-boyfriends or flings, she should 100% ask. This is all assuming she even talks about it. Who knows what makes the final draft? JMO.