Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #4

I don't know if I have actually heard andi apologise for anything...

She does feel the need to constantly put Nick down, so yeh I totally agree -- Nick still affects her in some way. Or maybe just all her exes do - jpg, nick, josh..

In saying all those things though, it must be hard to watch her ex on tv. and then imagine josh as the bach...oh goshh

She does not know any better. I agree she needs to learn some social skills. It seems she didn't even have friends before her stint on the bachelor. I pity her when Josh become the bachelor wonder how she will cope the whole season. She will be throwing shade on twitter that will be fan to see

mysthelma wrote:She does not know any better. I agree she needs to learn some social skills. It seems she didn't even have friends before her stint on the bachelor. I pity her when Josh become the bachelor wonder how she will cope the whole season. She will be throwing shade on twitter that will be fan to see

Watching Andi throw shade at Josh on SM will be the sole reason that I'll watch the Bach if it's Josh next season

kimberlyg wrote:Andi was heavy on the insinuation that JPG slept with all three of them and told her about Nikki/Clare while she was in the FS, and that's why she dumped him.

Clare also said on national TV that she had sex with JPG. I just don't understand why it's ok for some and not others to discuss sexual activity that took place, whether it's in the FS in a helicopter in the ocean or whatever.

mysthelma wrote:She does not know any better. I agree she needs to learn some social skills. It seems she didn't even have friends before her stint on the bachelor. I pity her when Josh become the bachelor wonder how she will cope the whole season. She will be throwing shade on twitter that will be fan to see

Not true at all. She's served as maid of honour in two weddings in the past year of her friends outside the show. Her friends outside the show seem to be private though and the few times Andi's posted pics of them and tagged them on instagram when you check their profile they're all private

GuardianAngel wrote:

kimberlyg wrote:Andi was heavy on the insinuation that JPG slept with all three of them and told her about Nikki/Clare while she was in the FS, and that's why she dumped him.

Clare also said on national TV that she had sex with JPG. I just don't understand why it's ok for some and not others to discuss sexual activity that took place, whether it's in the FS in a helicopter in the ocean or whatever.

And Courtney even wrote a book about her relationship with Ben F, and people actually bought it!

So maybe MeAndi knows how to not tell any details about her relationship with Josh in her new book?
If not, then she just slapped her own face too and I love how she made herself a fool, haha.

GuardianAngel wrote:

kimberlyg wrote:Andi was heavy on the insinuation that JPG slept with all three of them and told her about Nikki/Clare while she was in the FS, and that's why she dumped him.

Clare also said on national TV that she had sex with JPG. I just don't understand why it's ok for some and not others to discuss sexual activity that took place, whether it's in the FS in a helicopter in the ocean or whatever.

Clare did mention it in the heat of the moment but then never referred to it again or said no comment in interviews IIRC.

I don't recall Andi (or JP) saying they had sex. They very well may have (I think so), but that's up to us to interpret.

bleuberry wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

kimberlyg wrote:Andi was heavy on the insinuation that JPG slept with all three of them and told her about Nikki/Clare while she was in the FS, and that's why she dumped him.

Clare also said on national TV that she had sex with JPG. I just don't understand why it's ok for some and not others to discuss sexual activity that took place, whether it's in the FS in a helicopter in the ocean or whatever.

Clare did mention it in the heat of the moment but then never referred to it again or said no comment in interviews IIRC.

I don't recall Andi (or JP) saying they had sex. They very well may have (I think so), but that's up to us to interpret.

EXACTLY, Andi never said they had sex.....

If josh was the bachelor I think andi would be upset but I do not think she would be putting him down likes she does nick andi was right about nick and Kaitlyn should have taken some advice from andi and run far away from nick he is nothing but trouble jmo

bleuberry wrote:

GuardianAngel wrote:

kimberlyg wrote:Andi was heavy on the insinuation that JPG slept with all three of them and told her about Nikki/Clare while she was in the FS, and that's why she dumped him.

Clare also said on national TV that she had sex with JPG. I just don't understand why it's ok for some and not others to discuss sexual activity that took place, whether it's in the FS in a helicopter in the ocean or whatever.

Clare did mention it in the heat of the moment but then never referred to it again or said no comment in interviews IIRC.

I don't recall Andi (or JP) saying they had sex. They very well may have (I think so), but that's up to us to interpret.

I didn't watch JP's season, but didn't Andi say something like "I just laid down and thought of London"?  at the WTA? I thought I saw that in a promo.

Either way, it's hard to deny that there have been multiple contestants in the past who have kissed and told, whether directly like Ali and Courtney did or by alluding to it (like Jesse's F2, Reid, Graham, Arie). Nick was already coming off from a villain edit and, for many people, this just confirmed how awful of a person he was. I think that both Nick and Andi made mistakes with how they handled that situation, but I just felt like Andi's lack of compassion and emotion towards Nick just spoke to her character. I think the fact that she's STILL not letting go of it one year later makes it much worse. The truth is that Andi didn't get even a fraction of the sl*t-shaming that Kaitlyn has gotten and she didn't lose her relationship because of it. She was the happiest she's ever been, whereas Nick was probably the most heartbroken and sad he's ever been. A better woman than her would have looked past their own pride and understood that he made a forgivable mistake. All, IMO, as always!

Cap, you imagine that Andi has some empathy, at this point I have yet to see her show any ever. Even her breakup stuff with Josh sounded like her repeating his words.

I don't think Andi really cares about anyone but herself. If you make her happy, she adores you, if not you are total crap.

And nope no apologies as I doubt she ever believes she does anything wrong.

All just my opinion of course.

sounds like andi recruited K to the "anti-nick" team (according to the media thread aol video -- haven't watched it but ready synopsis posted in the thread) http://features.aol.com/video/watch-live-kaitlyn-bristowe-drops-bachelorette-season-11-hints?icid=aol|carousel|dl1

I do think based on K's initial demeanor for first interviews (very positive about nick) vs. now it is his post-FRC actions that made her cut him loose