The Bachelorette 11 - Kaitlyn Bristowe - #4 - Media - Tweets - IG - *Sleuthing* - *Spoilers* - Discussion

Alanna wrote:Kait just tweeted this link, responding to the "sl*t-shaming" (can we say that term here or does it get blocked?)-- http://www.eonline.com/videos/235664/kaitlyn-bristowe-responds-to-social-media-sl*t-shaming

I feel like the only fan who has trouble getting onboard not because I want her to be some sort of Charlotte Bronte, 1840s-style "demure" lady, but because I feel like she did it to make herself seem fun and interesting to the men, as if that's the only thing that makes them want to stick around. Otherwise, I could not care less if she wanted to do her 25 men, and all the 25s of the previous Ettes and 1/2 of the production crew.

I don't really get that vibe from her at all - I feel like she just genuinely enjoys sex and kissing and that's why she did it so much on the show. Despite what they made it seem like, I don't think she's insecure at all about the guys liking her. She said during her elimination in Chris's season that it was the first time she had been on that side of a break-up. In general, I feel like she's really confident and used to being liked by guys.

Interesting comment Kaitlyn made during the eonline interview:

"I think it ended the way it should."

Wasn't that the same sentence Ali gave after her season was said by RS she is single?

Mirzam wrote:Interesting comment Kaitlyn made during the eonline interview:
"I think it ended the way it should."

reason wrote:Wasn't that the same sentence Ali gave after her season was said by RS she is single?

Not sure but it is interesting to note that Ali is supporting Nick per her tweet and Nick was tweeting thanks in response to Ali's blog about Nick being one of her Top 5 Guys: http://www.aliluvs.com/blog/2015/5/19/we-have-a-new-bachelorette

Ali Fedotowsky @AliFedotowsky  ·  19h 19 hours ago
Ali Fedotowsky retweeted Nick Viall
It's the truth! You're a good guy and I'm psyched you're back!!! Can't wait to watch!

Nick Viall @viallnicholas28
@AliFedotowsky thanks for the kind words Ali

5)    Nick V - I can't believe Nick came back! But I'm totally happy he did. I've gotten to know Nick a little bit and I think he's a great guy. Based on the tease at the end of the show, I think Kaitlyn is going to really like him. I'm excited to watch it all unfold.

In her blog, Ali lists Shawn B. as one of her top 5 guys to watch too but says she feels "uneasy about him and hopes he treats Kaitlyn right". So if Shawn and Nick are F2, it seems that Ali has a positive view on Nick and is not sure about Shawn? Just interesting for her to post these views since they are the spoiled F2.

I think people's reaction to Kait are going to be based on their own personal moral compass.

There are people that view it as "it's just sex". It's her body and it's 2015 and she has a right to do whatever she wants.

There are people that view it as disrespectful to the other guys involved, who, some of which, have genuine feelings developing for Kait.

There are people that feel that in order to have sex, there needs to be a monogamous emotional connection between two people.

The bottom line is, as different as we all are, we each make the decisions that are best for us.

Having said that, it seems like Kait is not totally comfortable with the decision she made. That is what is making her look bad IMHO. She needs to own it and not show regret.

Becca Tilley ‏@beccatilley5 13m13 minutes ago
whether ur talking ab me being a virgin or talking ab @kaitlynbristowe in bach promo-if its negative or judgmental,pls keep it to yourself.

Bachelor Alums Defend Bachelorette Kaitlyn Bristowe's On-Show Sex: "You Go Girl!"

Read more: http://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/news/bachelor-alums-defend-kaitlyn-bristowes-on-show-sex-you-go-girl-2015215#ixzz3anYKy7WO

Beeleever wrote:I think people's reaction to Kait are going to be based on their own personal moral compass.

There are people that view it as "it's just sex". It's her body and it's 2015 and she has a right to do whatever she wants.

There are people that view it as disrespectful to the other guys involved, who, some of which, have genuine feelings developing for Kait.

There are people that feel that in order to have sex, there needs to be a monogamous emotional connection between two people.

The bottom line is, as different as we all are, we each make the decisions that are best for us.

Having said that, it seems like Kait is not totally comfortable with the decision she made. That is what is making her look bad IMHO. She needs to own it and not show regret.

nutty1 wrote:Becca Tilley ‏@beccatilley5  13m13 minutes ago
whether ur talking ab me being a virgin or talking ab @kaitlynbristowe in bach promo-if its negative or judgmental,pls keep it to yourself.

Way to go Becca!

ElonM wrote:Bachelor Alums Defend Bachelorette Kaitlyn Bristowe's On-Show Sex: "You Go Girl!"

Read more: http://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/news/bachelor-alums-defend-kaitlyn-bristowes-on-show-sex-you-go-girl-2015215#ixzz3anYKy7WO

Most of the comments are supportive too!

Beeleever wrote:snipped

Having said that, it seems like Kait is not totally comfortable with the decision she made. That is what is making her look bad IMHO. She needs to own it and not show regret.

It seems like she is owning it based on her recent interview

Hotmomma wrote:snipped
Kaitlyn: "I'm not ashamed of it -- I just regret the timing. But I'm also not afraid to talk about it," she said. "I don’t really have a problem talking about that kind of thing. I think when you're looking for a lifetime partnership, intimacy is obviously a part of that. I think maybe I'm just the first Bachelor or Bachelorette to talk about that on TV."
http://www.etonline.com/tv/164916_exclusive_bachelorette_kaitlyn_bristowe_is_not_ashamed_of_having_sex_on_the_show/

nutty1 wrote:Becca Tilley ‏@beccatilley5  13m13 minutes ago
whether ur talking ab me being a virgin or talking ab @kaitlynbristowe in bach promo-if its negative or judgmental,pls keep it to yourself.

I think becca might feel differently if it was Chris having sex mid season with a girl last year.