Ben Higgins - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion

bilolo wrote:But then you remember Ash and JP and you want to watch something like that happen again.
Dilemma !

Yes in hindsight because they got their happily ever after.
But while her season was airing she came across as a desparate, insecure and sobbing mess. Watching her take guys like Constantine who has no more interest in her than a rock to F3 was . The only reason I watched was to see Mr Sunshine. The rest was cringe worthy.

Just from Ben's IG, I think he's integrated back into his own personal life really well. He certainly likes posts, comments, etc. on stuff from his B'ette friends, but he does most of his posting around his own life. I like that about him.

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I have to say last nights date showed the Ben that I am glad everyone got to see, not only those of us who know him. He loves having fun, is very outgoing, but still likes to keep some things private and not out there for the world to see. I would love to see a guy like Ben be the next lead, but I don't want a bunch of over the top gals, or those who I could never see him with be the ones he gets to pick from. I don't think a season of Ben could compete with this season, it would be to mild for some folks.

He is so tall and handsome. Lots of people mention Shawn's voice, but I find I like Ben's the most. Still afraid to campaign for him really. I just hope he finds that one lucky woman.

I could definitely see Ben H. as the next Bachelor.  He's cute, nice, mature and looks like an easygoing, fun guy.  I would much rather see Ben H. as the next lead than the rumored Josh Murray.

I want Ben H as next Bachelor too. The lip biting….stop it! I finally realized who he reminds me of Jake Ryan from Sixteen Candles. Anyone?

Kaitlyn said in her lastest blog that Ben H is marriage material, is she campaining for him to be the bachelor ?

bilolo wrote:Kaitlyn said in her lastest blog that Ben H is marriage material, is she campaining for him to be the bachelor ?

I certainly hope so! Would love to have him as the next bachelor. He's the total package! Marriage material for sure!

bilolo wrote:Kaitlyn said in her lastest blog that Ben H is marriage material, is she campaining for him to be the bachelor ?

Fingers crossed.

Though he has to loose that hesitancy that comes across. He needs lots of lovely screen time to get used to the cameras.

after watching unreal I really don't want ben in that type of manipulative machinery . he'd get good exposure out of it because he will carry himself remarkably well (he reminds me of jilly who just has that palpable likability) but I don't know if he'd be into it after going through it this round....it's actually kind of surprising that he's in it now

he's like one of those guys that dylan described -- the guys that are fish out of water in such a camera strapped environment but ben is coasting those new airwaves skillfully