Ben Higgins - Bachelorette 11 - *Spoilers - Sleuthing* - Discussion

I see no resemblance at all.

About the age thing, IMO it really doesn't matter. My son was no where near thinking of getting married at 25, but my nephew who has been married for 12 yrs, got married at 27 after dating for many years.

I think it has a lot to do with your maturity level, life experiences and personal goals that one would like to achieve.

I think 25 is too young because they'd load the season with women in their early 20's and have never enjoyed the perky cheerleader type young ones. I'd much prefer a male lead who's in his late 20s to mid 30's.

IA 25 is too young to be TB, but to be a F1, I don't think it's too young depending on what their goals are and if they are serious about getting married in the near future.

I'd much rather have a couple date for a couple of years regardless of how old they are. If the F1 is 30, IMO doesn't make them necessarily ready for marriage.

GuardianAngel wrote:IA 25 is too young to be TB, but to be a F1, I don't think it's too young depending on what their goals are and if they are serious about getting married in the near future.

I'd much rather have a couple date for a couple of years regardless of how old they are. If the F1 is 30, IMO doesn't make them necessarily ready for marriage.

ITA, GA. Obviously we have no idea how mature this guy is but there are guys who are ready for marriage at a younger age. I consider my sons mature at 24 & 27 but neither are the least bit ready for marriage but then they'd never go on the show.

I change my mind. I just read new posts in Bachelor New Zealand. He's 26 yrs old. He is so flippin handsome. It doesn't feel right drooling over someone younger than my son.

Ben doesn't appear to tweet much, or maybe he deleted tweets, but what he does tweet is usually thought provoking.

Thanks Wanderlust! To your knowledge he isn't home yet correct?

Nope, he's not back in Denver!

Gah He is so gorgeous

Now I can't un-see Peter Brady.

Wanderlust wrote:

Thanks for posting this and the other photos Wanderlust.

He is such a cutie-pie! Selfishly, I would love to see him as the next Bachelor if it doesn't work out for him and Kaitlyn (especially now that Brady, my other favorite is with Britt).

He looks so adorable. We know nothing about him but I hope Kaitlyn picks him.