Bachelor Australia - Season 3 - Sam Wood - (Male) - SM - IG - Media - *Sleuthing* - *Spoilers*

Nicky1997 wrote:Thanks for the lovely welcome ladies I haven't seen the next episode it's only just starting now as I live in WA. But I am actually starting to dislike sam the more I find out about it. If you read what Madeleine and emily say about their dates they said they kissed a lot! And to me that seems really wrong kissing in excess especially if he claims he's "straight shooter" who knows what he wants on first impressions. This guy seems like a player lapping it up, with so many beautiful women chasing him. I'm starting to see beyond this "oh I'm looking for the love if my life and wants kids act", to me he's playing the act of the family guy in order to gain viewers likability, I'm not buying it - actions speak a lot louder then words. I actually can't believe snezena would even go on this show, leave her daughter for that long and if he chooses her? She's from perth so let's just take her from school and family and move to melbourne? Are you kidding me? Sorry but to me that is so selfish and personally would never do that to my child. I haven't seen tonight's episode but I'll let you know what I think when I watch it, I have a feeling I'm not going to like it. I feel like heathers being pulled along by a string with sam. I can see how emotionally invested she is and it breaks my heart seeing a genuine person being pulled along like that. I think she deserves far better! "Friendzone" rubbish, I mean true relationships begin with emotional investment and the entwining of two souls in the comfort ability of each other's company not by snogging 24/7, because trust me lust fades but love will always stay .

MissB wrote:It's like Heather should be treated specially. The others deserve it too. In snez's case it's her life and her decision to come to this show and i respect it. The girl has never been away from home taking care of her daughter and put her dreams on hold for her. I respect her so much for that.
Now Sam is a player because he is kissing other girls and not Heather. I watch this show for entertainment and i always remember the ladies are not forced to stay they can leave anytime they want. Afterall, it's Sam's choice to make according to either his heart, the other head or whatever.

lozzatron wrote:

MissB wrote:It's like Heather should be treated specially. The others deserve it too. In snez's case it's her life and her decision to come to this show and i respect it. The girl has never been away from home taking care of her daughter and put her dreams on hold for her. I respect her so much for that.
Now Sam is a player because he is kissing other girls and not Heather. I watch this show for entertainment and i always remember the ladies are not forced to stay they can leave anytime they want. Afterall, it's Sam's choice to make according to either his heart, the other head or whatever.

For me with Heather none of that is my concern. Like you I really could care less who is chosen as the winner because really the only "prize" here is Sam and obviously none of the girls would want that if they weren't the right one. My concern is that maybe Sam already knows she won't be F1 but he's going to keep her there right up until the end because he simply enjoys her company. Now obviously all the girls are getting strung along here but Sam has also shown that he'll do the right thing and send them home ASAP the moment he can't see a future there (Jacinda, next week probably Bec). He knows she likes him and he'd know that it's only going to her tougher for her the longer she's there. I just hope if there comes a moment he realises she won't be the one that he'll send her home asap given he already knows this has hit her confidence a bit. Same goes for Snez being away from Eve.