Becca Tilley - Bachelor 19 - Discussion - #8

I so agree with you Stuckinsc ! If they had looked happy and in love in the ATFR most wouldn't question it but i and so many others just didn't see it. He was more happy to see Becca than to see his fiance. Imo

Wow, what good discussions. Imo, that was one of the most real but awkward finales.The bottom line for me is that Becca's moved on and C has moved on (even though I still don't see "it" with W) and now real life begins. Becca's realness is what drew me into the show in the first place. Good for her for not caving in.

Holy cow!! I am just rewatching the ATFR and guess what Becca is wearing on her wrist? Yep. The bracelets he gave her!! Wonder if he noticed...
**edit** oh yeah he noticed... LOL.

Oh man and he was still talking about her/them in the present tense... I didn't catch that last night.

hmbach wrote:Oh man and he was still talking about her/them in the present tense... I didn't catch that last night.  

What did he say?

talking about her patience, he said he felt like that is something I am up for the challenge for. Whoops. Oh Chris and your articulation! Not exactly all present tense but he was definitely muddling. It's at about the 11min mark of the ATFR. Man I hope he can get it together and treat W the way she deserves or break up with her quickly.

stuckinsc wrote:sfrank, I love how very genuine she is.  She reminds me of Brooks.  I think they both went on for the fun and found this experience crazy but stayed very true to themselves.

Becca always reminded me of a female Brooks. Both genuine and honest during the process. They didn't pretend to be totally in love just to get the win.

I've been wanting to rewatch just their segment of the ATFR. Is it available somewhere?

Pia1 wrote:I've been wanting to rewatch just their segment of the ATFR.  Is it available somewhere?

i have put an online link of the whole ATFR Pia on the 'CS online link thread'

murasaki1393 wrote:

Pia1 wrote:I've been wanting to rewatch just their segment of the ATFR.  Is it available somewhere?

i have put an online link of the whole ATFR Pia on the 'CS online link thread'

Thank you Mura!

AlohaLady wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:I just have to say if it isn't about finding a girlfriend it is about finding a wife then why are we not hearing about a wedding and why DWTS?  Something doesn't smell right.

Thankfully, Becca is great.  Emily's BIL is hot, I say go for it Becca get your butt back to Louisiana!

What is Emily's BIL's name?

Austin Johnson; plays for the New Orleans Saints.  I've actually met him once via work.  Nice guy, does alot of charity work around the city with other players.

hmbach wrote:talking about her patience, he said he felt like that is something I am up for the challenge for. Whoops. Oh Chris and your articulation! Not exactly all present tense but he was definitely muddling. It's at about the 11min mark of the ATFR. Man I hope he can get it together and treat W the way she deserves or break up with her quickly.

Here's the link to ATFR: http://vodlocker.com/p22qw943wh3j  -- THANKS MURA!

Yeah. We've talked about the too long hug that even CH points out but my favorite part (8:09) is when he chokes on the words "I feel khan-fident, we are probably both in a better place" - but he is anything but. Not sure if this demonstrable lack of confidence was because he was just embarrassed saying that or whether he just didn't believe what he was saying. Unfortunately, we will never know. But I love that Becca comes back with a solid "Yeah" in agreement.

I also love this gem..."Becca made it very clear in Des Monies that she had never felon in love"

It stuck me as well that TWICE CH tried to give him and "out" with Becca, once to agree with the BIL "chase theory" and another to admit that it may have been a "loss cause" with  Becca to begin with and each time Chri vigorously defended their chemistry, connection, and relationship.  I know its easy for people want to dismiss Becca in a "scripted" role it doesn't really hold water to what Chris is saying now even post-show when he need not "play along" anymore and is still defending his feelings and actions with her, IMO.