The Bachelorette 11 - Screen Caps - *Sleuthing - Spoilers*

The reason why I don't think is Shawn is bc he seems so angry. If they had sex and he's all angry at her that's not cool.

But it is hard to reconcile their date with sex with Nick days later. Except I think she is a free spirit and I think she cares for Nick too. It also would explain the way she is asking people to be forgiving and understanding in her blog. Slept with Nick first but chose Shawn in the end.

^^ if nick is sex guy....How do you make sense of the scenes where she is disheveled -- there are two jackets on the couch -- and shawn is in her room? And again shawn goes to her room in a different outfit on a different day? why is her hair disheveled and why is she fixing the couches if shawn simply came to talk and confront her about sex with nick? her outfit with nick is a different one than her top during her group date so she couldn't have just had sex with him and is straightening up

I'm sort of buying the idea that it's Shawn and that she feels some regret (because of the other guys) and Shawn wants her not to regret it.... which is why he wants her to think about what they have.

I could buy it too...I'm just not thrilled about the temper.

^^Emusha, last nite I thought perhaps sex with Shawn was during GD. But today after looking at SC's, I don't think that anymore. I think she had her GD, complete with Jared getting the Cranberries concert at the end. Then she goes back to her hotel room.

Once she's back Shawn shows up. Honestly, it looks like she could've even been sleeping on the couch because of messy hair, straightening pillows, dabbing at eyes, etc.

IMO if Shawn is sex guy & it occurs that nite, it's after the GD is totally over.

Then I would say Shawn going to her room at another time with burgundy top is a totally different nite. Maybe that night he's comforting her because she feels so bad.

jcrbil wrote:I'm sort of buying the idea that it's Shawn and that she feels some regret (because of the other guys) and Shawn wants her not to regret it.... which is why he wants her to think about what they have.

I can see him getting LIVID if she's more into the circus than their insane connection. How fun for Kait if she has sex with a guy she's almost in love with and his first reaction post sex is to make her cry and have a meltdown. Awesome!

Basically, I agree with Emusha, above. 
The scs support that they are on the above date and then discussing it in her room wearing the same clothing as the date. 
K's top on group date.

K and S on group date. K wearing same top.

Same clothing, hair mussed. Discussion more heated re-sex. 

All this speculation is driving me batty. If pre-FS sex is Shawn it almost has me thinking the snapchat video is related to this.

While Kaitlyn looks a mess in that white dress (crying) Shawn seems to look pretty well put together.

While her clothes are the same as on the GD, are we saying that they had sex without them getting undressed ?

I think of a line some of my fav. actors said during an interview about the upcoming season ..........

Interviewer : " Do they (the characters) have sex this season ?"
Guy Actor : "Just hands stuff"  
Girl Actpr " "How do you define sex these days anyway?"

Maybe Kaitlyn had a revolving door that night, and Shawn showed up to see sex-guy leaving and her all disheveled. Nah, cause I think Shawn would have left that night if he caught her post-coital with anyone else.

All I am saying is the group date that Shawn is on has them wearing the same clothing as in the screen cap later when they are having the heated in room discussion. 
As far as how the details and timing work out--who knows as there are many scenarios. I tend to support the scenario being Shawn is the sex guy vs Nick. JMO. 
Like said above--how do you define sex these days anyway?  It could have been heavy duty unsanctioned SQT that they are discussing.

Where do the s\c we had a while back of guy in bed, sleuthed\believed to be Shawn fit in (or does it fit in) of with above s\c of a disheveled Kaitlyn having confrontation with Shawn?