Re: Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley #7

by ElonM Tue Mar 10, 2015 11:41 am

hmbach wrote:I am curious what Becca would do if C and W break up and he is still interested in pursuing a relationship with her. I would guess that she would tell him that it wasn't right, but curious. I definitely think B can do better though.

I don't think she should go back there. This man needed his family to help make the decision in Bali for him. His sisters help him make the decision between Whitney and Becca.

What does this say about him?

by soccermom333 Tue Mar 10, 2015 11:41 am

GuardianAngel wrote:
Mommyof1 wrote:As I said, it's going to be a hard road for Whit and Chris.

http://hollywoodlife.com/2015/03/10/the-bachelor-chris-soules-loves-becca-tilley-more-whitney-bischof-pressured-by-family-finale/

Wow, those are all the things that we have been discussing since last night and all day. Thanks Mommy for bringing the link over.

Yikes! I agree and Chris and Whit will have a tough road. 92% of people on the online poll say he was in love with Becca. Whit needs to develop some thick skin.

I just wish Chris was more reassuring to Whit during these interviews, with not only his actions but his words. Something is off. IMO

by Mommyof2 Tue Mar 10, 2015 11:41 am

I don't know how to post pictures and I don't want to rub salt in our wounds that saw the love story with B&C, but scroll down check out this pic of them at the FRC. WOW!

http://www.eonline.com/news/633760/and-the-bachelor-chris-soules-chose

by mindless Tue Mar 10, 2015 11:43 am

Oh and that goodbye hug in the barn was definitely not a "sorry I hurt you, take care" kind of hug. It was an "I know I have to let go but I really really don't want to, let's hug for a few more minutes(/hours/days)" kind of hug. I saw more emotion in that instant than during the whole proposal. JMO.

by Pia1 Tue Mar 10, 2015 11:44 am

GuardianAngel wrote:
Mommyof1 wrote:As I said, it's going to be a hard road for Whit and Chris.

http://hollywoodlife.com/2015/03/10/the-bachelor-chris-soules-loves-becca-tilley-more-whitney-bischof-pressured-by-family-finale/

Wow, those are all the things that we have been discussing since last night and all day. Thanks Mommy for bringing the link over.

Yup, anybody that have eyes can see it. My coworker that doesn't watch this show but she took a peek last night and she told me this morning that she was confused because she could tell he was a goner for Becca and that was just seeing one clip of their interactions. Some people might try to spin the situation but it is what it is. He said he's in love but it's not to the one he's with.imo. I really feel bad for both of them.

by Mommyof2 Tue Mar 10, 2015 11:44 am

Reminds me of this video that Stuck posted a few days ago.

by Jolena Tue Mar 10, 2015 11:44 am

see2love wrote:
bleuberry wrote:
cindebugg wrote:

It seems to me if he really wanted Becca she would have gotten the LCD that Whitney got. A public bowling alley is not really the place to be alone or have a serious conversation. Chris could have used the opportunity to show Becca that life on the farm isn't so bad and to show her his beautiful home. He took Whitney because he wanted her to see the reality of living in Arlington and what it means to be a farmer in the 21st century. IMO, he wanted her at the farm because he wanted to see her in his element and to make sure they were both on the same page regarding their future.

That is a good point. I didn't even know they went bowling.

but his dad said it, I didnt dream up the words. His mother as much told Becca it was hers to lose. Chris asked her for anything she would give him. I didnt make these facts up.

The parents also knew that Becca at that point had NOT said she was "in love" with Chris. They knew Becca would never "get there" in time for a proposal at the end. It's understandable that someone like Becca with no relationship expierance would easily panic under pressure of an engagement in such a short time. imo they kind of called her bluff with the questions they asked.

by Pia1 Tue Mar 10, 2015 11:46 am

Mommyof1 wrote:I don't know how to post pictures and I don't want to rub salt in our wounds that saw the love story with B&C, but scroll down check out this pic of them at the FRC. WOW!

http://www.eonline.com/news/633760/and-the-bachelor-chris-soules-chose

What a huge difference in BL!

by Guest Tue Mar 10, 2015 11:46 am

^^^^ But we arent talking about Becca's feelings. I thought the issue was that Chris wanted her more than whitney

by ElonM Tue Mar 10, 2015 11:47 am

Mommyof1 wrote:I don't know how to post pictures and I don't want to rub salt in our wounds that saw the love story with B&C, but scroll down check out this pic of them at the FRC. WOW!

http://www.eonline.com/news/633760/and-the-bachelor-chris-soules-chose

statement - Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley #7 - Page 73 Rs_634x1024-150309191456-634.Chris-Soules-Whitney-Bischoff-Bachelor.ms.030915

by hmbach Tue Mar 10, 2015 11:48 am

ElonM wrote:
hmbach wrote:I am curious what Becca would do if C and W break up and he is still interested in pursuing a relationship with her. I would guess that she would tell him that it wasn't right, but curious. I definitely think B can do better though.

I don't think she should go back there. This man needed his family to help make the decision in Bali for him. His sisters help him make the decision between Whitney and Becca.

What does this say about him?

Oh I agree. He would be a different man with Becca (or someone who respected him like she does) though. Smiley

She really does deserve better (even if it's just the extended family situation).

by Pia1 Tue Mar 10, 2015 11:49 am

Jolena wrote:
see2love wrote:
bleuberry wrote:

That is a good point. I didn't even know they went bowling.

but his dad said it, I didnt dream up the words. His mother as much told Becca it was hers to lose. Chris asked her for anything she would give him. I didnt make these facts up.

The parents also knew that Becca at that point had NOT said she was "in love" with Chris. They knew Becca would never "get there" in time for a proposal at the end. It's understandable that someone like Becca with no relationship expierance would easily panic under pressure of an engagement in such a short time. imo they kind of called her bluff with the questions they asked.

On the bolded, Becca wasn't bluffing she was being honest. imo

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