Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley #7

mimitalks wrote:Just found this. Pics apparently posted today of Becca. It looks like a photo shoot.

http://www.stevecachero.com/becca-tilley-the-bachelor/2015/1/5/66q3jjan5ucyrp9aq9q59u4xak1yym

Yep, he is a photographer in San Diego. What's up with all the photos?

Did you see the pic with Becca wearing the plaid flannel wrapped around her waste with the gray v-neck? Hahaha! You can't make this stuff up. Somebody's having fun!

Does this mean Becca is the Bachelorette?

Mommyof1 wrote:Peyton Lambton thinks Chris chooses Becca.  

http://www.bostonherald.com/inside_track/the_inside_track/2015/03/cape_bachelorette_is_on_team_becca_thinks_chris_soules_will

Thanks for this. Refreshing to hear from alumni. Peyton is out of the loop but still nice to hear her views. :cutesmile!:

Litta123 wrote:

mimitalks wrote:Just found this. Pics apparently posted today of Becca. It looks like a photo shoot.

http://www.stevecachero.com/becca-tilley-the-bachelor/2015/1/5/66q3jjan5ucyrp9aq9q59u4xak1yym

Yep, he is a photographer in San Diego. What's up with all the photos?

Did you see the pic with Becca wearing the plaid flannel wrapped around her waste with the gray v-neck? Hahaha! You can't make this stuff up. Somebody's having fun!

yes.. and good that we are having fun guessing too!... Thanks Bec . but part of me still thinking: Come on!! you could do better Bec.. give us the SH visit pic!... dang.. :P

Eviebloom wrote:

Maggenzm wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

Evie, I appreciate your perspective, but to me age is very non-standard.  The experiences of one 26 year old versus another is very different.  At 26 I was married and most of my friends were married and on the way to motherhood.  Now most of my friends who are in their mid 20s are finishing up graduate school getting a PhD and aren't into marriage yet.  

Their lives are vastly different than mine was at 26.

None of us knows if Becca is ready for marriage or not. Only she knows that. If your daughter isn't ready that is okay for her and I encourage her to have her fun and do as she pleases, but her desire to do that shouldn't be used as a barometer of what Becca should do.

Thank you Stuck!! I got married at 23, I am 60 years old now, and still married to the same man. He is 6 years older than I am.
So,
Besides, from what we have seen of Becca, she seem to be wise beyond her age. Very well put together young lady who knows what she wants and can stand on her own.

My daughter happens to be in graduate school and she is a year younger than Becca, but of course her own person. (she does not watch this show and would laugh if she knew I was writing on this forum!)  Becca has her own journey, and I would encourage her to stay on it.  I think Becca is still figuring out her career etc.  I was married at 22 still married, to the same great guy.  I am not saying Becca is not mature, I just think she is at a very different place than Chris.  I do not see them having the same lifestyle goals.  I just do not see a love match between Chris and Becca. I do agree with her Virginity stance.  I just see a deeper love and better match with Chris and Whitney.  But even if Whitney was not in the picture, I still do not see a match between Chris and Becca.  Just my opinion.  Of course I wish them all well and a happy future.

I agree with you mags.  Age is that, just a number.  My  hubs is 11 yrs older than me, we got married when I was 19 after a 3 month courtship so to speak.  Back then, I remember my parents telling me that I was doing the wrong thing cause of our age difference and that it wouldn't hit me till later in life.  28 yrs later, my hubs and I are going strong. Well, about10 yrs ago, my mom came to me and said that it was the best decision I have ever made and at 19 I had the foresight to see something between hubs and me that neither she or others could forsee themselves.  Since I grew up early in life due to circumstances beyond my control, I had basically been through all the rambuncious years so to speak and was ready to settle down and change.  Cause my age was 19, no one else could see that.

I said the above to illistrate that maybe, just maybe, Becca is now where I was when I was 19, but because others can't see it, doesn't matter cause it still exists.

Just some thoughts....

Litta123 wrote:

mimitalks wrote:Just found this. Pics apparently posted today of Becca. It looks like a photo shoot.

http://www.stevecachero.com/becca-tilley-the-bachelor/2015/1/5/66q3jjan5ucyrp9aq9q59u4xak1yym

Yep, he is a photographer in San Diego. What's up with all the photos?

Did you see the pic with Becca wearing the plaid flannel wrapped around her waste with the gray v-neck? Hahaha! You can't make this stuff up. Somebody's having fun!

Those are pretty pictures, but they were taken early last year. The photographers are simply posting old photos to showcase their work, now that Becca is a known face. They are her friends,so she may not mind.

Litta123 wrote:

mimitalks wrote:Just found this. Pics apparently posted today of Becca. It looks like a photo shoot.

http://www.stevecachero.com/becca-tilley-the-bachelor/2015/1/5/66q3jjan5ucyrp9aq9q59u4xak1yym

Yep, he is a photographer in San Diego. What's up with all the photos?

Did you see the pic with Becca wearing the plaid flannel wrapped around her waste with the gray v-neck? Hahaha! You can't make this stuff up. Somebody's having fun!

Yes! So weird.

Litta123 wrote:

mimitalks wrote:Just found this. Pics apparently posted today of Becca. It looks like a photo shoot.

http://www.stevecachero.com/becca-tilley-the-bachelor/2015/1/5/66q3jjan5ucyrp9aq9q59u4xak1yym

Yep, he is a photographer in San Diego. What's up with all the photos?

Did you see the pic with Becca wearing the plaid flannel wrapped around her waste with the gray v-neck? Hahaha! You can't make this stuff up. Somebody's having fun!

I just rewatched the episode where C and W create those pictures and it just struck me as sooo odd that they both said, "yeah that one's the winner" like they both knew that there was going to be a mural made of it.  Something is just off to me with how staged W and Cs dates were, that and I was watching with a fine tooth comb at the body language and he definitely has a marked difference with B than anyone else... especially compared directly to W.

soccermom333 wrote:

Mommyof1 wrote:Peyton Lambton thinks Chris chooses Becca.  

http://www.bostonherald.com/inside_track/the_inside_track/2015/03/cape_bachelorette_is_on_team_becca_thinks_chris_soules_will

Thanks for this.  Refreshing to hear from alumni.   Peyton is out of the loop but still nice to hear her views.  :cutesmile!:

i would love for B to meet Peyton post show and maybe get some advice. I believe Peyton dated Chris Lambton about 2 yrs before tying the knot and moved to that 'tiny weeny Cape Cod'.. . And no one ever questioned her love for Chris, i supposed.. i mean..

soccermom333 wrote:

Litta123 wrote:

mimitalks wrote:Just found this. Pics apparently posted today of Becca. It looks like a photo shoot.

http://www.stevecachero.com/becca-tilley-the-bachelor/2015/1/5/66q3jjan5ucyrp9aq9q59u4xak1yym

Yep, he is a photographer in San Diego. What's up with all the photos?

Did you see the pic with Becca wearing the plaid flannel wrapped around her waste with the gray v-neck? Hahaha! You can't make this stuff up. Somebody's having fun!

Yes!  So weird.  

So she's done at least 2 photoshoots that we know of.  The bridal shoot was in another state -a location shoot - done prior to appearing on The Bachelor.  She must have a model agency bio somewhere. Anyone find it? 

Was the "flannel" pic taken before or after filming?

as far as i can tell she has done the modelling only upon her friend's request. the one of the bridal must be upon Brandi (her BFF), the photographer, inquiry to model .

maybe someone in the know could chime in.

Eviebloom wrote:snipped
My daughter happens to be in graduate school and she is a year younger than Becca, but of course her own person. (she does not watch this show and would laugh if she knew I was writing on this forum!)  Becca has her own journey, and I would encourage her to stay on it.  I think Becca is still figuring out her career etc.  I was married at 22 still married, to the same great guy.  I am not saying Becca is not mature, I just think she is at a very different place than Chris.  I do not see them having the same lifestyle goals.  I just do not see a love match between Chris and Becca. I do agree with her Virginity stance.  I just see a deeper love and better match with Chris and Whitney.  But even if Whitney was not in the picture, I still do not see a match between Chris and Becca.  Just my opinion.  Of course I wish them all well and a happy future.

Evie, first congrats on your daughter. I am working on finishing up a PhD and also have a Master's degree. Also being in graduate education, I can tell you that most of my 20 something classmates aren't interested in marriage right now either. I encourage them to finish their degrees and find what is important to them.

Second that is the great thing about this board. I expected to see a great love story with Whitney and Chris. I hated the first two episodes, so their date was going to be my payoff. But, I just didn't see it. I saw Whitney trying to convince Chris she was the one for him and I saw him like her but not crazy for her. And sorry to everyone else, but Chris was drunk by the end of that date with the rose. He was slurring words. So it means a lot less to me. I watched thinking maybe I would see growth with them and grow into it. And their deleted scenes are cute, but always Whitney is trying so hard to show Chris she is perfect for him and I just don't see him trying back or that she is even getting to know him. I could be wrong, but their relationship hasn't really grown to me. Never a good thing in life or this show. Maybe it did, but I didn't see in on my screen.

I really like Becca, she is fabulous and to me mature beyond her years. Unlike your daughter Becca did not enjoy education, she went to La Tech and I am not sure if she just got an AA degree or what but she has said she has no desire to go back. She stayed in SD to be independent when her sister left. To me she has experienced life and has an idea of what she wants and doesn't. I still didn't think Chris was good enough for her. It took TLA's videos and seeing how Chris really looks at her and their hand dances for me to become Becca for F1. I still wonder if he is good enough for her and if he picks Whitney I will say he wasn't and be happy to move on.

The main thing to me is that I got to see a love story and hey you got to see one too. We saw different ones, but that happens in life.

All three, Becca, Chris and Whitney all seem happy, so I am happy with whatever happens. I pretty much despise RS, so a nice cannonball/kaboom to him would make me happy. And since Whitney seems pretty happy, if that happened, I believe she found another love just like Chantal or she is the bachelorette which would be fun for me.

Anyway, enjoy the finale and AFTR.