Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley #7

stuckinsc wrote:

Eviebloom wrote:

chiliwhili wrote:^^^^ you have a very good point Evie.  That actually makes me feel quite a bit better should she not want him to choose her/ or should he not choose her.  I was going to be heartbroken if it didn't happen, but you've given me some hope for a happy ending for all if not!!  Lol!

I just can not see a match between these two and I think they are both very fine people.  I think they may like each other as people and appreciate each others qualities and even think the other is attractive, but to really be in love or even want the same type of lifestyle.  Not at all.  If he did choose her trying to make this relationship work would get tiring real fast I think.  If Becca was my daughter, and I have a daughter near her age, I would say "oh no dear... no just no."

Evie, I appreciate your perspective, but to me age is very non-standard.  The experiences of one 26 year old versus another is very different.  At 26 I was married and most of my friends were married and on the way to motherhood.  Now most of my friends who are in their mid 20s are finishing up graduate school getting a PhD and aren't into marriage yet.  

Their lives are vastly different than mine was at 26.

None of us knows if Becca is ready for marriage or not. Only she knows that. If your daughter isn't ready that is okay for her and I encourage her to have her fun and do as she pleases, but her desire to do that shouldn't be used as a barometer of what Becca should do.

Thank you Stuck!! I got married at 23, I am 60 years old now, and still married to the same man. He is 6 years older than I am.
So,
Besides, from what we have seen of Becca, she seem to be wise beyond her age. Very well put together young lady who knows what she wants and can stand on her own.

http://www.stylemepretty.com/2015/03/08/mountain-top-elopement-shoot-featuring-becca-from-the-bachelor/

Sorry about the earlier post! This is Bs bridal shoot by her friend on a photography blog I follow...

just a friendly reminder we have this No- Discussion thread :

https://www.bachandbachettefans.net/t2810-bachelor-19-becca-tilly-f1-sleuthing-no-discussion?highlight=becca

please feel free to put any finding/clues in light of Becca the F1 here. We have only less than 24 hrs to go !...

Maggenzm wrote:

stuckinsc wrote:

Eviebloom wrote:

I just can not see a match between these two and I think they are both very fine people.  I think they may like each other as people and appreciate each others qualities and even think the other is attractive, but to really be in love or even want the same type of lifestyle.  Not at all.  If he did choose her trying to make this relationship work would get tiring real fast I think.  If Becca was my daughter, and I have a daughter near her age, I would say "oh no dear... no just no."

Evie, I appreciate your perspective, but to me age is very non-standard.  The experiences of one 26 year old versus another is very different.  At 26 I was married and most of my friends were married and on the way to motherhood.  Now most of my friends who are in their mid 20s are finishing up graduate school getting a PhD and aren't into marriage yet.  

Their lives are vastly different than mine was at 26.

None of us knows if Becca is ready for marriage or not. Only she knows that. If your daughter isn't ready that is okay for her and I encourage her to have her fun and do as she pleases, but her desire to do that shouldn't be used as a barometer of what Becca should do.

Thank you Stuck!! I got married at 23, I am 60 years old now, and still married to the same man. He is 6 years older than I am.
So,
Besides, from what we have seen of Becca, she seem to be wise beyond her age. Very well put together young lady who knows what she wants and can stand on her own.

My daughter happens to be in graduate school and she is a year younger than Becca, but of course her own person. (she does not watch this show and would laugh if she knew I was writing on this forum!)  Becca has her own journey, and I would encourage her to stay on it.  I think Becca is still figuring out her career etc.  I was married at 22 still married, to the same great guy.  I am not saying Becca is not mature, I just think she is at a very different place than Chris.  I do not see them having the same lifestyle goals.  I just do not see a love match between Chris and Becca. I do agree with her Virginity stance.  I just see a deeper love and better match with Chris and Whitney.  But even if Whitney was not in the picture, I still do not see a match between Chris and Becca.  Just my opinion.  Of course I wish them all well and a happy future.

sfrank wrote:

Diana wrote:

truelovealways wrote:wow, so becca's family is in L.A? That definitely screams F1 to me why would they fly there to see her get dumped? TPTB usually flys F1's family in to be present for the ATFR!!!

Yeah. Definitely a weird thing if she is not the F1.

That was actually incorrect...they are not in LA. They are at home in Shreveport.
I checked the location/maps on IG.

On the "birthday" post that's on several accounts or just on Hannah? TIA?

Who originated the unexpected twist and when did it first come out? If it's B side, she's the F1. If W is the F2, she wouldn't know about a twist. She would have been gone before the twist. Right???

Becca is the first to mention unexpected twist.

AlohaLady wrote:Who originated the unexpected twist and when did it first come out?  If it's B side, she's the F1.  If W is the F2, she wouldn't know about a twist.  She would have been gone before the twist.  Right???

Not totally sure, somebody else will need to confirm, but I read Becca did on Dec 22.

Just found this. Pics apparently posted today of Becca. It looks like a photo shoot.

http://www.stevecachero.com/becca-tilley-the-bachelor/2015/1/5/66q3jjan5ucyrp9aq9q59u4xak1yym

Yep, he is a photographer in San Diego. What's up with all the photos?

Goodness gracious!  She is stunning!

Peyton Lambton thinks Chris chooses Becca.  

http://www.bostonherald.com/inside_track/the_inside_track/2015/03/cape_bachelorette_is_on_team_becca_thinks_chris_soules_will

mimitalks wrote:Just found this. Pics apparently posted today of Becca. It looks like a photo shoot.

http://www.stevecachero.com/becca-tilley-the-bachelor/2015/1/5/66q3jjan5ucyrp9aq9q59u4xak1yym

Yep, he is a photographer in San Diego. What's up with all the photos?

I assumed that these were her audition photos.