Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley #6

sfrank wrote:I want Becca to be F1 but if not then she's free to date Brooks! :cutesmile!: #winwin

reason wrote:Did they say who he got rejected by??

notarose wrote:

concerned36 wrote:

mindless wrote:

What a tease that video is. But Becca is so refreshingly honest, I don't know how they could not appreciate it. And did you notice Chris at the table with Becca? He was glowing! Compare that to him sitting next to Whitney and the difference is huge. Though maybe that was just a bad moment.

I can definitely see the sisters being like "pick Whitney, she loves you!", but it's Chris's decision in the end.

I know, but you know how they do, they cut off the parts where the sisters and mom say he should follow his heart.  Just like in Bali, the previews made it seem like W wouldn't want to give up her career to move to Arlington, then in reality, she then said she was ready to give up everything. I knew they were going to do that. Who knows?  Maybe the sisters do tell him to follow his heart..  

IMO the sisters have an advantage this season because this is the second time they are meeting both girls so they have a sense of whether either have changed over the course of the season or/and if their first impression matches up with what they see now. 

As to the issue of being ready to marry, if they think their brother should be ready by the FRC to propose then they wouldn't question if one or both of the girls are ready.  It would apply to all. 
I do think they will just recognize that each girl has a different approach to love.  I can't imagine them pushing their preference on him, if they have one, because they are all married and made their own choices.  I suspect they will just ask him some tough questions.  His mom seems to be a very direct speaker so some or all of the sisters likely have that trait as well. His mom doesn't seem the type to "sugar coat". 

Unlike the viewers, the family hasn't seen what has happened on the show up to this point.  They don't know the "all in early" edit of Whitney or "virgin to love" edit of Becca.  It will be intriguing to see if either girl reveals these things. If they don't, the family will just see 2 girls at different points on the love continuum and might find out that Becca has had the most time of any girl this season.  Would that be as much of a red flag as the speed of Whitney's feelings... or not?  A kind of "too little too late" vs "too much too soon" seems to be playing out.  I think a proposal happens when the head know "this" love is sustainable in the future. Chris knows Whitney loves him but seems in a quandary as to whether his love for her is equal.  Chris sees potential in his relationship with Becca but when is the end game for a decision to determine if that potential will be realized? 
It's like a love triangle  . Whitney is in love with Chris and ready get engaged, Chris is falling in love with both yet isn't as certain as Whitney but more certain than Becca, Becca is falling in love but isn't ready to get engaged. Is the issue "strongest love" or committing by proposing? It's like Goldilocks ... too hot, too cold, where is the just right?

in an interview Chris said he told one of the girls in the FS that he was in love with them.  Who, I wonder? 
At WTA, he told Kaitlyn that at the point he let her go he had not had an "aha moment".  Weird that he would have told someone he loved them yet not categorized that as an epiphany.

concerned36 wrote: Also, remember that in Bali Chris said he was not ready to say he is in love with Whitney yet. Maybe he still isn't at the FRC when he proposes to her. It works.

sfrank wrote:

atem wrote:Seems that Kasha was directed to the original tweet to that limo in front of the hotel that Becca was at for the FRC and it was in the morning.  Thus, she is the F2.  

Sorry, I've been away...how do we know that its Becca's limo vs. Whitney's from the exterior? Aren't they at the same hotel?

AlohaLady wrote:

sfrank wrote:

atem wrote:Seems that Kasha was directed to the original tweet to that limo in front of the hotel that Becca was at for the FRC and it was in the morning.  Thus, she is the F2.  

Sorry, I've been away...how do we know that its Becca's limo vs. Whitney's from the exterior? Aren't they at the same hotel?

If Becca does arrive first, maybe it's because she has a plane to catch.  She is the F1 but leaves and then W arrives and he rejects her.  Thus the "weird" comment and Chris going back to work the next day.  JMHO

concerned36 wrote: The new People magazine says "Bachelor Rejected". I haven't seen it but people are talking about it on fb. According to my scenario, Chris does get rejected when Whitney throws the ring at him and storms off. (well maybe she can be nicer about it and it still works but nevertheless, still rejected by Whitney)