Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley #5

Lucas15 wrote:

albean99 wrote:After watching that I'm even more sure he doesn't pick Becca. She's nowhere near ready plus she's not even in love. She really would do so much better in a real life situation than on this show. She's actually being realistic but doesn't work in this case.

You and my wife share the prize for simple direct answers that make me wonder why they are often so elusive. My wife's comment about Becca was "If you're not sure that you're in love - then you aren't in love."

Exactly! 
Why would anyone want to make a commitment to uncertainty?

concerned36 wrote:

Diana wrote:Aww guys! Don't lose hope! Honestly we won't know the real ending until the next Monday. No matter our different opinions, everyone deserves to have hope.

Aw Diana, you're so sweet!  But there is hope that Becca will meet and marry her perfect match one day. That's the way I look at it. :cutesmile!:

Yes my sweet fave Chantal was so better off.

CH says that his parents had to shake Chris to come to his senses I think means that when Becca told his mom she is not in love with him, that that was the tie-breaker. Because Chris S keeps saying he's in love with both, the brother in law says it's 50/50. But it's really not. Chris wants Becca, but the family sees that 2 beautiful women, both good choices, why go with the one who is not in love with you, go with the one who is in love with him. (I still think when Becca said I'm 100% all in was a frankenbite, that doesn't fit anymore.)

concerned36 wrote:

sfrank wrote:

concerned36 wrote:

Yes!  But I'm not so HOPEFUL anymore.

Oh boy, you're not kidding! I'm deflated after that GMA clip - was still trying to justify some thing (even through I strong suspected Whitney F1) but its all not adding up any more! No denying Becca F2, IMO.

I agree, you said it well, sfrank!

It's really the US weekly combined with last night's promo and gma clip.
Whether we like it or not the mag had been more accurate than not. Consistantly.
CH has also peppered his blogs with talk of Chris being over 30 and needing a woman that knows what she wants. Everything working against ChrisBecca. And frankly we saw Becca say she wasn't in love with him to his mother and juxtaposition with Whitney crying at the table about how much she loves him - " what family say would encourage him not to go for "the one that love him" if he is looking for a wife?!

^^ Which makes Whitney look like default F1 if Chris chooses her, imo. :hidingchair

Mommyof1 wrote:^^ Which makes Whitney look like default F1 if Chris chooses her, imo.  :hidingchair

No one knows that for sure.....Whitney could have been his pick all along.

For those who didn't see what we meant by thinking we saw a hoodie, this is a good shot, from the screencaps Litta put up.
It almost looks like fur or Sherpa inside the hooded area.

Have a ? Now you guys keep saying that W is heading to. FRC rt and the pic of her shows the telephone poles on the left to her. Now I went and looked up Picures of the farms In Iowa even to Lamont. All the phone pole are on the rt side of the road. Now IMO from looking at W pic. The poles are to the the left of her from how she's sitting. JMHO Have they taken anyone ever straight to after the final rose?

Oh that GMA clip to me was placed to make us think that Becca has a huge obstacle to overcome, when in reality she doesn't she just doesn't want to make a mistake just because it's tv. I think (JMO) that the tears start to flow for Becca just after that conversation with his Mom and she doesn't want to lose him.

I think it was more telling that they didn't show W at all in that clip. As if to tell everyone... the spoilers are correct... JMO again.

nutty1 wrote:For those who didn't see what we meant by thinking we saw a hoodie, this is a good shot, from the screencaps Litta put up.
It almost looks like fur or Sherpa inside the hooded area.

Yep, although I don't see the sherpa lining, my daughter has an almost identical red velour hoodie.

Mommyof1 wrote:^^ Which makes Whitney look like default F1 if Chris chooses her, imo.  :hidingchair

It's ok. Don't hide under that chair. 
People said the same about Chris S with Des. That default F1 ended up married.

nutty1 wrote:For those who didn't see what we meant by thinking we saw a hoodie, this is a good shot, from the screencaps Litta put up.
It almost looks like fur or Sherpa inside the hooded area.

And to me it matchs up with Becca in the suv..now maybe she is just riding to meet Neil Lane..I really don't think this is her FRC dress!.Or maybe she is on her way to talk to chris?