Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilly #4

Pia1 wrote:

concerned36 wrote:Based on the US Weekly article (it's not in my store yet?!), it definitely sounds like Whitney is F1. I too cannot believe Whitney would do a 180 so quickly.  Becca wanted to take it slow all along. On the date in Iowa, in the loft, she admitted she would not be ready to accept a proposal. That was October 27, I think. Then HTD, very fun day, very romantic day, on her birthday, October 30. Still can't see her ready to accept a proposal. Then it's maybe 2 weeks before they see each other again for FD. She even said she wasn't sure, since it had been awhile, that they would have the same attraction towards one another, but they did. I do think their 3 dates before were fun dates, a lot of laughing, talking, kissing - no drama. Yet in Bali, Chris starts to put pressure on Becca. You can see the change in their relationship. Once they come out FS, their relationship becomes stressed, on both sides.  (CH says that Chris was throwing temper tantrums in Iowa the last week.)  You can see a little of that when he talks to Becca at the RC, he seems almost impatient (angry?) with her as he tries to explain that he is falling in love with her - he says "I told you multiple times"  with that look on his face. I don't imagine that would go over so well with Becca. Just as they were starting to fall in love and enjoy one another's company, here comes all this pressure to make a decision injected into it. And Chris apologized to her for pressuring her that morning in the FS, so there's no telling how hard he grilled her off camera.  But even when Becca said at the beginning of the RC that she wasn't going to get a chance to explain herself, she didn't seem that upset, almost like she would be okay to go home. Here's the thing: Chris is in love with Becca!  He wants her!  But that doesn't mean that in the end Becca feels the same way. I see some time in Iowa, with him yelling at her and his mom being stern with her, and I don't feel like Becca is the type of woman who withstand that amount of pressure to make a rushed decision about something so serious as marriage. She takes marriage a lot more seriously than any contestant or lead I have ever seen on this show. If they had not pressured her so much, and if Chris had been willing to calmly consider a final rose without a proposal, I think Becca may have been F1. But I can see Becca not being ready at the end. She wouldn't have been ready at the end of October, and I don't think after 2 more dates, she was that much closer to saying yes to a proposal. Whereas Whitney was ready for a proposal on HTD!  

Yes, I think so too on the bolded that's why if he chose someone else other than B it's just not romantic in my eyes.  If that's the case, C should not propose to anyone. I hope that he doesn't/didn't. :Nod:

SLA44 wrote:Here is another article that came out today that also seems to be pointing toward Whitney:

http://www.bostonherald.com/entertainment/television/television_news/2015/02/in_love_with_two_remarkable_women_the_bachelor

I'm not sure who their sources are in any of these articles that get published but what Chris and even one of his sisters said on the Ellen Show pointed to Becca IMO.

I have been thinking the same thing that someone else had posted and that is if he chose Whitney it would be just "settling" IMO and he said that was why he broke up with his fiance' because he didn't want to just "settle".  Whitney may be a sure thing or safe thing but I don't see it lasting and she is so eager to get married why has there not been a wedding date set yet?  I can't see Whitney moving to Arlington, Iowa and there was nothing that I saw of Whitney that said she was an outdoorsy type.  I just don't see it with Chris and Whitney as a couple.  
I will have to say I will be really disappointed if Chris does not choose Becca. 

sfrank wrote:Right, sadly! Also just watched the clip in the WTA thread of Kaitlyn confronting Chris...and he says he could have flipped a coin on that day between her and Becca...then quickly adds Whitney (almost as an afterthought?!)

hmbach wrote:Becca already said she is for K being the ette. I don't see B going from falling in love with Chris to wanting to meet 25 new guys And getting engaged to one of them at the end. That just doesn't make sense to me. Doesn't fit her story.

GuardianAngel wrote:In my sleuthing brain I'm trying to figure out why the coin toss comment. He knew well in advance of that F3 RC that Kaitlyn was going to be let go. We know this because Kasha and others sleuthed out she got the cheapest room and wasn't even in the same hotel as W and Becca.

Why pull Becca aside when he already knew Kaitlyn was going. This created the doubt that Becca was unsure. He told her he said multiple times he was falling in love with her during the FS time, and she responded she was too. She also said she didn't want him to think Arlington was off the table. This appeared to satisfy him, to a point where he knew in his gut he couldn't let this girl go home, even though he knew at that point in time, she was staying.

There was no coin toss decision between Kaitlyn and Becca IMO but the fact that he said it, leads one to believe neither one would be his F1 anyway. The media outlets are running with he chose the one that was all in and not the one who wasn't sure. They created the storyline of the one who wasn't sure by taking Becca aside. Why would they be so blatant to give the ending away like that.