Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilly #4

KB_Mom wrote:Veering off track with discussion of whether Whit has a child on Becca thread.

Agreed. I just posted it because it seems like if he knew she was a mother it might make a difference in who he chooses as F1? Sorry!

Chrisbecca wrote:

happygolucky wrote:

mindless wrote:
I don't know what is better for Becca ... I really wish whoever will be her One and Only, is a man of integrity, a man of his word and a true gentleman, who respects a woman's worth.

AMEN! Someone needs to explain to Chris, when he met Becca, he found a treasure!  She is special! If he screwed (no pun intended) up his relationship with her by having sex with Kaitlyn, then he deserves to be alone out on his Iowa farm, with his cows and corn for the rest of his life!!!

This is why I do think that Becca's FS date was 3rd; remember he didn't know he wasn't going to be "test driving"all 3 that week of overnights..  If Becca had been first, I don't think he would have slept with the other two.  If Becca is happy now, it could be because she is thinking "whew, dodged that bullet, still pure, free as a bird."  I think that is a real possibility. :Nod:

Chris doesn't appear to be a man with any deep moral or religious convictions about having sex. Two of the women were willing and he had feelings for them so they had sex. I'd bet if Becca didn't have her convictions he probably would have slept with her too. Other leads have done it. While it weirds me out, there's no law or show rule against it so if they both want to there's nothing stopping them.

And on the off chance he had decided already he wanted Becca as F1 and her date was before the other two and he still slept with them both I'd tell Becca to say see ya.

I'm just gonna focus on Becca and can't wait to see how the ending plays out. She really is the reason why I've stayed tuned in each week. Just based on the pics I've seen on IG even before the show, she seemed happy. No matter what happens, she seems happy post show. Don't understand why somebody signed her up but I'm glad they did.

hmbach wrote:

concerned36 wrote:

hmbach wrote:this probably belongs in the Whitney thread but can't help but think it favors Beccas case for F1 in regards to how C talked about both of them on Ellen... W posted a picture yesterday of her with a baby.  Some kind of bomb is gonna drop I think... where did the baby come from? C referred to her as a "mother" and that she IS a mother in his interview with Ellen. If she is F1 he would have had to know that no?  Again, if this should be discussed in a different thread please let me know.

I know, I'm dying to know what the "she is a mother" means!  Is Whitney pregnant? Did she get pregnant in the FS?  Was she pregnant when she came on the show?  Was the pregnancy test in the trash hers?  hmm....

I don't think she got pregnant in the FS... honestly I don't even think they had sex.  The baby in the IG post looked close to 9months or a year old.  Does she adopt? Did she have a baby before the season started (doubtful) or are they just playing with us again (probably).

I wasn't thinking about the baby in the pic. I figure that was one of her in-vitro babies.

umngirl wrote:Chris doesn't appear to be a man with any deep moral or religious convictions about having sex. Two of the women were willing and he had feelings for them so they had sex. I'd bet if Becca didn't have her convictions he probably would have slept with her too. Other leads have done it. While it weirds me out, there's no law or show rule against it so if they both want to there's nothing stopping them.

And on the off chance he had decided already he wanted Becca as F1 and her date was before the other two and he still slept with them both I'd tell Becca to say see ya.  

Some people also feel that they need to take a "test drive" before buying...If you know what I mean. :cutesmile!:

IMO Chris did not know who his F1 was at the time of the fantasy dates.

umngirl wrote:Chris doesn't appear to be a man with any deep moral or religious convictions about having sex. Two of the women were willing and he had feelings for them so they had sex. I'd bet if Becca didn't have her convictions he probably would have slept with her too. Other leads have done it. While it weirds me out, there's no law or show rule against it so if they both want to there's nothing stopping them.

And on the off chance he had decided already he wanted Becca as F1 and her date was before the other two and he still slept with them both I'd tell Becca to say see ya.  

ITA

concerned36 wrote:

Chrisbecca wrote:

happygolucky wrote:

AMEN! Someone needs to explain to Chris, when he met Becca, he found a treasure!  She is special! If he screwed (no pun intended) up his relationship with her by having sex with Kaitlyn, then he deserves to be alone out on his Iowa farm, with his cows and corn for the rest of his life!!!

This is why I do think that Becca's FS date was 3rd; remember he didn't know he wasn't going to be "test driving"all 3 that week of overnights..  If Becca had been first, I don't think he would have slept with the other two.  If Becca is happy now, it could be because she is thinking "whew, dodged that bullet, still pure, free as a bird."  I think that is a real possibility. :Nod:

Could be. I think she is a smart enough cookie to shake the whole thing off and laugh at the situation if that is indeed the case, the only thing that would make me think otherwise is the happy pictures right after she supposedly left IA. You think you would have some (even just a little) grief at losing what you thought might have been your first love... even if it was her that did the leaving.

I really don't know what the h*ll happened in that interview with Ellen, I mean the guy most probably had some media training, it's also simply reasonable to prepare yourself what you would tell in the interviews about the contestants ... that's the reason most celebrities keep giving standard and same-old answers ... I don't know if Chris tries to change his answers about Whit/Bec each time, but it seemed like he was caught off guard or he memorized something and forgot in that moment and tried to save himself by adding then too much (and nonsense) ... so in hindsight what he said about Becca might have been scripted completely, but what he said about Whitney is completely off, no matter if she is or isn't F1, it sounds like that's the only word he remembered out of his prepared statement.

At the RC there was two much confidence in both there faces. Like Whitney said. Becca is inexperienced. The look on Whitneys face is confidence. You know what happened between them. If the boats a Rockin don't come knocking same with Kate. They were both seeing Becca go home because of her inexperience. Like one of the girls said. They couldn't see a Virgin go to the FS. And Chris said he pretty much had a feeling after the home town date cause her not bring a man home to her family. Chris is a smart man. And at the RC I think it pissed Whitney off. So now she is starting to think that (knowing B is a virgin) if he can choose her over Kate now maybe he doesn't feel the same for me. So I think it's Whitney second guessing herself she has week to think about all that's gone on. Or maybe she thinks B slept with C and maybe her perfect world is crumbling. You would be amazed what the mind will play in a week. But when she got the first rose there was a sigh of releaf. MHO anyways.

I just read pages of posts that had to do with a lot of other things than Becca.
Lots keep it on topic or it will have to be locked and cleaned.
Thanks all.

Chrisbecca wrote:

happygolucky wrote:

mindless wrote:
I don't know what is better for Becca ... I really wish whoever will be her One and Only, is a man of integrity, a man of his word and a true gentleman, who respects a woman's worth.

AMEN! Someone needs to explain to Chris, when he met Becca, he found a treasure!  She is special! If he screwed (no pun intended) up his relationship with her by having sex with Kaitlyn, then he deserves to be alone out on his Iowa farm, with his cows and corn for the rest of his life!!!

This is why I think a man like Dez Duron is more Becca's type. One article a while back stated that Chris wasn't Becca's "usual type" and that neither Kaitlyn nor Becca were really into Chris. I'm not saying this is true, but it could be.. She should marry someone who shares her faith and values. Because I can't see Chris waiting until marriage!