Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilly #4

lurker11 wrote:^^ that kind of makes me sad... why is it worse if she says I love you and gets dumped than if Whitney does? I'm always so bummed when the F2 says I love you

It's not. :hidingchair

hmbach wrote:

murasaki1393 wrote:

hmbach wrote:Who is this at 3:15 the voice over starts with C saying "I am here to look for my wife" and then "you're more than welcome to go home" showing Whitney then this... I have seen this a billion times, but am just now wondering what if Becca is F1 because Whitney goes home after going to Arlington??

its Jordan. she came back and went home eventually. episode 5

Didn't Jordan have her hair up when she was there?  Also wasn't Jordan indoors when he let her go?  Seems like she had a brown jacket on too.  This looks like it's outside (and weird to say, but outside).

Even if it's not her, with one of the other things that Whitney said early on about excusing herself if she didn't think she could live there or if she didn't feel a connection I think Whitney will excuse herself before the FRC.  Just a hunch.

Mura- which episode was this particular SC from? (at 3:15) Jordan did have her hair up in episode 5. TIA

Diana wrote:

lurker11 wrote:^^ that kind of makes me sad... why is it worse if she says I love you and gets dumped than if Whitney does? I'm always so bummed when the F2 says I love you

It's not. :hidingchair

It is sad, unless you come from a place like I do, that Whitney doesn't really love him (just as he didn't really love Andi in her season even though he said he did) and that it is a love that is only expressed for TV audiences. Love is patient... love is kind... :cutesmile!:

^^ very true, I guess I should remember the Jason-Molly constant refrain that none of these people really love each other yet

grace8136 wrote:

hmbach wrote:

murasaki1393 wrote:

its Jordan. she came back and went home eventually. episode 5

Didn't Jordan have her hair up when she was there?  Also wasn't Jordan indoors when he let her go?  Seems like she had a brown jacket on too.  This looks like it's outside (and weird to say, but outside).

Even if it's not her, with one of the other things that Whitney said early on about excusing herself if she didn't think she could live there or if she didn't feel a connection I think Whitney will excuse herself before the FRC.  Just a hunch.

Mura- which episode was this particular SC from? (at 3:15) Jordan did have her hair up in episode 5. TIA

I just looked and Jordan DOES HAVE HER HAIR UP!!! So WHO is THIS!! OH I am getting excited!! He is wearing the same outfit as the scene from him crying in the final preview too no???

lurker11 wrote:^^ that kind of makes me sad... why is it worse if she says I love you and gets dumped than if Whitney does? I'm always so bummed when the F2 says I love you

If she tells him she loves him on her own than that's totally fine happens every season with the final 2 professing their love only to get heartbroken. BUT, Chris was basically trying to pull it out of her on Monday and wasn't "satisfied" that she hadn't told him yet. If that continues into the finale and he gets what he wants to hear from her just to dump her I'll be pissed. Especially because he will be the FIRST person she has ever said those words to

truelovealways wrote:

lurker11 wrote:^^ that kind of makes me sad... why is it worse if she says I love you and gets dumped than if Whitney does? I'm always so bummed when the F2 says I love you

If she tells him she loves him on her own than that's totally fine happens every season with the final 2 professing their love only to get heartbroken. BUT, Chris was basically trying to pull it out of her on Monday and wasn't "satisfied" that she hadn't told him yet. If that continues into the finale and he gets what he wants to hear from her just to dump her I'll be pissed. Especially because he will be the FIRST person she has ever said those words to

Exactly!!

I think there is evidence she probably does tell him she loves him. In the season preview you here her say "I've learned love like I never imagined." I'm not sure why she would be saying this, but not tell Chris she loves him.

hmbach wrote:

truelovealways wrote:

lurker11 wrote:^^ that kind of makes me sad... why is it worse if she says I love you and gets dumped than if Whitney does? I'm always so bummed when the F2 says I love you

If she tells him she loves him on her own than that's totally fine happens every season with the final 2 professing their love only to get heartbroken. BUT, Chris was basically trying to pull it out of her on Monday and wasn't "satisfied" that she hadn't told him yet. If that continues into the finale and he gets what he wants to hear from her just to dump her I'll be pissed. Especially because he will be the FIRST person she has ever said those words to

Exactly!!

I suppose.  I guess I'm voicing an EXTREMELY unpopular opinion here - but she knew she'd never been in love and she knew this was a possibility.... if she didn't want the first time she said it to be on tv..... then don't go on the bach, I wouldn't have put my first love on tv for all the money in the world :hidingchair

Becca posts a tweet with the hashtag #allidoiswin while making a "W" sign with her fingers?   Now, where have I heard that before?  Oh yeah, "This is what victory looks like!"  

hmbach wrote:

grace8136 wrote:

hmbach wrote:

Didn't Jordan have her hair up when she was there?  Also wasn't Jordan indoors when he let her go?  Seems like she had a brown jacket on too.  This looks like it's outside (and weird to say, but outside).

Even if it's not her, with one of the other things that Whitney said early on about excusing herself if she didn't think she could live there or if she didn't feel a connection I think Whitney will excuse herself before the FRC.  Just a hunch.

Mura- which episode was this particular SC from? (at 3:15) Jordan did have her hair up in episode 5. TIA

I just looked and Jordan DOES HAVE HER HAIR UP!!! So WHO is THIS!! OH I am getting excited!! He is wearing the same outfit as the scene from him crying in the final preview too no???

I think it looks like Becca. :hidingchair

grace8136 wrote:

hmbach wrote:

grace8136 wrote:

Mura- which episode was this particular SC from? (at 3:15) Jordan did have her hair up in episode 5. TIA

I just looked and Jordan DOES HAVE HER HAIR UP!!! So WHO is THIS!! OH I am getting excited!! He is wearing the same outfit as the scene from him crying in the final preview too no???

I think it looks like Becca. :hidingchair

That's Megan.