Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilly #4

**Edited** If you just gave up what you thought could be your first real love would you be smiling, happy, and instagramming the next day? Especially when your grandmother just died??  On the other hand W was silent on SM for quite sometime following...

Anyway I don't mean to cause any trouble or anything harmless debate. We are entitled to our opinions and like I said all three seem really happy so whatever happened it worked out so I am just going to to go to bed.

I hope I didn't upset anyone I just don't believe if he really loved Becca or whatever he would have gotten engaged to Whitney.

Diana wrote:I am honestly confused on how you can believe that stuff and then say you think Becca is F1 though. Don't they contradict one another?

It believe the articles clearly imply Whitney is F1, if one wants yo believe them.  Doesn't change how I feel about Chris and Becca falling in love the last few eps though. And I get why he'd be so torn.

Diana wrote:

ElonM wrote:

Hopefully wrote:K now Im going to type more if you read the Us mag. It says this so please don't make me Duck agin.  word for word you all be the judge. (Tilly took the huge step of introducing Soules to her family- the first time she ever brought a man to SAN DIEGO.)  That's why I asked about you all about her sister Katie and where the home town date was.  So please don't beleave this. If they put this in the same mag as what was shown. What else is not true? I still beleave that Becca is the ONE... And I'm sticking to it.

Thanks for sharing.

I guess they got the SD HTD wrong. So what else is wrong in the magazine?

I think the only thing they got right is that Chris was torn between them both. Clearly he had strong feelings for BOTH.

I think that remains to be seen and I will be interested to hear what Chris has to say at the FRC and the ATFR. So far what I am seeing is basic stuff they always say to both and editing to give us what they want us to see. JMOAA.

Chrisbecca wrote:US Magazine and what we know so far.

Last Rose Ceremony
Becca talking to Chris-im not doing good. I havent slept, because I cant stop thinking about you. Im crazy about you.

Whitney talking about Chris walking back into the Rose Ceremony with Becca -Im confused. I thought he sent her home. She cant be right for him if I am right for him. Then sizes Becca up against her standards.

Chris and Becca took things slow-she came on the show with that attitude day one. She set their pace and was level headed. Whitney, as noted, stepped out of the limo, infatuated with Chris, ready to marry him and have his babies....and she didn't even know him.

Whitney leaves. Hes engaged to Becca.

I stopped with your response so others may agree, too but you said exactly what I'm thinking MAY have happened. I do believe the article...but I don't take every play on words to heart. They could have said some things differently, but that doesn't add up to more mags being purchased.

I will NOT be surprised at all if Whitney is the one who walked away. Whitney knows what she wants and is a very smart young lady. She knows how this show works and if she sensed any uncertainty about Chris's total commitment to her, I can easily see her saying...woah, back up .... this is not what I signed up for.

The mag did it's job...the buzz begins!

I know this is Becca's thread but I do think the sailing will be smoother for Chris if she is the one who walked away. If Whitney didn't change her mind, she's all in... no worries for him.

relaxing wrote:

Diana wrote:I am honestly confused on how you can believe that stuff and then say you think Becca is F1 though. Don't they contradict one another?

It believe the articles clearly imply Whitney is F1, if one wants yo believe them.  Doesn't change how I feel about Chris and Becca falling in love the last few eps though. And I get why he'd be so torn.

Maybe... but if he was so torn he had to have been that torn on the FS dates, so why not let her go there instead? Doesn't add up to me.

US Weekly is actually pretty reliable. IMO, I think legitimate sources close to the show release things to mags pretty close to the finale to get people even more interested. Before the finale episode, about a couple of weeks before, they released a huge story about how Andi got engaged to the guy she loved and who was her dream guy, but her runner up was begging for a second chance behind the scenes. Well, we obviously now know that the whole story was just about 100% accurate.

I've been a very casual viewer this season. I skipped the first few episodes and I've done zero digging, but I think it's pretty clear he really, really liked both women for different reasons. While I do think Whitney is the F1, I have zero issue believing US Weekly's story because I think it's pretty accurate. Becca is probably one of the most sane thinking contestants to ever go on the show and it would have been very interesting to see what would have happened if she didn't think with both her head and heart and just dove in foolishly like ever other contestant does. Good on her for trying to make this silly show more real to figure all of her feelings out.

I have a theory that I'll be using to determine the F1 in the last episode.

If I'm right Chris is yet to use his tongue when kissing both ladies, whomever he does it with on the LCD is the F1.

Please DO POST PICS of magazines without a link to support the source.

Kashathediva wrote:

Diana wrote:

ElonM wrote:

Thanks for sharing.

I guess they got the SD HTD wrong. So what else is wrong in the magazine?

I think the only thing they got right is that Chris was torn between them both. Clearly he had strong feelings for BOTH.

I think that remains to be seen and I will be interested to hear what Chris has to say at the FRC and the ATFR. So far what I am seeing is basic stuff they always say to both and editing to give us what they want us to see. JMOAA.

He was quoted on the show as saying he "wasn't there yet" in referencing being in love with Whitney when talking to CH on the FSD. Now Becca he acted like he was in love and was sure she would feel the same way given a little time... I have a really hard time thinking that if I was W that wouldn't sting.

ElonM wrote:I have a theory that I'll be using to determine the F1 in the last episode.

If I'm right Chris is yet to use his tongue when kissing both ladies, whomever he does it with on the LCD is the F1.

He has with Becca. They usually start to pan away as soon as it gets heavier... that was my first clue that he wasn't as into W as he was B. If you watch his body language (other than the boat armpit grab) they sit miles apart from each other compared to B and C. Body language says ALOT. He only ever peck kissed W. The entire season. Also, most all of the other interactions they had were driven by W. Which I guess could support B leaving but it doesn't make sense and definitely makes it look like he "settles" for W if he indeed chooses her.

truelovealways wrote:

Diana wrote:

truelovealways wrote:IF Becca left on her own and Chris picked Whitney because Becca "just wasn't into him" (which I'm not seeing) than that sucks for Whitney it's never fun being the default :hidingchair

It never said he was going to choose Becca but she left so I am not sure where this default stuff is coming from. I doubt IF he is engaged to Whitney it was because she is default. Maybe its because she wants to give him the things he wants?  :hidingchair

"It really came down to a feeling" sensing her hesitation, Soules, 33 followed his gut and proposed to the woman he believed was all in" That screams to me he wanted Becca BUT because she wasn't all in he chose another. Kinda like papa Soules said jmo :hidingchair

IMO I think US Mag is just speculating and the source's are RS and this is forum. If and a BIG IF C chooses W, I feel bad for her. If I were F1 I would want my love story to be told not F2's and the love story I'm seeing is C and B!!