Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilly #4

So... Just because I was curious I went back through the seasons of CH's 5 to watch and the only times he has mentioned f1 in his five to watch is if they are all caught up in the drama. Whitney didn't seem too caught up in the drama so IF she was final 1 why mention her he always mentions either f2 or f3 as part of his 5 to watch :whistle:

Pia1 wrote:I admit, I want Becca to be the last woman standing because of the love story I see playing out on my TV screen between her and C. Although, it seems that everyone is happy post show, I will still feel disappointed if she's not F1.

Me too! I will admit I'll take it kind of hard if Becca isn't F1. I've been so invested in this season and it's all because of Chrecca:)

Here is something else I read as well that caught me off guard. Truelove. Thanks for pointing it out to me a bought C and Andi. She was in it and CH talks about the refashionship between them to. He said that C was insecure with Whitney due to the fact that her being so successful in her career. Andi was the same way (succesful wise) from what I've been reading so far. She was a lawyer rt or I maybe rong who know now Anyways and he worries about her handling Arlington and how she would actully feel. Like you all have said she's ready to move and pop out babies and all. Maybe that's the hang up with her. He doesn't feel she should have to give up her life she loves so much and drop all that she has worked so hard for just for him. I understand she says she would. But maybe he just can't get over that wall. C said on the date with her he kinda thinks that she would be crazy to consider Giving up what she's doing to move Arlington its huge sacrifice. K carry on.

Boy you have to check on this thread often to keep up! Just an observation
.Whitney now seems to be concerned that she may not be his clear cut F1. That has to reflect from Chris latest interactions with her as well as nerves. Becca on the other hand seems to be about...what her decision will be when he proposes because she's beginning to sense through that FD it's a strong possibility. They've really just begun their journey in the last two maybe 2 1/2 weeks...what's a sensible girl who's fallen in love going to do? From their interactions and Chris's prodding of her mindset...it is almost as if Whitney is the last thing she's worried about. (That is not a knock on Whitney)! She's awesome and I so think the road ahead as in achieving what he wants would be the easiest with her.
So IMOO, he is sending more warm and fuzxies Becca's way.

Hopefully wrote:I know you all really don't read into the tabloids here. So here is something that I just read, Chris was very conflicted towards the end says a source. He really struggled with his feelings a lot. But after three months after proposing with a Neal Dimond- and getting a yes from his final choice. He has his feelings all sorted out. Souls tell us they are working on establishing a refashionship outside of his crazy world we just went through..

This has got to be so disturbing to the final 1. If he was torn and had a hard time figuring out who to propose to that does not bode well for a future relationship JMHO I wish Chris would have kept this to himself. NOW his feelings are sorted out??!! WT$?? This is just another reason a lead should not propose marriage to someone at the end of the "show."

pkk wrote:

Pia1 wrote:I admit, I want Becca to be the last woman standing because of the love story I see playing out on my TV screen between her and C. Although, it seems that everyone is happy post show, I will still feel disappointed if she's not F1.

Me too! I will admit I'll take it kind of hard if Becca isn't F1. I've been so invested in this season and it's all because of Chrecca:)

And I'm completely opposite!  While I like the love story I see unfolding with Becca and Chris, and tend to favor it over the Whitney and Chris one, I am more a fan of Becca than Chris.  Some of his actions and words have left me thinking he was far from Prince Charming, so maybe she realizes while he was a nice guy and she was falling in love, he might not be the one for her.  There may be someone else better suited for her that she will meet and better appreciate down the road.  If she is indeed F1, then I'll be happy for her and her love story I watched unfold.  I guess for me, as long as Becca is happy, and she appears to be post season, I'm happy for her regardless the outcome.

The only F1 I have seen CH mention in his 5 to watch are Vienna and Courtney for obvious reasons they were both train wreck drama queens

This show has aged me by 10 years and I'm not that old Lmbo... Just kidding carry on..

Ladybug82 wrote:

pkk wrote:

Pia1 wrote:I admit, I want Becca to be the last woman standing because of the love story I see playing out on my TV screen between her and C. Although, it seems that everyone is happy post show, I will still feel disappointed if she's not F1.

Me too! I will admit I'll take it kind of hard if Becca isn't F1. I've been so invested in this season and it's all because of Chrecca:)

And I'm completely opposite!  While I like the love story I see unfolding with Becca and Chris, and tend to favor it over the Whitney and Chris one, I am more a fan of Becca than Chris.  Some of his actions and words have left me thinking he was far from Prince Charming, so maybe she realizes while he was a nice guy and she was falling in love, he might not be the one for her.  There may be someone else better suited for her that she will meet and better appreciate down the road.  If she is indeed F1, then I'll be happy for her and her love story I watched unfold.  I guess for me, as long as Becca is happy, and she appears to be post season, I'm happy for her regardless the outcome.

I agree. I like Becca and Whitney and I have a feeling that with each them right now in the real world, they might be asking to "take it slow," and for good reason.

Ladybug82 wrote:

pkk wrote:

Pia1 wrote:I admit, I want Becca to be the last woman standing because of the love story I see playing out on my TV screen between her and C. Although, it seems that everyone is happy post show, I will still feel disappointed if she's not F1.

Me too! I will admit I'll take it kind of hard if Becca isn't F1. I've been so invested in this season and it's all because of Chrecca:)

And I'm completely opposite!  While I like the love story I see unfolding with Becca and Chris, and tend to favor it over the Whitney and Chris one, I am more a fan of Becca than Chris.  Some of his actions and words have left me thinking he was far from Prince Charming, so maybe she realizes while he was a nice guy and she was falling in love, he might not be the one for her.  There may be someone else better suited for her that she will meet and better appreciate down the road.  If she is indeed F1, then I'll be happy for her and her love story I watched unfold.  I guess for me, as long as Becca is happy, and she appears to be post season, I'm happy for her regardless the outcome.

I agree, Ladybug! I feel that Becca really deserves to hold out for a man who shares her faith and values. I really can't see Chris as the type to wait until marriage either. But there are men out there who feel the same as Becca. :Nod:

I would like Becca to be F1 if (and only if) Chris is the right guy for her. If he's not, then I'm glad she's happy no matter the outcome. Although, I must admit, I have enjoyed watching the two of them and have the episodes of their dates on my dvr.
Having said that, I do still think she's F1. Thank you to all the people who sleuth, share videos, etc. It's because of what I've read on this thread and watching their love story that made me change my mind about the spoilers. I wasn't going to make the mistake again (Des) of believing the spoilers without looking for clues first. You all have made this a fun ride.

mprssdbyu wrote:Boy you have to check on this thread often to keep up! Just an observation
.Whitney now seems to be concerned that she may not be his clear cut F1. That has to reflect from Chris latest interactions with her as well as nerves. Becca on the other hand seems to be about...what her decision will be when he proposes because she's beginning to sense through that FD it's a strong possibility. They've really just begun their journey in the last two maybe 2 1/2 weeks...what's a sensible girl who's fallen in love going to do? From their interactions and Chris's prodding of her mindset...it is almost as if Whitney is the last thing she's worried about. (That is not a knock on Whitney)! She's awesome and I so think the road ahead as in achieving what he wants would be the easiest with her.
So IMOO, he is sending more warm and fuzxies Becca's way.

Isn't that what the producers do...give the F1 insecurities and tell the F2 you're the one he wants? I'm not just referring to this show but all shows, manipulate the lead and F1 and F2...leading them down the wrong path, telling them things that aren't true.