Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilly #4

Aunties_Love wrote:Just throwing this out there but, is there any possibility that Chris is with Becca and her family...I know, highly unlikely but thought I`d ask.  I am just thinking that since they are talking so close on twitter like that, maybe they are together

They are, that used to happen with Josh and Andi a lot. We knew it bcs they will both tweet almost at the same time.

Talking about the rose ceremony ...
I have no doubt that the order is made by the producers, Chris has a chance to decide who he really wants to continue with (with the help of suggestion), but the order is then adapted to accommodate Chris' preference and the most efficient way to create some reaction in girls.
Did anyone observe this season if the order shown was different than in reality?
I think they aired pretty much the exact version, but could be wrong.

I'm pretty convinced that Kaitlyn's exist was "programed" by the 3rd episode. So there is no doubt that she was meant to be F3. Similar happened with Chris last year, he knew going in (Bette) that there's a good chance to get a gig by the end, it was a matter of "the performance" (no matter how real) and being likeable. Kaitlyn made it perfect.
Maybe I could even buy that Britt was in consideration and blew it, but I would lean to believe that the whole talk about hers possibility is more just that, talk, to make people animated about who they would like.
After all TPTB has a bunch of professionals who "study people" for their living and I'm sure they even expected the exact Britt's behavior and had valuated the risk of the reaction from other participants.
Nothing is left to a chance and everything more likely resembles the annual financial reports, estimations and assumptions, short and long-lived assets, ...

hmbach wrote:

hmbach wrote:Who is this at 3:15 the voice over starts with C saying "I am here to look for my wife" and then "you're more than welcome to go home" showing Whitney then this... I have seen this a billion times, but am just now wondering what if Becca is F1 because Whitney goes home after going to Arlington??

OH!!! And just after that he says, " I am the luckiest Man Alive" and ALL of the shots shown as he is saying that are BECCA!!! I will LOOSE it if she isn't F1.  No way she can't be in my mind now.

The "luckiest man alive" voice over comes from this scene.  He says it directly to Kaitlyn when he is giving her the rose.  

The Bachelor - Kaitlyn Gets a Hometown Date - YouTube

Sorry 
Not sure what it means that Becca is shown in the preview with the words voiced over.

Hopefully wrote:**snipped** Im wondering if he told her about how he felt about Andi and how he fell in love with her and how she broke his heart. And that he had been down that road before. ***snipped*** And I think that's why he pressured her so much because he had fallen in love with her now. ***snipped***

Hopefully, I must admit I chuckle sometimes reading your comments, mostly because I have to figure out what some abbreviations mean, but have no problem with you trying to figure it out and read between the lines. We all try just the same, and I may be the first to be really off.
I just want to comment on the quote above ... this is JMHO ... that Chris was never in love with Andi and didn't have his heart broken by her. I would go as far and say that he probably wasn't even into her much, otherwise he would be more upfront, the way we've seen him being during this season, but he kept enough distance and enough air-time to be considered for The Bachelor. More likely the story, that has being reported online about his long-term relationship (and engagement), has been close to the truth, and growing and maturing he now knows what kind of woman he wants, the one who would be willing to move to Iowa, something that previous fiancee wasn't.
So I guess that is scary to think, that you've found your "The One", but she doesn't want to move to your hometown. So I read it more like him trying to get some reassurance that the feeling (of her being The One) isn't betraying him again and that she will eventually be ready to move. We'll see.

notarose wrote:

hmbach wrote:

hmbach wrote:Who is this at 3:15 the voice over starts with C saying "I am here to look for my wife" and then "you're more than welcome to go home" showing Whitney then this... I have seen this a billion times, but am just now wondering what if Becca is F1 because Whitney goes home after going to Arlington??

OH!!! And just after that he says, " I am the luckiest Man Alive" and ALL of the shots shown as he is saying that are BECCA!!! I will LOOSE it if she isn't F1.  No way she can't be in my mind now.

The "luckiest man alive" voice over comes from this scene.  He says it directly to Kaitlyn when he is giving her the rose.  

The Bachelor - Kaitlyn Gets a Hometown Date - YouTube

Sorry 
Not sure what it means that Becca is shown in the preview with the words voiced over.

I know, but if you just listen to the words (not in any reference to where they came from in the season) and just look at them in reference to the story that the preview is telling Becca is the F1. Even if you just listen to the words (without reference to the specific girls they are coming from) it sounds like a Becca narrative to me.

In episode 3, Chris and Becca have SQT on the roof with the breathtaking LA backdrop and this is the first time we are introduced to their "hand dances"...palms flat, then fingers intertwined, but no kiss.  Fast forward to the FS and we can see them doing the same exact "hand dance" through the curtain, but this time, there is kissing.  Just something I noticed.

happygolucky wrote:Talking about the rose ceremony ...
I have no doubt that the order is made by the producers, Chris has a chance to decide who he really wants to continue with (with the help of suggestion), but the order is then adapted to accommodate Chris' preference and the most efficient way to create some reaction in girls.
Did anyone observe this season if the order shown was different than in reality?
I think they aired pretty much the exact version, but could be wrong.

I'm pretty convinced that Kaitlyn's exist was "programed" by the 3rd episode. So there is no doubt that she was meant to be F3. Similar happened with Chris last year, he knew going in (Bette) that there's a good chance to get a gig by the end, it was a matter of "the performance" (no matter how real) and being likeable. Kaitlyn made it perfect.
Maybe I could even buy that Britt was in consideration and blew it, but I would lean to believe that the whole talk about hers possibility is more just that, talk, to make people animated about who they would like.
After all TPTB has a bunch of professionals who "study people" for their living and I'm sure they even expected the exact Britt's behavior and had valuated the risk of the reaction from other participants.
Nothing is left to a chance and everything more likely resembles the annual financial reports, estimations and assumptions, short and long-lived assets, ...

Totally agree with you!!

Maggenzm wrote:

Aunties_Love wrote:Just throwing this out there but, is there any possibility that Chris is with Becca and her family...I know, highly unlikely but thought I`d ask.  I am just thinking that since they are talking so close on twitter like that, maybe they are together

They are, that used to happen with Josh and Andi a lot. We knew it bcs they will both tweet almost at the same time.

Thanks for answering....that's pretty cool that he's with her and her family....hope they are all having as good of a time as the pics look!

Sorry to post this, but you all are right. I think Whitney backs out. I've seen her twitter and on Feb.18th she posted ( news to me in ) in regards to her job about Arlington. And that she posted a link to her job. I think she came on for exposure. And I will bet you this. The company she works for is getting it as well. Its a job she loves. Like C said not all the girls are being True. I like her dont get me rong. I think she used him. Sorry but that's how I'm starting to feel about this hole thing and she has seen what has come out of the show. Sorry JMO...

And on her hometown she went straight to something she loves. I love babies to. But I would want to enterduce the man I'm in love with to my family first then maybe to my work.Not the other way around. To be honest isn't that what most people do. Love family first.

One last thing. On the next preview they show Whitney being upset. We knows she thinks she has this all in the bag. She knows Becca was a V I'm sure. Now ask yourself would you want to loose to a V after you prob. Just slep with him ( just guessing now) probly not. Who would she (Becca) doesn't know what it's like, but Whitney does. No pun intended I wouldn't want to loose that way. And maybe she doesn't feel she has a chance with C if he has brought her this far. So instead of what happened in the last RC with kat. She isn't going to let him do the same thing to her. Get blindsided. Why not beat him to it. I would. You remember she wasn't happy at all about Becca being picked. The claws came out. Her face said it all. Anyways this is just my Op. on all this. And I'm sure you all went over this already.

I would disagree that Whitney used Chris for exposure, actually I'm more than surprised she isn't much active on SM if she is F1. (if not, just for support of Chris being on DWTS) The way I read Chris' comment that people may not truly be willing to move to Arlington, even if they say otherwise, is more likely referenced to all the other girls who left. I do believe Whitney joined Bach just because of Chris and nothing more, but whatever the outcome, she has every right to "capitalize" her public appearance, if that means exposure for her profession and the clinic she works for, I'm saluting the idea.
I doubt any of F2 women backed out in the last episode. One will be seen heartbroken (in that moment I believe it hurts) the other happy for the new beginning (since the real challenge and true love develops only ATFR).