Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #3

Good job Andi. No need to bring up Nick, for what? I doubt if she was putting it out there for Josh, I believe 100% what she said in that IG post, she address the rumors for her fans and people who like her.

I just saw that Andi's mom favorited some tweets in regards to the rumors too. One of them was the one about suing if the story is false and that Nick is so unclassy and another one was essentially about Andi valuing herself and not getting involved with Nick. I just don't think anything romantic is going on.

If there was any truth to the actual story, there would be pictures of it, not just two pictures of them standing or sitting there looking like they're not even really interacting with each other. If they saw Andi dancing on the bar and all over Nick, there would have been pictures - not just an "unnamed source" giving this story.

I'm glad she did it. I don't think it was too personal and it wasn't like she tweeted it out . She responded with an IG comment that not everyone will see unless you go looking for it. It was directed at those fans.

As far as Josh and Nick not caring anymore. I don't believe that one bit. Maybe Nick is over her, but I don't think Josh has moved on like some on here have presumed. We all handle breakups differently but from personal experiences and those close to me, you can appear to be happy and moving on with your life when just the opposite is true. There appears to still be a lot of emotion and hurt between Josh and Andi right now which screams feelings to me. We can't possibly be in Josh's head to say he's over her. I don't believe it.

Laudergirl wrote:I'm glad she did it. I don't think it was too personal and it wasn't like she tweeted it out . She responded with an IG comment  that not everyone will see unless  you go looking for it. It was directed at those fans.

As far as Josh and Nick not caring anymore. I don't believe that one bit. Maybe Nick is over her, but I don't think Josh has moved on like some  on here have presumed. We all handle breakups differently but from personal experiences and those close to me, you can appear to be happy and moving on with your life when just the opposite is true. There appears to still be a lot of emotion and hurt between Josh and Andi right now which screams feelings to me. We can't possibly be in Josh's head to say he's over her. I don't believe it.

I agree, realistically speaking, how would Josh know that Andi deleted the rest of their pics to then the same day go deleting his own Instas of them if he forgot she existed? Obviously he "doesn't care" to the point of checking up on her often enough to know when to play the eye for an eye game with her almost immediately. Oh goodness. The MATURITY of these two burns.

 I'm one that presumes that Nick has moved on from MeandI.  He seems completely unconcerned about the pics posted of him sitting near Pookie at a bar in Chicago.  A "non-event", if you will.

I'm also one that presumes that Josh is moving on from MeandI.  He's doing all the things he did prior to his stint on reality tv:  working, charity functions, activities with family and friends, posting positive affirmations of his faith on SM.  Since no one can be in his head, why presume he is faking living his life in this positive fashion?   

I admit I don't follow any of the contestants on SM and only see what is posted here.  However, I have yet to see any expressions of Josh wracked with pain, hurt or feelings screaming out of him.  Quite the opposite.  Maybe - just maybe- what we see is what it is.

Alanna wrote:

Laudergirl wrote:I'm glad she did it. I don't think it was too personal and it wasn't like she tweeted it out . She responded with an IG comment  that not everyone will see unless  you go looking for it. It was directed at those fans.

As far as Josh and Nick not caring anymore. I don't believe that one bit. Maybe Nick is over her, but I don't think Josh has moved on like some  on here have presumed. We all handle breakups differently but from personal experiences and those close to me, you can appear to be happy and moving on with your life when just the opposite is true. There appears to still be a lot of emotion and hurt between Josh and Andi right now which screams feelings to me. We can't possibly be in Josh's head to say he's over her. I don't believe it.

I agree, realistically speaking, how would Josh know that Andi deleted the rest of their pics to then the same day go deleting his own Instas of them if he forgot she existed? Obviously he "doesn't care" to the point of checking up on her often enough to know when to play the eye for an eye game with her almost immediately. Oh goodness. The MATURITY of these two burns.

Alanna, you really "know" (knew) this couple.  You nailed it again.  ;)

soccermom333 wrote:

Alanna wrote:

Laudergirl wrote:I'm glad she did it. I don't think it was too personal and it wasn't like she tweeted it out . She responded with an IG comment  that not everyone will see unless  you go looking for it. It was directed at those fans.

As far as Josh and Nick not caring anymore. I don't believe that one bit. Maybe Nick is over her, but I don't think Josh has moved on like some  on here have presumed. We all handle breakups differently but from personal experiences and those close to me, you can appear to be happy and moving on with your life when just the opposite is true. There appears to still be a lot of emotion and hurt between Josh and Andi right now which screams feelings to me. We can't possibly be in Josh's head to say he's over her. I don't believe it.

I agree, realistically speaking, how would Josh know that Andi deleted the rest of their pics to then the same day go deleting his own Instas of them if he forgot she existed? Obviously he "doesn't care" to the point of checking up on her often enough to know when to play the eye for an eye game with her almost immediately. Oh goodness. The MATURITY of these two burns.

Alanna, you really "know" (knew) this couple.  You nailed it again.  ;)

Also neither one of them completely deleted all of the pictures, both of them still have some of them together.

I'm glad that Andi posted and addressed the rumors as false; however, I think it was in extremely poor taste for her and her mom to favor posts that said that Nick was classless. I think that Nick and Andi's groups of friends just happened to meet up that night, but if she thought Nick was so classless and beneath her, then she shouldn't have been sitting next to him. She could have chosen to leave the bar once she realized Nick was there or she could have chosen to sit on the opposite side of Christy, away from Nick. It just rubs me the wrong way that she continually tries to put Nick down like she thinks she is better than him. Maybe Nick shouldn't have said what he said at ATFR, but Andi has some responsibility in the evolution of their relationship and how it ended as well. I don't want to turn this into a debate about what should or shouldn't go on in the fantasy suite, but Andi did choose to sleep with Nick. Earlier this week I was watching E! News and Ali Fedotowsky was on and talking about her time as the bachelorette and about the fantasy suite. Ali said she did not sleep with any of the F3 during the overnight dates. If Andi didn't want to deal with any fallout from sleeping with Nick, then she shouldn't have slept with Nick in the fantasy suite. Putting him down now so long after the fact is what is classless, imo.

Ash2214 wrote:I just saw that Andi's mom favorited some tweets in regards to the rumors too. One of them was the one about suing if the story is false and that Nick is so unclassy and another one was essentially about Andi valuing herself and not getting involved with Nick. I just don't think anything romantic is going on.

If there was any truth to the actual story, there would be pictures of it, not just two pictures of them standing or sitting there looking like they're not even really interacting with each other. If they saw Andi dancing on the bar and all over Nick, there would have been pictures - not just an "unnamed source" giving this story.

Eww that family never ceases to amaze me. Andi will never change , the sooner she becomes irrelevant the better. Bring on the new Bacherlotte series. Nick still remains the classy one in this whole debacle.

Sable wrote:I'm glad that Andi posted and addressed the rumors as false; however, I think it was in extremely poor taste for her and her mom to favor posts that said that Nick was classless.  I think that Nick and Andi's groups of friends just happened to meet up that night, but if she thought Nick was so classless and beneath her, then she shouldn't have been sitting next to him.  She could have chosen to leave the bar once she realized Nick was there or she could have chosen to sit on the opposite side of Christy, away from Nick.  It just rubs me the wrong way that she continually tries to put Nick down like she thinks she is better than him.  Maybe Nick shouldn't have said what he said at ATFR, but Andi has some responsibility in the evolution of their relationship and how it ended as well.  I don't want to turn this into a debate about what should or shouldn't go on in the fantasy suite, but Andi did choose to sleep with Nick.  Earlier this week I was watching E! News and Ali Fedotowsky was on and talking about her time as the bachelorette and about the fantasy suite.  Ali said she did not sleep with any of the F3 during the overnight dates.  If Andi didn't want to deal with any fallout from sleeping with Nick, then she shouldn't have slept with Nick in the fantasy suite.  Putting him down now so long after the fact is what is classless, imo.

I guess in all fairness to both of them, it looks like Andi and Christy are sitting at the bar and Nick is standing at the bar. It's possible Nick was elsewhere in the bar with his group of friends and went up to get another drink, hence not sitting at the bar, but standing there and that's when the person was able to snap a couple of pictures. If there was more interacting, there would have been better pictures IMO. Given the two pictures, it's possible that was the situation given it doesn't even look like they're necessarily interacting and maybe Andi and Nick were just cordial to each other knowing they were both there. It's possible to be in the same room with a person that you don't like and I think Andi and her family's favorites show she still doesn't like him.

StacyNor, Sable, and FLchica I agree with what all of you have posted. I really think it is also very immature for Andi and her mother to favor any tweet that is negative about Nick. He has moved on and has said nothing but kind things about Andi. Seems to me the only one that has not moved on is MeAndi. Josh and Nick are clearly happy in their life at this point and are living a normal life. I totally agree with StacyNor the only one out of the three of them that has stayed classy is Nick. JMO.

Ash2214 wrote:

Sable wrote:I'm glad that Andi posted and addressed the rumors as false; however, I think it was in extremely poor taste for her and her mom to favor posts that said that Nick was classless.  I think that Nick and Andi's groups of friends just happened to meet up that night, but if she thought Nick was so classless and beneath her, then she shouldn't have been sitting next to him.  She could have chosen to leave the bar once she realized Nick was there or she could have chosen to sit on the opposite side of Christy, away from Nick.  It just rubs me the wrong way that she continually tries to put Nick down like she thinks she is better than him.  Maybe Nick shouldn't have said what he said at ATFR, but Andi has some responsibility in the evolution of their relationship and how it ended as well.  I don't want to turn this into a debate about what should or shouldn't go on in the fantasy suite, but Andi did choose to sleep with Nick.  Earlier this week I was watching E! News and Ali Fedotowsky was on and talking about her time as the bachelorette and about the fantasy suite.  Ali said she did not sleep with any of the F3 during the overnight dates.  If Andi didn't want to deal with any fallout from sleeping with Nick, then she shouldn't have slept with Nick in the fantasy suite.  Putting him down now so long after the fact is what is classless, imo.

I guess in all fairness to both of them, it looks like Andi and Christy are sitting at the bar and Nick is standing at the bar. It's possible Nick was elsewhere in the bar with his group of friends and went up to get another drink, hence not sitting at the bar, but standing there and that's when the person was able to snap a couple of pictures. If there was more interacting, there would have been better pictures IMO. Given the two pictures, it's possible that was the situation given it doesn't even look like they're necessarily interacting and maybe Andi and Nick were just cordial to each other knowing they were both there. It's possible to be in the same room as a person that you don't like and I think Andi and her family's favorites show she still doesn't like him.

I agree with you Ash about Nick walking to the bar to get a drink because one picture clearly shows her back is to him.