Andi Dorfman - The Bachelorette 10 - Discussion - #3

MiaHawk wrote:

Linds911 wrote:@AndiDorfman
That one time I packed my bags, got a one way ticket and moved to NYC! Scary and exhilarating at the same time! #NYC http://t.co/iiW9g1UmPE

Anyone else seeing W 4th Street on that sign? That's down by NYU. Anyone recognize that plot of land? Anyone know where in NYC Sharlene lives?

That is Sheridan Square in the Village at Seventh Avenue and W 4th. Northern Dispensary is the low brick building in the distance. No idea where Sharleen lives.

glazedover wrote:

MiaHawk wrote:

Linds911 wrote:@AndiDorfman
That one time I packed my bags, got a one way ticket and moved to NYC! Scary and exhilarating at the same time! #NYC http://t.co/iiW9g1UmPE

Anyone else seeing W 4th Street on that sign? That's down by NYU. Anyone recognize that plot of land? Anyone know where in NYC Sharlene lives?

That is Sheridan Square in the Village at Seventh Avenue and W 4th. Northern Dispensary is the low brick building in the distance. No idea where Sharleen lives.

Thanks, glazedover. I knew a NYC local would recognize the spot!

Man, with that Delta plane at Laguardia today, :shocked!: Andi's lucky she flew into NYC a day earlier!

Andi Dorfman
‏@AndiDorfman
Is there an age cut off for #unfollowing people?! (wink emoji) #justcurious


Well I guess she views Joshs constant following and unfollowing immature too

When your core group of friends are 25yr olds, it's not shocking that he'd be lacking maturity. I really wish he would expand his friend base and include guys his own age already!

Honestly, she imo is no better with the silly sm stuff.

She'll be pushing products on twitter the rest of her life. So immature.

Using SM as a marketing tool is standard now. I think it's smart for her to use all tools in her new career. It's not unlike Sean, Catherine, Jef, several Bach alum. who have done the same post show.

I think subtweeting is far more immature than unfollowing an ex. And I don't understand how keeping your feelings private and just wanting to move on with your life is being immature. Josh has never spoken out about this breakup or said one bad word about Andi. Nor has his circle of "younger" friends. In fact several of them still follow her on SM and have shown support by favoriting her posts.

Josh has every right to do what he needs to do to get over Andi. If unfollowing her so he doesnt have the constant reminders of her popping up on his phone is what's best for him, then he should be able to do that without being judged. He's not the one announcing to the world that he has unfollowed her. The fans and SM stalkers are. And it's not our business. Why do we even know these things? Why are we monitoring their follows and unfollows and favorites? Is it because it gives us hope as fans that things are good between them or that they may reconcile? They dont need the burden of trying to please us fans as they try to heal and get over one another. Maybe we are the immature ones in this situation for expecting that. If Josh needs to unfollow Andi in order to heal, so be it. He needs to do what is best for him. Andi has left and started fresh in NYC.

I also find it a little hypocritical to say Josh is being immature and not mention Andis tweet yesterday about age limit for unfollowing. She announced what could be easly considered a slam on Josh to all of her hundreds of thousands of followers before she unfollowed him on IG. How is that acceptable behavior but Josh quietly unfollowing her immature? I just don't get it.

^ His two best friends Chad and Jay aren't 25. If I'm remembering correctly, they're just about the same age as Josh. Regardless, I've never seen anything about his friends age on social media that would tell us how old they were.

If we're going to talk about social media antics, I would be more embarrassed if my social media was flooded with kissy face pictures and doing little advertisements so I could get paid when I was 28 years old just about versus unfollowing my ex fiancé because I no longer want anything to do with them.

I wonder how Andi is living in West village after having not worked for over a year. I would think mom and dad would have to help out in some way or I suppose Josh could have taken care of the expenses a lot while they were together so maybe Andi saved up.

I don't have a problem with anyone advertising products on twitter or SM. I would if I could get paid for it. Most of those that I see that do it, have a main source of income in the way of secure employment. They have a career, the products are not the main source of income.

She is getting close to? I'm not sure, to 30 yrs old? If she plans on doing that for the rest of her life, good for her if that's her choice.

I would have thought she would be seeking something more stable especially after moving to NYC which isn't cheap (and putting up with winter)

eliza3 wrote:Using SM as a marketing tool is standard now.  I think it's smart for her to use all tools in her new career.   It's not unlike Sean, Catherine, Jef, several Bach alum. who have done the same post show.

Des has been doing a lot of this lately.

Des and others have jobs, they all work tirelessly except for Jef. They all travel, promoting their jobs, their designs, their book, doing one thing or another that is work related.

My point is Andi is not doing any of that. She promotes a product and hits the send key.