Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley - #2

For me the "hand-holding" after last season seeing a lot of it between Nick&Andi doesn't necessary mean "something more", but it definitely speaks against the "story tale" of Becca's intimacy issue (when clearly it's not an issue when you feel it, because someone actually provokes your emotions).
As for the necklace, I'm inclined to believe that the one appearing in the photos post show (with her family & the friend) is her "old" one, not the one Chris gave her.

About the FS, Becca obviously had all the intention to use that extra time with Chris, so there was never an issue that she would not take the opportunity, she even said it a couple of times, but the doubt was insinuated by TPTB. FS doesn't necessary mean sex and time without cameras around is definitely something every girl should go for if she's being serious about starting the commitment, the relationship (engaged or not), so that they both get to know each other in more "natural" setting with "no pressure" to deliver the entertainment, but open an honest conversation and speak from the heart. So, we'll see what change that brings.

Just putting something out there. I know there has been speculation about why Chris was back at work like two days after FRC. The thought has come up that it could be that Becca is F1 and she had to be back. I was now watching an interview with Chris where he talked about the hard desicion to be away during the most important time, harvest. The filming ended within a week of the completion of harvest. For me THAT could be the reason he wanted to go back to work as soon as possible... thoughts???

(sorry about my english- I`m swedish)

Beinggone during that time was one of the biggest concerns that he had...

The necklace she is wearing post show seems like a smaller disc than the one in the donut photo.  Maybe someone can bring the photos over to compare?

Oh Becca, why do you have to confuse us?

Mommyof1! I compared the photos..here is what I found: necklace Becca is wearing after FRC on the 23rd match the necklace she is wearing on her hometown date. However, the necklace she is wearing in the pic she took with her friend Crystal where the 'statement necklace' comment came from, is not the same necklace as the hometown necklace. That one looks like the same one as the donut pic necklace. Hope this makes sense . I don't have a cmptr ATM  I'm on my phone, so I can't bring over my findings:( hopefully whoever does the comparisons though agree with me haha.

I will get to work on the comparison (just logged on). My initial thoughts are if the necklace with her friend is the old necklace, then maybe Becca has been playing around with the viewers...hence #unexpectedtwist. If so, then Whitney followers start preparing my . I'd like a little Tabasco on the side please and some to wash it down.

I still think Becca fits the the preview/edit of the F1...but maybe that's the machine's way of creating doubt for the spoilers. I bought into it. I'll stay on the Becca for F1 train just because...but I believe my door is opening wider to the Whitney is F1 possibility.

Oh NOOOO!..the necklate gate 2.0 is happening!. ...gotta running back to my cave!... . I am just gonna waiting patiently for the final conclusion .

Miyala wrote:Just putting something out there. I know there has been speculation about why Chris was back at work like two days after FRC. The thought has come up that it could be that Becca is F1 and she had to be back. I was now watching an interview with Chris where he talked about the hard desicion to be away during the most important time, harvest. The filming ended within a week of the completion of harvest. For me THAT could be the reason he wanted to go back to work as soon as possible... thoughts???

(sorry about my english- I`m swedish)

from my perspective, its not much the speculation if Becca is the F1 he needs to get back to work ASAP. He still could get back to work immediately if Whitney is the F1, since the FRC location was on his barn. Its more so we are still open to the possibility for Becca the F1, due to her GG funeral a day after FRC. Hope thats makes sense.

Has this been discussed yet?  If indeed Chris takes that "leap of faith" and chose Becca as his F1, will Chris actually propose to her at the FRC or just ask her to continue their journey and date exclusively afterwards?

I could see that as a possibility, because of how "normal" the progression in their relationship has been so far.  Plus, it has been stated that we should watch who the lead is chasing.  Is that Becca?

If it is Becca that Chris chose, then it would be her first engagement, but not Chris'.  This is just my opinion, but I think that a proposal to Becca at the FRC would be moving things too fast for her.  But, I could see them agreeing to date exclusively, and Chris proposing at a later date.

murasaki1393 wrote:Oh NOOOO!..the necklate gate 2.0 is happening!. ...gotta running back to my cave!... . I am just gonna waiting patiently for the final conclusion .

Run...run fast!

What Longhornfan says is entirely plausible. We've had similar situations before in this franchise: Charlie O'Connell and Jen Schefft (sp?) come to mind. Don't think Chris would propose to Becca at the FRC (if, indeed, she is F1) as it would all be too fast for her.

I've also heard Chris say in interviews he is "in love" but I don't recall him saying he is engaged. Correct me if I'm wrong.....

Longhornfan wrote:Has this been discussed yet?  If indeed Chris takes that "leap of faith" and chose Becca as his F1, will Chris actually propose to her at the FRC or just ask her to continue their journey and date exclusively afterwards?

I could see that as a possibility, because of how "normal" the progression in their relationship has been so far.  Plus, it has been stated that we should watch who the lead is chasing.  Is that Becca?

If it is Becca that Chris chose, then it would be her first engagement, but not Chris'.  This is just my opinion, but I think that a proposal to Becca at the FRC would be moving things too fast for her.  But, I could see them agreeing to date exclusively, and Chris proposing at a later date.

I could definitely see this as a possibility. The whole "who is the lead chasing" has been an interesting discussion this year. To me, Chris is definitely chasing Becca. Since "chasing" may not be his natural speed, it may look different than past leads. Becca is absolutely not chasing Chris...not her style. But she is so responsive to him.

Interestingly enough, Whitney F1 believers seem to think Chris is chasing Whitney (not a judgment...that's my perception from what I've read). Thus, is this key F1 sign becoming more subjective this year? Maybe it's been more confusing because of Chris's style.

So could a nonengagement/let's exclusively date be a possible ending? I could see it. It fits if he chooses Becca.