Re: Bachelor 19 - Becca Tilley - Fan Forum - Discussion

[whit90]

i noticed she deleted it too.  

i don't know why, but this whole Chris thing still upsets me.  i just really didn't think he was going to propose???

no worries. stranger things have happened on the show's history.... Maybe better to always remember that this is only a TV show, first and foremost. Hope you feel better if we can agree that only best stuff in store for her in near future, that include the best guy God kept for her ever after. . Tim Tebow anyone?..:P

I know he is older than her but what a beautiful couple Roberto and Becca would make.

[Chrisbecca]

i noticed she deleted it too.  

i don't know why, but this whole Chris thing still upsets me.  i just really didn't think he was going to propose???

It upsets me too....but i am a hopeless romantic and could see the natural chemistry they have. However, all along while watching the show I kept thinking to myself, "becca is too good for chris".....the Bachelor with the record of making out with the most women on the show.  Everything I could see about Becca, her character rose far above the rest of the girls. I mean....was she EVER filmed saying a mean word about any of the other girls?  Did she ever seem mentally/emotionally unstable?  I dont think this went unnoticed by Chris...he knew he had found a rare gem.  But.......he and Whitney are probably better suited for one another....based on what I could tell about their moral standards during the show. I think Becca really deserves a man whod risk everything and even die for her!  Can you tell how highly I think of her?  

[Guest]

i noticed she deleted it too.  

i don't know why, but this whole Chris thing still upsets me.  i just really didn't think he was going to propose???

no worries. stranger things have happened on the show's history.... Maybe better to always remember that this is only a TV show, first and foremost. Hope you feel better if we can agree that only best stuff in store for her in near future, that include the best guy God kept for her ever after. . Tim Tebow anyone?..:P

I know he is older than her but what a beautiful couple Roberto and Becca would make.

now that is who i called a Patient and Kind Hottie . I doubt he knows B from the show though since he seems already closed Bach Chapter in his life, so not sure if he watched C season.

i hope Kyptin introduce them (pls stay away from Kyp, B! ) . The other day i saw Kyp welcoming her to SD Dumpee Club on TW which she responded. All SD contestants never be the F1..too funny! :P

[Guest]

i noticed she deleted it too.  

i don't know why, but this whole Chris thing still upsets me.  i just really didn't think he was going to propose???

It upsets me too....but i am a hopeless romantic and could see the natural chemistry they have. However, all along while watching the show I kept thinking to myself, "becca is too good for chris".....the Bachelor with the record of making out with the most women on the show.  Everything I could see about Becca, her character rose far above the rest of the girls. I mean....was she EVER filmed saying a mean word about any of the other girls?  Did she ever seem mentally/emotionally unstable?  I dont think this went unnoticed by Chris...he knew he had found a rare gem.  But.......he and Whitney are probably better suited for one another....based on what I could tell about their moral standards during the show. I think Becca really deserves a man whod risk everything and even die for her!  Can you tell how highly I think of her?  

Romeo and Juliet?

[Mommyof2]

http://www.inquisitr.com/1916865/chris-harrison-on-why-becca-tilley-wasnt-right-for-bachelorette-maintains-both-britt-nilsson-and-kaitlyn-bristowe-have-major-fan-support/

Oh, who is CH kidding? They didn't choose her because she wouldn't be making out with all of the guys and would actually act like a normal person on the show.

[stuckinsc]

good read. who knew- crying and kissing aside- Ashley I can write?

My girl @ashleyiaco getting things done in Cosmo. I could not be more proud of you ashley I!

http://t.co/k8PyIIFDhT

— Becca Tilley (@beccatilley5) March 12, 2015

Great article by Ashley I. I hated the thinly veiled virgin shaming on this board. Choosing to stay a virgin to me is a sign of maturity, yet I read many posts saying how it made her immature.

Glad for Becca that she stuck with her principles and hope like Chris all, Chantal, and Lindsey that the experience helps open her up to finding the live that is right for her.

And OMG bitty Roberto, yes please, at least let them meet.

[Guest]

ive got NR permission to bring her post over here for my easy reference . I just found her's summed up the Finale perfectly and give me a precious peace of mind. :cutesmile!: . I cant give enough praise for this great post! Hope this will do! :Chris: :Chris: *2 thumbs up from my fav guy

I finally watched the last epi.
I really liked Becca's story arc. IMO it showed the important, for some women, to be able to have the freedom to say things that are not what their partner want to hear and know that their partner is committed enough for that to not be a deal breaker if what they say is reasonable.  
I do believe Becca's talk about the constraints of the show timeline was reasonable and that Chris being unable to commit to her needs just meant that he was not the guy for her.  A man is sometimes called upon to fight outside forces for his woman so continuing with Becca but not proposing would have been a battle with TPTB. 
I thought the argument of "we are just in different places in our lives" was tepid at best.  They were in the same place in terms of "falling in love". He was just more driven in terms of the "end game" and when that should happen.  
For me, Becca represents the importance of making a decision about marriage based on her feelings rather than his. She showed vulnerability by clearly letting him know where she was at throughout the course of the "journey" yet remained strong by being truthful despite understanding the risk. If she takes this skill into her next relationship and her new guy stands by her then she will have something unwavering  

[Guest]

Yay!..we got to hear from her soon!...

Brandi Williams ‏@tvbrandi 16h16 hours ago
@beccatilley5 turned down @C_Soules but she didn't turn down @KUSI_News! Tune in tomorrow at 5&6p to learn about her journey. #TheBachelor

Katie ‏@kategant7 12h12 hours ago
@tvbrandi Can you please ask Becca if Chris wrote "I love u" in the rocks on the beach in Bali for her? Thx! Will the interview be online?

(this is funny!... )

Brandi Williams ‏@tvbrandi 3m3 minutes ago
“@kategant7:Can you please ask Becca if Chris wrote "I love u" in the rocks on the beach in Bali for her? Will the interview be online?”Yes!

if anyone can tune in and share here, it would be greatly appreciated.

[Pia1]

Yay!..we got to hear from her soon!...

Brandi Williams ‏@tvbrandi  16h16 hours ago
@beccatilley5 turned down @C_Soules but she didn't turn down @KUSI_News! Tune in tomorrow at 5&6p to learn about her journey. #TheBachelor

Katie ‏@kategant7  12h12 hours ago
@tvbrandi Can you please ask Becca if Chris wrote "I love u" in the rocks on the beach in Bali for her? Thx! Will the interview be online?

(this is funny!... )

Brandi Williams ‏@tvbrandi  3m3 minutes ago
“@kategant7:Can you please ask Becca if Chris wrote "I love u" in the rocks on the beach in Bali for her? Will the interview be online?”Yes!

if anyone can tune in and share here, it would be greatly appreciated.

Is it yes to both questions? Would love to see that interview.

[Mommyof2]

Oh my word, if the yes is in response to the I love u on the beach. Can't wait to hear what our girl has to say! :cheerpom:

[Ladybug82]

I would think the yes is in response to the interview being online.  And it could also be a yes in response to will she ask Becca that question.  I don't think the yes is an answer to the question itself.

Hopefully someone gets to listen in.  I'm sure Becca will continue to be classy and true to herself in all interviews.  Even if by some chance he had done that for her (I tend to think it was just something they happened upon and threw it in for a good visual and to cause people to question it), I don't see her throwing Chris under the bus or hurting Whitney by saying yes.  But all this is JMHO, as always.  

[Pia1]

I would think the yes is in response to the interview being online.  And it could also be a yes in response to will she ask Becca that question.  I don't think the yes is an answer to the question itself.

Hopefully someone gets to listen in.  I'm sure Becca will continue to be classy and true to herself in all interviews.  Even if by some chance he had done that for her (I tend to think it was just something they happened upon and threw it in for a good visual and to cause people to question it), I don't see her throwing Chris under the bus or hurting Whitney by saying yes.  But all this is JMHO, as always.  

So true! She has too much class for that.imo

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