Episode 12 - 8/1 After the Final Rose - Discussion - Spoilers

Nativenewyorker wrote:

Coastal wrote:

northernviewer wrote:

Coastal wrote:

ironcat wrote:

Coastal wrote:

ironcat wrote:Honestly,
if it weren't for my enjoyment of watching JP, and seeing him fall for
Ashley, this season would have been a bust for me as far as
entertainment. Boring dates for the most part. I commend all the
non-JP fans for sticking it out actually, I wouldn't have.

I for one saw a different love story happening, equally as fixating to enjoy watching the show.

Sorry,
I'm confused. I thought you said you were a neutral poster. If you
were fixated by a love story, that doesn't sound very neutral or
dispassionate to me.

Just because I am neutral, doesn't mean I don't have eyes and can see a different love story happening.

now that's laughable

Thanks so much for the gracious respect that you are showing here..........

No, YOU are the one who has shown such an unfortunate lack of respect for everyone! No one has succeeded in stopping you from saying whatever comes into your head at any given time. You post obsessively over
and over again, challenging and confronting anyone who dares to have a
different opinion. You have shown no tolerance for honest, reasonable
disagreement. Yet somehow when all is said and done, it is all about
you and your hurt feeling and you being disrespected or whatever feeling
you may have. You have not assumed your share of responsibility for
what has happened here. It is always someone else's fault.

Rather than ganging up on you, what I have done is try to avoid any direct interaction
with you at all costs. Finally, I couldn't stand it any longer and
felt the need to stand up for a new member who was trying to express her
point of view, which just happened to differ with yours. The fact that
you felt the need to resort to insulting her, tells me that you did not
have a reasonable and rational reply.

There is an old saying - you reap what you sow. That is what you are experiencing. Or are you going
to say that we are all horrible, evil people who are just attacking you
for no reason? Is that how you intend to spin this latest brouhaha? How come you are always at the center of the storm? How many times have you seen me post here recently? You are the one who jumps from one topic thread to another, becoming increasingly histrionic and melodramatic if there is even a smidgen or hint of disagreement.

This forum was created without strict rules about conduct and behavior. So we are basically on the honor system. I will match my conduct against yours and let others decide for themselves.
The one thing I do know is that I have no hidden agenda or ulterior
motive. It's not about being right or my ego or imposing my views on
others. I have always encouraged people to think for themselves, even if
they choose to disagree with me. I have no problem with that. I can
respect others and allow them to have the dignity of forming their own
opinion. Can you?

Instead of attacking others all the
time, why don't you take a good look at your own conduct here. Just
because you don't like what someone says, does not give you the right to
be uncivil. I took a break from this forum and I came back to see that
you made one comment after another to the one post I made. When is it
enough? I feel as though you are ganging up on anyone who has a point of
view to which you do not subscribe.

Gina wrote:Contribution and lack of respect & being rude to other's are not equal.

agentcurls wrote: Kumbayah ya'll!!!!!

" Love is all we need " ~John Lennon

mnmhughes wrote:
Give respect and you'll get respect. Bottom line.

Gina wrote:
Contribution and lack of respect & being rude to other's are not equal.

agentcurls wrote: Kumbayah ya'll!!!!!

" Love is all we need " ~John Lennon

nikkij_26 wrote:Everybody please let the situation die. Both parties have said they don't want to discuss it further so everybody else let discussion of it die from this point on. Let everyone cool off. Further discussion or everyone putting their 2 cents in is going to further incite the situation. JMO