Re: Andi Dorfman - Bachelorette 10 - Fan Forum - Discussion

by docnash14 Sat Jan 17, 2015 2:28 am

Alanna wrote:Of course I agree Andi should be allowed to feel upset over her breakup and anything else, I just cannot relate to posting stuff like this to 850K people so everyone can comment on it. It's just crazy to me, but then again I don't have exhibitionist inclinations in my life like the folks that do go on this show, Andi included

As for the article, why not just get a bigger apartment so she can have her own little sewing room and a bigger closet for her stuff? These reasons for the breakup are just messed up. Ugh.

I get your point especially in light of the unbelievable harshness of some of the comments she has received in response to it. On the other hand, perhaps she posted it so that one particular person could see that she really is hurting.

by aviej Sat Jan 17, 2015 2:32 am

Yup. I interpreted it as a cryptic message to Josh. I won't be surprised if he responds in kind too.

by Ash2214 Sat Jan 17, 2015 2:35 am

^ I was thinking the same thing. I really liked the quote. She's showing she's hurting, but showing she's thankful she has the people around her that she does. Nice point to get across, but I do get your point Alanna too.

by Alanna Sat Jan 17, 2015 2:39 am

docnash14 wrote:
Alanna wrote:Of course I agree Andi should be allowed to feel upset over her breakup and anything else, I just cannot relate to posting stuff like this to 850K people so everyone can comment on it. It's just crazy to me, but then again I don't have exhibitionist inclinations in my life like the folks that do go on this show, Andi included

As for the article, why not just get a bigger apartment so she can have her own little sewing room and a bigger closet for her stuff? These reasons for the breakup are just messed up. Ugh.

I get your point especially in light of the unbelievable harshness of some of the comments she has received in response to it. On the other hand, perhaps she posted it so that one particular person could see that she really is hurting.

She might be better off snap chatting it to him maybe. Seriously, he seems very finished with her IMO.

by aviej Sat Jan 17, 2015 2:44 am

Well although MM posted it was a well thought out decision to break up, it wouldn't be the first time that he has made a quick, rash decision and then retract it later on -like a couple posts he has posted and deleted in the past.

by docnash14 Sat Jan 17, 2015 3:08 am

Alanna wrote:
docnash14 wrote:
Alanna wrote:Of course I agree Andi should be allowed to feel upset over her breakup and anything else, I just cannot relate to posting stuff like this to 850K people so everyone can comment on it. It's just crazy to me, but then again I don't have exhibitionist inclinations in my life like the folks that do go on this show, Andi included

As for the article, why not just get a bigger apartment so she can have her own little sewing room and a bigger closet for her stuff? These reasons for the breakup are just messed up. Ugh.

I get your point especially in light of the unbelievable harshness of some of the comments she has received in response to it. On the other hand, perhaps she posted it so that one particular person could see that she really is hurting.

She might be better off snap chatting it to him maybe. Seriously, he seems very finished with her IMO.

It sure looks that way at least right now.

by Kashathediva Sat Jan 17, 2015 10:45 am

I agree.
Of course, I don't know, but I would imagine he is getting a lot of support for his decision. I think the both are.
When something is not right, you don't need someone else to tell you because usually your gut is doing a number on you that something is off kilter.
Sometimes people get it right away and correct the situation and move on. Sometimes people don't get it right away and try to rectify a wrong that can't be righted. That's a mess.
I'm glad they realized it and moved on to better things.
Maybe in another place and time...maybe.

by luvlady345 Sat Jan 17, 2015 11:20 am

Kashathediva wrote:Like any break up, people often choose sides and in this case it's fans. Some choose one party, some choose the other, some are ok with it and some bug out all together.

The little bit of fans Andi lost at first doesn't amount to much... She has actually gained on IG I really don't think people who are not on forums care that much, but if you don't venture outside of forum you will think that the woman has lost all of her followers which is very far from the truth....

by Kashathediva Sat Jan 17, 2015 11:30 am

Actually, like most people, I don't think her thoughts stray to how many follow her on SM on any given day. She probably has other things on her mind. JMO

by mindless Sat Jan 17, 2015 11:32 am

aviej wrote:Yup. I interpreted it as a cryptic message to Josh. I won't be surprised if he responds in kind too.

I interpreted it as her reading the general discussion thread. But good for her for showing a bit of vulnerability!

I'm also wondering if there's any actual proof that she gave up her apartment. There must've been some friction already in September, if Josh really wanted to end it several times, so totally giving up her apartment seems like a risky move.

by Kashathediva Sat Jan 17, 2015 11:35 am

mindless wrote:
aviej wrote:Yup. I interpreted it as a cryptic message to Josh. I won't be surprised if he responds in kind too.

I interpreted it as her reading the general discussion thread. But good for her for showing a bit of vulnerability!

I'm also wondering if there's any actual proof that she gave up her apartment. There must've been some friction already in September, if Josh really wanted to end it several times, so totally giving up her apartment seems like a risky move.

Again, I hear it's condo, then I hear it's an apartment. Do we know which? If it's a condo and her family owns it, there was nothing to "give up" and was quite convenient the entire time. If it was an apartment and the lease was up, then I guess it was given up.

by **GuardianAngel** Sat Jan 17, 2015 12:05 pm

luvlady345 wrote:
Kashathediva wrote:Like any break up, people often choose sides and in this case it's fans. Some choose one party, some choose the other, some are ok with it and some bug out all together.

The little bit of fans Andi lost at first doesn't amount to much... She has actually gained on IG I really don't think people who are not on forums care that much, but if you don't venture outside of forum you will think that the woman has lost all of her followers which is very far from the truth....

On the flip side, just because people follow others on SM doesn't mean they are fans as evident by the apparent nasty comments. I don't read comments and only go by what I read here. I think there are viewers who didn't care for her, didn't follow her post show, now heard the news and are curious. There may be others who are sick of her, and stopped following her.

Whatever the reason she posted that IG, if it made her feel good, then that's all that matters. She should be doing things that make her happy. It could also have been a shout out to her family and friends who are there for her. We all have friends that will let us rant on when we are facing challengs.

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