*No Spoilers* Bachelor 18 Episode 3 Discussion
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*No Spoilers* Bachelor 18 Episode 3 Discussion
How can you help it when the music starts to play, And your ability to reason is swept away
Oh-oh-oh, heaven on earth is all you see, You're out of touch with reality
And now you cry but when you do-- Next time around someone cries for you
LibbyBell- Posts : 1469
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here's a thought Hmmm Andi IMO seems into him too much too soon...and he seems to bite and like it much more when a girl is giving a chase (Sharleen night 1, Cassandra, Nikki) vs. girls who are all over him (masseuse, girl in pink, possibly Lucy etc)
emusha- Posts : 5656
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emusha wrote:where is everybody? live posting is a thing of the past this season?
here's a thought Hmmm Andi IMO seems into him too much too soon...and he seems to bite and like it much more when a girl is giving a chase (Sharleen night 1, Cassandra, Nikki) vs. girls who are all over him (masseuse, girl in pink, possibly Lucy etc)
I agree with the bolded!
I do miss the live blogging from the spoiled threads, especially when I can't actually watch the same night.
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The edit is getting confusing - not sure who are really the drama girls. Seems like they all have jealousy creeping in.
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Regarding the edit: it is getting confusing - i see claire being in the middle of it...so far. there was a confrontation with nikki about how she acts different with him vs. with the girls (which usually signals drama to come...)
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TBH I much prefer to see a guy who is sensitve and can focus on who is in front of him than a lead who is more about the cameras and unable to show emotion and empathy.
I like him but I have heard that over on the spoiled side folks either don't like him or don't care enough to be even slightly invested.
Yes the drama is starting its ascent. All the girls seem to be bitching lol.
I was completely surprised that he gave Nikki the GR. I feel that he really likes her. Possibly part of their convo was left on the cutting floor but it seems like he doesn't know how to act around her and doesn't want to turn their 1on1s into make out sessions like with Sharlene and Andi. He's acting different with her. JMO.
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I completely agree this could be a cultural thing - and unfortunately the culture in the US is such that his behavior can be interpreted as flirty/special attention vs. him being a great sensitive empathetic caring guy. I think his behavior is heightening the drama more than it needs to be is what i'm saying.
I agree that he acted differently around Nikki this epi as he acted differently with Cassandra. He also acted in the same "different" way last epis with Sharleen, Andi and Nikki. It's super early to judge but I think (just a sense i'm getting) he's a "yes" guy who wants to be liked by people and for one reason or other he's turned on by the girl that gives him the chase. This was the case with Sharleen Andi Nikki last coupla epis and while Sharleen and Andi have begun to thaw he's being a bit of a tease (i really think he kept pulling away from kisses with Sharleen)...
He seems to pile on the attention with a girl who's a bit more reserved and he's chasing her then retreats a bit ....we'll see more if any of this could be real as things unfold I guess...
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emusha wrote:i totally agree with you sensitivity/attentiveness is a huge huge plus for anybody especially in a show like this where the bette/bach leads on a bunch of people. i think JP is soooo attentive it's coming off as he wants every girl to like him and for her to feel comfortable and cherished and cared for. I get how that's great for a scenario like this but without it being paired with giving the girls clarity about the fact that he's just like that and that he's still assessing his choices it might be very misleading to some girls...
I completely agree this could be a cultural thing - and unfortunately the culture in the US is such that his behavior can be interpreted as flirty/special attention vs. him being a great sensitive empathetic caring guy. I think his behavior is heightening the drama more than it needs to be is what i'm saying.
I agree that he acted differently around Nikki this epi as he acted differently with Cassandra. He also acted in the same "different" way last epis with Sharleen, Andi and Nikki. It's super early to judge but I think (just a sense i'm getting) he's a "yes" guy who wants to be liked by people and for one reason or other he's turned on by the girl that gives him the chase. This was the case with Sharleen Andi Nikki last coupla epis and while Sharleen and Andi have begun to thaw he's being a bit of a tease (i really think he kept pulling away from kisses with Sharleen)...
He seems to pile on the attention with a girl who's a bit more reserved and he's chasing her then retreats a bit ....we'll see more if any of this could be real as things unfold I guess...
I think you are right...he wants everyone to like him and he is starting to play games. Doing a bit of teasing with each other is fine if you are dating one person...not when you have fifteen. Playing games like this will no doubt cause trouble as we begin to see the claws come out between Clare and Nikki in next weeks previews.
Clare is kind of getting on my nerves already. The possessiveness and jealousy is OTT for me and don't get me started on all the whining in the bathroom!
You could be the juiciest, most ripe peach, but there is still going to be someone who doesn't like peaches.
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I see interest with Andi too, but just a little bit different than Nikki & Sharleen. I think he admires Renee (who wouldn't), but I see no spark with her. I just don't see anything significant with most of the other women. Kat is coming across as trying too hard.
Not saying this is how it will remain all season, but it's what I see now. The Clare we're seeing now makes it hard for me to believe she keeps staying.
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Maggenzm wrote:Has anyone think that Chelsie got a chance here? I think so. Let's see what happens next week.
Chelsie got the "Adrenaline" date that produced a few of the past seasons F1s (Ed, Vienna) and they said it rightly on the show that facing your fears together forms a bond.
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