Re: Episode 10 (Finale Part 1) - 7/29 - Bachelorette 9 - Thread #1

by Guest Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:13 pm

She really meant it when she said she always falls for the wrong guy. She had Drew, Chris, Zak. Argghh. I hope for her sake, and theirs, she left this show alone.

by Guest Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:13 pm

klarson79 wrote:So, he was letting her go because he felt like he was going to be let go? And he admitted he didn't think she could ever be the love of his life? And now he knows that he is the one she loves and he regrets it? Sounds like the start of a healthy, trusting relationship!

So ridiculous.

wishy washy definitely

by BarbB222 Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:14 pm

happygirl77us wrote: I personally don't see how you can make out like crazy with two guys, and still claim to be madly in love with just one.

Welcome to the bach bubble. I really don't get it either but it is what it is. Seeing Des do that KNOWING she wanted to say ILY to Brooks on their FD date. And we think Brooks is messed up?

by bilolo Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:14 pm

omg this so heartbreaking, Brooks what did you do ? I feel so bad for Des omg this is unreal.

by Piper61 Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:14 pm

northernviewer wrote:Wow - that was so sad... and so real. Loved that they showed it to us. Guess I'm not as cynical as the rest of you. I don't think Des will look stupid or pathetic if she ended up with him. Brooks was conflicted about how he felt, and didn't even know if he was the one she'd choose at the end anyway... so big friggin deal... it's real life and it get's messy sometimes. When she said that she loved him and he said "why didn't you tell me sooner" - that told me what his whole problem was.... he never entered the Bach Bubble as the 90% of the contestants do on every season. He was afraid of giving all of himself as a protection from getting hurt in the end. His dad did a number on him and he doesn't even know it!!

I'm really hoping for a happy ending for Des and Brooks now, even though I really didn't care all that much at the beginning of the season. I feel for Chris too, but after he watches this footage, he'll get why she couldn't return his feelings.

I am with you on this.

by Archer23 Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:15 pm

BarbB222 wrote:
sfrank wrote:She also pretty much said she won't feel the same about Chris or Drew so....

Des has said it in front of cameras regarding her feelings for the other two. Even if they were picked how could they handle it? . It would clearly be her default choice in the truest sense of the word.

Agreed. But it would be just like her taking Brooks back, after everything we heard him say to his family, Chris Harrison, Des, and his producer.

by northernviewer Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:15 pm

Ariela wrote:
SusieQ wrote:
DMBFan wrote:I actually don't see love so black & white. It has its ups and downs and it can be messy.

Oh please, stop this blind Brooks following.
Painful love? And so what do you think will happen to them when the initial lust wears off? it will be a painful divorce.

Blind Brooks following?? giggling

does it differ from blind Brooks hate??

by atem Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:15 pm

I still think the Chris S will be fine being the 2nd pick. Sorry, but that's my thought.

by Alanna Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:15 pm

Ariela wrote:
SusieQ wrote:
DMBFan wrote:I actually don't see love so black & white. It has its ups and downs and it can be messy.

Oh please, stop this blind Brooks following.
Painful love? And so what do you think will happen to them when the initial lust wears off? it will be a painful divorce.

I'm quite sure they won't even get to the stage of sharing a Netflix account, let alone divorce. That's a pipe dream LOL.

by Ariela Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:15 pm

happygirl77us wrote:Has she done any press? Does she say if she engaged

If she is ....and to Brooks, it's matter of time he'll leave, AGAIN.
She needs to let the other 2 guys go. it's not fair to them....if Brooks comes back, Des deserves what she gets in the future- she will be miserable, as soon as the newness wears off.

by agentcurls Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:16 pm

^Any person in their right mind would be wishy-washy in this experience, trying to decipher the fantasy vs. reality.

Seeing them go through this now will bode better for them in the future. I know that's not the popular opinion on here. :hidingchair

Love is messy sometimes. This is very realistic and raw and indicative of what might happen in the real world.

by BarbB222 Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:17 pm

Piper61 wrote:
northernviewer wrote:Wow - that was so sad... and so real. Loved that they showed it to us. Guess I'm not as cynical as the rest of you. I don't think Des will look stupid or pathetic if she ended up with him. Brooks was conflicted about how he felt, and didn't even know if he was the one she'd choose at the end anyway... so big friggin deal... it's real life and it get's messy sometimes. When she said that she loved him and he said "why didn't you tell me sooner" - that told me what his whole problem was.... he never entered the Bach Bubble as the 90% of the contestants do on every season. He was afraid of giving all of himself as a protection from getting hurt in the end. His dad did a number on him and he doesn't even know it!!

I'm really hoping for a happy ending for Des and Brooks now, even though I really didn't care all that much at the beginning of the season. I feel for Chris too, but after he watches this footage, he'll get why she couldn't return his feelings.

I am with you on this.

Such great points NV! This is a first. They tried not to abbreviate things with them. Showed how deep it went.

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