Ben Patton - Ready For Love - Spoilers - Discussion

Awe. Thanks guys for the updates!! I have never followed one of these shows so close. Just want to say, you are pro's at figuring this stuff out!! I hate to hear it didn't work out for them.

Teddy333 wrote:

tealeafs wrote:I'm so sad to hear that I was totally blown away by their love in the proposal scene.

Sad in a way... but look at the bright side. Now he can get a little warm lovin'...(Hope he doesn't break down and call a sure thing - Kari)
Nitey night! :atomic:

I think that Kari is really into Tanner so I don't think that she's interested. I must say that I'm not surprised that Ben and Angela didn't work out. I wonder if he tried to contact Allie, I did notice that he follows her on FB.

I am shocked that people are surprised. I thought it was the worst of the three. I think he had feelings for only Taryn and when she left that was it. I heard a while ago that it was over .

I think that couples give up so easy. Yes it has been a long time but they did not even give it a chance after going public. What was that engagement about?...
I was a little surprise by his statement as well. What does he mean by "her". Couldn't he at least say Angela.

Ben tweeted to a fan "We really tried" and I'm sure they did. They didn't go into this thinking "It'll be so cool if we break up before our engagement is shown on TV!"

I think what usually happens is that people start acting normal when the cameras go away and the couple realizes they aren't as compatible as they thought they were. It's that simple. But that's true for a lot of relationships, people are often on their best behavior for the first few months even without cameras. You don't really know someone until you experience how they fight, how they deal with real world stress, how they handle money, how they spend their free time, their secret vices, and so on. There's a lot more to navigate than "wow, we're both hot, let's get it on!" :)

As I said before I don't usually watch these shows. So, you guys help me out. Do you think he has already hooked up with someone else? He has made comments about being unavailable & a few weeks ago said he took his mate & one of the MM's to dinner in Dallas. I think I would just remain silent instead of pretending!!!

These people are single for this long for a reason. They blame it on work or other things. Bottom line is they have major issues.

I wonder why Ernesto thought they were still together?

Love_Me wrote:I wonder why Ernesto thought they were still together?

that is an excellent question. i think the answer is that ernesto was really under no illusion they were still together. he's pretending. he's continuing to play the part of ready for love contestant/reality tv star. ernesto is now in constant promo mode, acting as if this is all part of a longer term career. take at a look at his twitter activity over the past day since the finale was released. while ben, shandi, tim and others have kept to a few simple replies and comments, ernesto has reeled off dozens of tweets, replies, comments, etc.

He has made comments about being unavailable

Where was this? maybe he said it to continue the ruse that they were together until after the finale?

I wonder why Ernesto thought they were still together?

I think Ernesto just didnt want to spill the beans. He wanted Ben to be the one to make the announcement.

he's continuing to play the part of ready for love contestant/reality tv star. ernesto is now in constant promo mode, acting as if this is all part of a longer term career. take at a look at his twitter activity over the past day since the finale was released. while ben, shandi, tim and others have kept to a few simple replies and comments, ernesto has reeled off dozens of tweets, replies, comments, etc.

This was predictable. He's a raging narcissist. The others have a LOT more class.

tigertiz wrote:

He has made comments about being unavailable

Where was this? maybe he said it to continue the ruse that they were together until after the finale?

I wonder why Ernesto thought they were still together?

I think Ernesto just didnt want to spill the beans. He wanted Ben to be the one to make the announcement.

he's continuing to play the part of ready for love contestant/reality tv star. ernesto is now in constant promo mode, acting as if this is all part of a longer term career. take at a look at his twitter activity over the past day since the finale was released. while ben, shandi, tim and others have kept to a few simple replies and comments, ernesto has reeled off dozens of tweets, replies, comments, etc.

This was predictable. He's a raging narcissist. The others have a LOT more class.

as usual, you are spot on!

My phone is not letting me cut & paste. On twitter he had made that comment in reply to someone.(not being available). I think someone was making reference that he & Courtney Kerr should date. Also, he tweeted the diner with Mm & mate, which ironically I can't find now.