Tenley Molzahn Leopold & Taylor Leopold - Bachelor 13 - Discussion

Translation-they "bonded" over common interests. Ben seems to have a "special relationship" with just about everyone. He's just that kind of a guy JMO

Funny how Tenley wasn't invited to the Jsnner wedding when almost everyone from s2 of BIP were there. 

Tenley is starting to sound a bit rude with her comments about the 'special relationship' she has with Ben. Simply saying 'we're friends' doesn't have that mystery to it, it doesn't lead to 'did you ever date?' But 'special relationship' does..

I really have no words.

jen689 wrote:Translation-they "bonded" over common interests. Ben seems to have a "special relationship" with just about everyone. He's just that kind of a guy JMO

Yep. He seems like a friendly considerate guy, who makes everyone feel special. Tenley read more into it than there really was and she can probably see that now while watching the show, hence the need to save face by letting everyone know she's found The One! Embarrassing.

I also have a "special relationship" with Ben. He's the man I've been giving up my Monday night's to for over a month now.

I am sure Tenley was not at the Janner wedding because Ben was there.  Tenley does not understand boundaries so therefore boundaries need to be set for her.  As in your not invited.

JMO

yana_bach wrote:On no, Tenley, just no.... what she needs is a "special relationship" with a phychiatrist.
How well can she know him though, haven't they hung out just a couple of times?

I would love to see Ben publicly address "their special relationship" but unfortunately he's too nice and will of course allow her to save face. Crazy girl. 

I'm just wondering how her friend has conveniently only set her up now. Is it that they've tried in the past and she is only now finally open to dating non-Bach men?  Is it her biological clock deafingly going off in her head?  or is she that bitter about Ben to go to these extremes to prove she is loveable/wife material too? Or probably a combination of all three. 

bluwavz wrote:I also have a "special relationship" with Ben. He's the man I've been giving up my Monday night's to for over a month now.

I wish I could like this more then once!

Duke702 wrote:Apparently Tenley and Ben had a "special" relationship, and she was asked to go on his season.

http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/tenley-molzahn-had-special-relationship-with-ben-higgins-w163821

that she was asked to be on Ben’s season of The Bachelor. While she thinks “he’s incredible,” she “didn’t really consider it,” since she doesn’t “need to go chasing a guy anymore.”

This doesn't make sense. If she was asked to be on his season, it would have been well before "anymore".

I'm getting this vindictive vibe from Tenley, wrapped in Disney.

GuardianAngel wrote:

Duke702 wrote:Apparently Tenley and Ben had a "special" relationship, and she was asked to go on his season.

http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/tenley-molzahn-had-special-relationship-with-ben-higgins-w163821

that she was asked to be on Ben’s season of The Bachelor. While she thinks “he’s incredible,” she “didn’t really consider it,” since she doesn’t “need to go chasing a guy anymore.”

This doesn't make sense. If she was asked to be on his season, it would have been well before "anymore".

My first thought of "anymore" was Kiptyn. She has said she wants to be pursued. So by going on Ben's season, as much as she probably would have wanted to be with him, she would be the one pursuing him.

I really like Tenley, and just hope she discussed all this with the current beau before discussing their relationship with the public. Hopefully they will go off quietly and live their "happily ever after".

bleuberry wrote:I'm getting this vindictive vibe from Tenley, wrapped in Disney.

Tenley is what one my friend's likes to call "sweet nasty". What she's saying sounds nice but when you actually really listen to what she's saying there's definitely bitterness laced in it.

Oh Tenley, just please take the advice here. I know what we say might sound harsh but it would do you some good. I'm so glad I had people in my life who didn't sugarcoat things for me to make me feel better.