Episode 5 - 5/7 - Ready For Love - Discussion - Spoilers

CHO wrote:Sara L seems just way too serious - a lovely girl and wanting desperately to get over her past loss but she keeps trying to convince Tim of a possible relationship. It seems forced to me. I like Jenna - there is obviously a lot of chemistry - she's fun and seems to care about Tim. I don't feel she really knows Tim - or that Tim knows much about makes her tick either. I like Hailey more and more. I don't know whether there is a physical connection - but they are so comfortable around each other and she is so honest and up front. I think he seems comfortable because she is telling him all her faults - and she is comfortable laughing about it.

avoice wrote:Yeah, Hailey is my favourite but I don't know if she is Tim's favorite.

Litta123 wrote:From a storyline point of view, I thought Sara's and Tim's relationship took a significant step forward. I think there is certainly a level of trust and safety that is quickly becoming a foundation for them. That said, the editing is not showing us a "fun" connection. There is no banter.
It almost seemed like Sara was trying to convince Tim why she would be good for him. If Tim has to be talked into it, it makes me question whether he's really feeling it for her. Their kiss seemed natural, but it didn't seem to have any passion. I think they have a ways to go in the chemistry department.
Jenna and Tim's chemistry continues to sizzle.

It kind of bothers me that it seems like Matt and Amber are wanting her to bring substance, but Tracy tells her to just keep doing what she's doing. Talk about conflicting messages. If Tim wants substance from Jenna, I think he could do a little better in asking Jenna some questions...
I would expect that we, the viewers, need to see some of that substance shown over the next few weeks or it may seem like a superficial pick...if, indeed, Jenna is the F1. If substance isn't shown, but Tim still picks her, I will be left entirely confused by the matchmakers advice.

I thought Hailey looked absolutely beautiful in this episode. CHO, she does seem to have a great heart. I really like her. Unfortunately, I think Hailey is falling behind both Jenna and Sara...and I think she is running out of time. Of all the girls, I think Tim would have loved for it to be Hailey because she's funny, beautiful, smart and mature. She also seems chill...no drama, low maintenance...very caring to the other girls. You know, she has made a couple of trips to Austin...hmmm. J/K, still on the Jenna boat.

cantstopwatchin wrote:At this point, I'm over Ben and his girls. Angela, I just can't buy into her yet.
Tim - I like all of them so I don't have anything bad to say.
Ernesto - Shandi was just way too high maintenance. The guy lives in Miami and takes his boat out - there's no shallow water there! No way is he going to tube all by himself while she sits on the deck tanning.
I really felt bad for Alba - no wonder she doesn't care for Shandi. I bet she sees Shandi as someone who gets things easily and hasn't gone through life problems.
I think Amber gave us a glimpse into what Ernesto is really looking for - someone who looks good on his arm, the philanthropist's wife. And Shandi seems to definitely fit that bill best. I'm really curious to see what happens post-show.

goofycaramel wrote:I really like Renae and Hailey, probably because both of them are low maintenance, no drama, down to earth, roll-with-the-punches type of girl. They're the types of girls that everyone wants to be friends with. Unfortunately it does seem like it'd also make them get friend-zoned.

MVMom39forever wrote:BEN - Angela really grew on me this week and I'll be happy if she's his F1. I liked hearing that she's so used to taking care of her siblings and obviously she did just that with nutcase Allie. But I bet Angela is a perfectionist and hard on herself so I hope that she lets her guard down even more with Ben. Something about those two ...
ERNESTO - Well, I am back to team Alba again. He seems to have only eyes for the perfect Shandi but his connection is stronger with Alba.

Litta123 wrote:MVMom, I really agree with you regarding Angela. Initially, she left me blah, but now I see her really trying to make that connection...and it's happening. I, too, liked how she handled the Allie situation.
As a person, Renae has totally impressed me, but the only vibe I see with Ben is the friend zone.

Beeleever wrote:Ben - Yay! He did it! Okay, about the show...I am starting to warm up to Angela. I can see that Ben is too. They had a little chemistry thing going on and he was looking pretty intently at her. Looking forward to watching this relationship grow and develop.
Tim - I think he is pretty transparent. It's all about Jenna at this point. I'm not sure there is sufficient time or a reason for that to change.
Ernesto - Probably my least favorite at this time. I'm not feeling Shandi, although Ernesto clearly is. I agree with Matt that she came off a little high maintenance. Alba's story was so sad. Not feeling it with any of his girls.

klisack wrote:

I get that. Her Vegas dress didn't bother me. A tight dress is one thing, but in her Derby dress she is exposing a bit much IMO. I'm just not a fan of Angela's (yet). Maybe I will warm up to her in some future episodes. She always seems on the sour side, but she has handled herself with maturity thus far.

I so agree with this. Angela handled herself well in the situation. With class but I too am so sick of the virginity thing with her. I know a lot of women who are virgins when they got married. Her personal choice but why did it have to be the first thing she said to Ben. I'll tell ya why...she knew the power that it has. Men love unconquered territory. To be the first at something and Ben being a very successful and competitive man latched onto it. She is a tall, leggy, sexy, (not sold on pretty yet) girl who no man has deflowered. Whatever. Whats with the whole boxing thing too. I mean what, does he just want to be the first to stick his flag into planet Angela? I am just not feeling the connections or sincerity with his part of the show and throw these girls in a ring who are already competing for a guy and have intense feelings against one another and let them fight over him (basically). Totally weak move on Ben's part. You're in Vegas....it's an adult playground and he chooses boxing?

klisack wrote:

I get that. Her Vegas dress didn't bother me. A tight dress is one thing, but in her Derby dress she is exposing a bit much IMO. I'm just not a fan of Angela's (yet). Maybe I will warm up to her in some future episodes. She always seems on the sour side, but she has handled herself with maturity thus far.

I so agree with this. Angela handled herself well in the situation. With class but I too am so sick of the virginity thing with her. I know a lot of women who are virgins when they got married. Her personal choice but why did it have to be the first thing she said to Ben. I'll tell ya why...she knew the power that it has. Men love unconquered territory. To be the first at something and Ben being a very successful and competitive man latched onto it. She is a tall, leggy, sexy, (not sold on pretty yet) girl who no man has deflowered. Whatever. There is something fake about her that I just can't wrap my head around. I am also becoming less enamored with Ben's part of the show. Never really liked his girls and he just seemed so winey at times, mister "I'm scared". Also hearing he proposes after only a few months just throws me off. I mean what, does he just want to be the first to stick his flag into planet Angela? I am just not feeling the connections or sincerity with his part of the show. I don't mean to sound mean or anything. Ben's last show looked like something out of Jerry Springer. Whats with the whole boxing thing too. I mean throw these girls in a ring who are already competing for a guy and have intense feelings against one another and let them fight over him (basically). Totally weak move on Ben's part. Your in Vegas....it's an adult playground and he chooses boxing? I know he does and his brother is a fighter but really?? Am I being too harsh ladies? Like I said just a little let down by his portion. When the show started his was the story I wanted to watch. Now not so much. :bigsigh:

cantstopwatchin wrote:

It's funny that the show said they didn't want to showcase girls fighting and instead wanted to focus on the love story yet here we are, watching Allie, WV hood rat, going to town on Kari...and soon we'll see her do it to Tarryn. Since I'm better prepared, I'll be able to get in the proper mentality for it. RFL tried so hard not to be The Bachelor and yet here they are...turning into...The Bachelor. :giggle:

The only "problem" I have with Angela is that she's still to stiff, sour as somebody pointed, we don't get to see much of her facial expressions, very composed and guarded, which I can understand and I liked her calmness and rationality, which won her advantage over Kari situation, but is asking for a little more "life", vivacity, a bad thing? Ben on the other hand is ... well ... hmmm ... as "perfect" he can be on the paper, he seems such a kid in a relationship, no wonder he listens to matchmakers so much, cuz he needs to learn a lot!
Ernesto, Alba - I get Latin souls, being one myself, but his story is not interesting as much as "twitter war".

You wrote exactly what I've been thinking since we met Angela - she's a total *#$ tease and she absolutely put that 'unconquered' mentality in him from the moment they met and she announced it, which I didn't care for. I have to give it to her, though - she's got it down pat and kind of reminds me of Emily Maynard in that regard. Play the virgin card and reel him in b/c he wants to be the first just like Emily reeled Brad in with her story/background... Someone else mentioned that she looks sour all the time - I've been thinking the same thing! And that she looks like she's pouting. IDK.

Just saw an ecard on a friend's FB page that made me think of Angela this past episode -

"There's a fine line between a fitted dress and a sausage casing."

I'd like to know what going on with Angela's hair. Is it over processed or what???

cma wrote: Does any one know how tall tim is, when he is with jenna she is always on her toes or is she really short. Love love love seeing them together, I hope they end up together.