Re: Desiree Hartsock - Bachelorette 9 - Discussion

by BarbB222 Sun Jun 16, 2013 4:37 pm

brittany4400 wrote:I agree that all the kissing seems sort of desperate and yes I would tell someone I don't want to kiss you when I haven't even had a 1on1/alone time with you! I can understand brooks, Bryden, kasey, and somewhat chris but good grief! I guess we will all have different opinions on it.

ITA especially when in her heart she knows who she wants and who she doesn't . The useless kissing is yucky to me.

by melisma Sun Jun 16, 2013 4:40 pm

I think that one of the issues that people here are having with her myriad kisses is that we supposedly believe that Des identified her F1 early and it was supposedly clear to all. If that is not true, then I don't have a problem with her kissing as many frogs as she need to kiss. If it IS true that she knew her man so soon, then I think her rabid kissing is creepy and self-indulgent. I wouldn't want to be that man she "loved" from the beginning....

by brittany4400 Sun Jun 16, 2013 4:45 pm

I know em kissed Sean before a 1on1 but I'm sure at that point she knew he would be a final guy! I'm not saying only 1on1 guys should get a kiss but she just seems to be kissing just to kiss knowing she's not into them! I could tell she was about to throw up when Miley tried to kiss her though lol! And don't even get me started on the hot tub scene with all those guys! My parents would still try to kill me lol but I guess we all have different standards and that's ok too.

by brittany4400 Sun Jun 16, 2013 4:49 pm

melisma wrote:I think that one of the issues that people here are having with her myriad kisses is that we supposedly believe that Des identified her F1 early and it was supposedly clear to all. If that is not true, then I don't have a problem with her kissing as many frogs as she need to kiss. If it IS true that she knew her man so soon, then I think her rabid kissing is creepy and self-indulgent. I wouldn't want to be that man she "loved" from the beginning....

I too have though about her f1 and its almost a reason I hope my fav this season isn't that f1 :hidingchair

by Guest Sun Jun 16, 2013 4:57 pm

brittany4400 wrote:
melisma wrote:I think that one of the issues that people here are having with her myriad kisses is that we supposedly believe that Des identified her F1 early and it was supposedly clear to all. If that is not true, then I don't have a problem with her kissing as many frogs as she need to kiss. If it IS true that she knew her man so soon, then I think her rabid kissing is creepy and self-indulgent. I wouldn't want to be that man she "loved" from the beginning....

I too have though about her f1 and its almost a reason I hope my fav this season isn't that f1 :hidingchair

haa!!!...another #CrayFanProblems... laugh out loud

...we have soo much dillematic, problematic problems this season, brittany!!.. laugh out loud

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by atem Sun Jun 16, 2013 4:58 pm

brittany4400 wrote:I know em kissed Sean before a 1on1 but I'm sure at that point she knew he would be a final guy! I'm not saying only 1on1 guys should get a kiss but she just seems to be kissing just to kiss knowing she's not into them! I could tell she was about to throw up when Miley tried to kiss her though lol! And don't even get me started on the hot tub scene with all those guys! My parents would still try to kill me lol but I guess we all have different standards and that's ok too.

Like who? She didn't kiss Kasey, he kissed her. She gave the smallest peck on earth to Brandon. She really did like Ben, Brooks, Bryden and James (chaste closed mouth kiss). With Juan Pablo, I really think that was a production set up...what else do they expect these moments to have? Talk about a movie they aren't really watching. Bryden and her you would expect to kiss, since they already kissed before.

That scene with Zak was really cute. It was a true build up to a first kiss...unlike with the others she's kissed. I really wish that scene was kept and the Brandon peck/talk taken out!

by brittany4400 Sun Jun 16, 2013 5:08 pm

atem wrote:
brittany4400 wrote:I know em kissed Sean before a 1on1 but I'm sure at that point she knew he would be a final guy! I'm not saying only 1on1 guys should get a kiss but she just seems to be kissing just to kiss knowing she's not into them! I could tell she was about to throw up when Miley tried to kiss her though lol! And don't even get me started on the hot tub scene with all those guys! My parents would still try to kill me lol but I guess we all have different standards and that's ok too.

Like who? She didn't kiss Kasey, he kissed her. She gave the smallest peck on earth to Brandon. She really did like Ben, Brooks, Bryden and James (chaste closed mouth kiss). With Juan Pablo, I really think that was a production set up...what else do they expect these moments to have? Talk about a movie they aren't really watching. Bryden and her you would expect to kiss, since they already kissed before.

That scene with Zak was really cute. It was a true build up to a first kiss...unlike with the others she's kissed. I really wish that scene was kept and the Brandon peck/talk taken out!

I agree the Brandon scene was unessisary! I know she didn't want to kiss him or kasey and for sure not Mikey! I really don't think she was into that kiss with zak either! Didn't she kiss Dan too? Hopefully she didn't know who her f1 was, I certainly don't think she knew brooks was f1 considering she mugged so much with chris knowing brooks was right over them.

by atem Sun Jun 16, 2013 5:14 pm

I think she wanted to kiss Zak to see, because that truly was a nice moment he set up. It was a build up to it and not like Kasey that just went in for it.

I thought her kiss with Chris was producer driven as well. Perhaps she was surprised with the outcome of it, but I really think it was used to make the other guys jealous. It's the mind games the show loves to play.

by brittany4400 Sun Jun 16, 2013 5:23 pm

The kiss with kasey was very awkward! I don't think she minded kissing chris though even if that set up was producer driven( and I'm sure it was).

by Guest Sun Jun 16, 2013 5:28 pm

brittany4400 wrote:The kiss with kasey was very awkward! I don't think she minded kissing chris though even if that set up was producer driven( and I'm sure it was).

for that matter, any producer could have driven me any day, 24/7!!.... i would deliberately be a volunteer!! laugh out loud

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by nd4reality Sun Jun 16, 2013 5:44 pm

melisma wrote:I think that one of the issues that people here are having with her myriad kisses is that we supposedly believe that Des identified her F1 early and it was supposedly clear to all. If that is not true, then I don't have a problem with her kissing as many frogs as she need to kiss. If it IS true that she knew her man so soon, then I think her rabid kissing is creepy and self-indulgent. I wouldn't want to be that man she "loved" from the beginning....

I guess that was the point I was trying to make upthread.

We know from a preview that James gets a romantic kiss later on the season as well.

And yes, private 1on1 times and the delivery of group roses etc. is producer driven. Other leads have shared that they had control of the physical connections.

And I guess another huge factor - Drew who hasn't yet opened his score card. The season previews have certianly shown us a lot of kisses between them - endearing, longing and downright sexy coming up starting from monday (ep4).
This more than anything is the basis of questioning how F1 was her front-runner from the time he stepped out of the limo. I just don't see it.
#Sorrynotsorry

by klisack Sun Jun 16, 2013 6:44 pm

murasaki1393 wrote:
brittany4400 wrote:The kiss with kasey was very awkward! I don't think she minded kissing chris though even if that set up was producer driven( and I'm sure it was).

for that matter, any producer could have driven me any day, 24/7!!.... i would deliberately be a volunteer!!....

LOLOLOL You are hilarious!

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