Desiree Hartsock - Bachelorette 9 - Discussion

murasaki1393 wrote:Ok. i have to confess. i have a really2 serious problem with Des`s kissing counts!!
is she really aimed at breaking the record?...
with all due respect, you dont need to kiss all the guys in order to weed them out, ya know...and saying the holy reason for doing that is to feel the connection, doesnt help either...:bigsigh:
on a side note, where can i find Des`s kissing count chart?...oh, and also the embedded Zak-Des kissing scene?....TIA!

I really don't see a problem with it. Sometimes the guy initiates the kiss and she responds based on her personal reaction to it. She kisses a guy differently based on what she's comfortable with. Did you see the deleted scene with Mikey T for example when he tried to kiss her? She let him know she wasn't ready to kiss him.

Zak really did set up a great moment and I could see why she kissed him to see if there was any connection there. You should watch the whole scene!

murasaki1393 wrote:Ok. i have to confess. i have a really2 serious problem with Des`s kissing counts!!
is she really aimed at breaking the record?...
with all due respect, you dont need to kiss all the guys in order to weed them out, ya know...and saying the holy reason for doing that is to feel the connection, doesnt help either...:bigsigh:
on a side note, where can i find Des`s kissing count chart?...oh, and also the embedded Zak-Des kissing scene?....TIA!

ITA. What with all the desparate kissing going on ? Is she just being polite or is she still trying to find what she is looking for ?

I too would like to see her kissing count chart again (updated ?). She seems to have kissed all of her suitors at this point right ?

I thought she kissed her soul mate right on the first 1on1 date of the season . Guess not .

nd4reality wrote:

murasaki1393 wrote:Ok. i have to confess. i have a really2 serious problem with Des`s kissing counts!!
is she really aimed at breaking the record?...
with all due respect, you dont need to kiss all the guys in order to weed them out, ya know...and saying the holy reason for doing that is to feel the connection, doesnt help either...:bigsigh:
on a side note, where can i find Des`s kissing count chart?...oh, and also the embedded Zak-Des kissing scene?....TIA!

ITA. What with all the desparate kissing going on ? Is she just being polite or  is she still trying to find what she is looking for ?

I too would like to see her kissing count chart again (updated ?). She seems to have kissed all of her suitors at this point right ?

I thought she kissed her soul mate right on the first 1on1 date of the season . Guess not .

i too couldnt agree with you more....!...to the bolded, meaning 11 guys??  gowdy!!!..and plus Brandon who had left, will be 12??...:shocked!: .
i guess for the whole season Ali only had 5-6, Em was 8, and Ash maybe 6-7. CMIIW....

murasaki1393 wrote:

nd4reality wrote:

murasaki1393 wrote:Ok. i have to confess. i have a really2 serious problem with Des`s kissing counts!!
is she really aimed at breaking the record?...
with all due respect, you dont need to kiss all the guys in order to weed them out, ya know...and saying the holy reason for doing that is to feel the connection, doesnt help either...:bigsigh:
on a side note, where can i find Des`s kissing count chart?...oh, and also the embedded Zak-Des kissing scene?....TIA!

ITA. What with all the desparate kissing going on ? Is she just being polite or  is she still trying to find what she is looking for ?

I too would like to see her kissing count chart again (updated ?). She seems to have kissed all of her suitors at this point right ?

I thought she kissed her soul mate right on the first 1on1 date of the season . Guess not .

i too couldnt agree with you more....!...to the bolded, meaning 11 guys??  gowdy!!!..and plus Brandon who had left, will be 12??...:shocked!: .
i guess for the whole season Ali only had 5-6, Em was 8, and Ash maybe 6-7. CMIIW....

IDK the counts.
But both Ali and Ash sorta settled on their guys very early on and played the rest of the season. Shouldn't Des count be lower since she has already kissed her F1 in ep1 and also knew he was her front runner early on ? Just does not make sense to me.

nd4reality wrote:

murasaki1393 wrote:

nd4reality wrote:

murasaki1393 wrote:Ok. i have to confess. i have a really2 serious problem with Des`s kissing counts!!
is she really aimed at breaking the record?...
with all due respect, you dont need to kiss all the guys in order to weed them out, ya know...and saying the holy reason for doing that is to feel the connection, doesnt help either...:bigsigh:
on a side note, where can i find Des`s kissing count chart?...oh, and also the embedded Zak-Des kissing scene?....TIA!

ITA. What with all the desparate kissing going on ? Is she just being polite or  is she still trying to find what she is looking for ?

I too would like to see her kissing count chart again (updated ?). She seems to have kissed all of her suitors at this point right ?

I thought she kissed her soul mate right on the first 1on1 date of the season . Guess not .

i too couldnt agree with you more....!...to the bolded, meaning 11 guys??  gowdy!!!..and plus Brandon who had left, will be 12??...:shocked!: .
i guess for the whole season Ali only had 5-6, Em was 8, and Ash maybe 6-7. CMIIW....

IDK the counts.
But both Ali and Ash sorta settled on their guys very early on and played the rest of the season. Shouldn't Des count be lower since she has already kissed her F1 in ep1 and also knew he was her front runner early on ? Just does not make sense to me.

unless if it wasn`t at her mind at all!......i am afraid that i can see Des as an indecisive person, being a sweetheart that she is. i might think in the end/how this season ended she will be the most indecisive bachette of all time. She clearly said herself :(how the end goes) it is a true portrayal that love is unpredictable. sooo maybeee..she needs to `predict` love by enhancing her effort in kissing department.....well. good luck Des!...

She didn't kiss all her suitors yet. You forgot Drew.  Kasey kissed her and she didn't kiss him when she gave him the rose.  Mikey tried to kiss her and she didn't kiss him back.  She gave a peck to Brandon.
The kisses she gave to James was pretty chaste.

She didn't kiss Micheal G, Drew and Mikey.  

I don't know why you guys count Brandon and Kasey.  They kissed her and she gave them a peck.

Really guys, I don't get the idea that she's only supposed to kiss her final 4 guys!

Ashley did kiss each guy she had a date with!

atem wrote:She didn't kiss all her suitors yet. You forgot Drew.  Kasey kissed her and she didn't kiss him when she gave him the rose.  Mikey tried to kiss her and she didn't kiss him back.  She gave a peck to Brandon.
The kisses she gave to James was pretty chaste.

thanks for the compilation,atem. ..i guess i am more afraid to seeing her action in the next ep!..lol..

murasaki1393 wrote:

atem wrote:She didn't kiss all her suitors yet. You forgot Drew.  Kasey kissed her and she didn't kiss him when she gave him the rose.  Mikey tried to kiss her and she didn't kiss him back.  She gave a peck to Brandon.
The kisses she gave to James was pretty chaste.

thanks for the compilation,atem. ..i guess i am more afraid to seeing her action in the next ep!..lol..

Seriously, I don't get what the issue is. Kasey kissed her! She didn't kiss Kasey back.

murasaki1393 wrote:

atem wrote:She didn't kiss all her suitors yet. You forgot Drew.  Kasey kissed her and she didn't kiss him when she gave him the rose.  Mikey tried to kiss her and she didn't kiss him back.  She gave a peck to Brandon.
The kisses she gave to James was pretty chaste.

thanks for the compilation,atem. ..i guess i am more afraid to seeing her action in the next ep!..lol..

So, you want her to tell them all 'No, I don't want to kiss you?'

atem wrote:

murasaki1393 wrote:

atem wrote:She didn't kiss all her suitors yet. You forgot Drew.  Kasey kissed her and she didn't kiss him when she gave him the rose.  Mikey tried to kiss her and she didn't kiss him back.  She gave a peck to Brandon.
The kisses she gave to James was pretty chaste.

thanks for the compilation,atem. ..i guess i am more afraid to seeing her action in the next ep!..lol..

Seriously, I don't get what the issue is.  Kasey kissed her!  She didn't kiss Kasey back.

my issue is, she still in Ep.3 to 4..and she seems already win over Em in kissing Dept. mind you, Em was about 7-8, and it was INCLUDING the peck!!....but well, i like Des, ..i have only one objection for her in this department!

First off, Desiree had two group dates vs two one on ones for Emily. It's not the same at all!

To even count Kasey and Brandon as kisses is laughable to me.

I agree that all the kissing seems sort of desperate and yes I would tell someone I don't want to kiss you when I haven't even had a 1on1/alone time with you! I can understand brooks, Bryden, kasey, and somewhat chris but good grief! I guess we will all have different opinions on it.