Re: Reality Steve - Thread #2

[Guest]

Just pulling this from CH's tv guide interview. Doesn't sound like JP was acting out off camera to me. jmo

Will J.P.'s jealousy continue to rear its head?
Harrison: It's kind of a Catch-22 because you're supposed to start falling in love and caring about someone; but if you do, then obviously you don't want them dating a bunch of other guys and you definitely don't want to watch it. I don't think it was showing a bad side of J.P., it wasn't psycho, he explained himself so well and in a very endearing way. And he told it to Ashley which I liked instead of bitching and moaning behind the scenes.

Yes but...LOL, in another part of CH's interview he says JP was in a foul mood all week...so the guys are picking up on a vibe that must have been apparent.

Fair enough, but does this mean that anybody who is in a foul mood for a week (more likely a Bachelor week, which is actually 4-5 days) automatically has anger management issues, and is possibly dangerous? I've been in some foul moods that have lasted longer than that!

I did not say anger management issues, I said foul mood. I am just pointing out that JP was behaving in a way that would lead some of the guys, and CH, to comment on this behavior...jeez louise.

I hear you for sure pavalygurl..........the JP love and ability to overlook somethings does have a strangling kinda of effect sometimes..........

[klarson79]

If we will all take a trip down memory lane, Ashley behaved very badly during group dates with Brad. I remember more than one, "Group dates suck" coming from our little girl cupcake. She can relate to and understands completely how JP is feeling...and she told him that when she gave him the group date rose. Ashly told JP that hearing he was having a really hard week broke her heart. JP was being totally honest with Ashley in how he was feeling. Ashley said multiple times that you have to have complete honesty in a relationship. Whether JP is F1 or F2, her actions on the show and her blog this week show that she respected his sensitive, vulnerable and raw emotion.

I would also ask out of respect for our fellow board members who have been physically, verbally and emotionally abused, please refrain from using the word "dangerous" when you have no real clue what it is to fear for your life at the hands of someone you love.

[Guest]

Just pulling this from CH's tv guide interview. Doesn't sound like JP was acting out off camera to me. jmo

Will J.P.'s jealousy continue to rear its head?
Harrison: It's kind of a Catch-22 because you're supposed to start falling in love and caring about someone; but if you do, then obviously you don't want them dating a bunch of other guys and you definitely don't want to watch it. I don't think it was showing a bad side of J.P., it wasn't psycho, he explained himself so well and in a very endearing way. And he told it to Ashley which I liked instead of bitching and moaning behind the scenes.

Yes but...LOL, in another part of CH's interview he says JP was in a foul mood all week...so the guys are picking up on a vibe that must have been apparent.

Fair enough, but does this mean that anybody who is in a foul mood for a week (more likely a Bachelor week, which is actually 4-5 days) automatically has anger management issues, and is possibly dangerous? I've been in some foul moods that have lasted longer than that!

Then why not act like an adult and spend more time alone if he is treating the other guys and Chris with that kind of temperment as being in a foul mood and just hard to get along with...........kinda childish to me. IMO.

[Beeleever]

If we will all take a trip down memory lane, Ashley behaved very badly during group dates with Brad. I remember more than one, "Group dates suck" coming from our little girl cupcake. She can relate to and understands completely how JP is feeling...and she told him that when she gave him the group date rose. Ashly told JP that hearing he was having a really hard week broke her heart. JP was being totally honest with Ashley in how he was feeling. Ashley said multiple times that you have to have complete honesty in a relationship. Whether JP is F1 or F2, her actions on the show and her blog this week show that she respected his sensitive, vulnerable and raw emotion.

I would also ask out of respect for our fellow board members who have been physically, verbally and emotionally abused, please refrain from using the word "dangerous" when you have no real clue what it is to fear for your life at the hands of someone you love.

[Guest]

Wow. Why post the same thing 4 times? :greenman:
Throwing around words like "dangerous" is, at best, irresponsible and, at worst, salacious.
ETA: Now 5 times.

I would really like to know who you are talking to or about here........can you please answer??

[pavalygurl]

Just pulling this from CH's tv guide interview. Doesn't sound like JP was acting out off camera to me. jmo

Will J.P.'s jealousy continue to rear its head?
Harrison: It's kind of a Catch-22 because you're supposed to start falling in love and caring about someone; but if you do, then obviously you don't want them dating a bunch of other guys and you definitely don't want to watch it. I don't think it was showing a bad side of J.P., it wasn't psycho, he explained himself so well and in a very endearing way. And he told it to Ashley which I liked instead of bitching and moaning behind the scenes.

Yes but...LOL, in another part of CH's interview he says JP was in a foul mood all week...so the guys are picking up on a vibe that must have been apparent.

Fair enough, but does this mean that anybody who is in a foul mood for a week (more likely a Bachelor week, which is actually 4-5 days) automatically has anger management issues, and is possibly dangerous? I've been in some foul moods that have lasted longer than that!

I did not say anger management issues, I said foul mood. I am just pointing out that JP was behaving in a way that would lead some of the guys, and CH, to comment on this behavior...jeez louise.

[ironcat]

Just pulling this from CH's tv guide interview. Doesn't sound like JP was acting out off camera to me. jmo

Will J.P.'s jealousy continue to rear its head?
Harrison: It's kind of a Catch-22 because you're supposed to start falling in love and caring about someone; but if you do, then obviously you don't want them dating a bunch of other guys and you definitely don't want to watch it. I don't think it was showing a bad side of J.P., it wasn't psycho, he explained himself so well and in a very endearing way. And he told it to Ashley which I liked instead of bitching and moaning behind the scenes.

Yes but...LOL, in another part of CH's interview he says JP was in a foul mood all week...so the guys are picking up on a vibe that must have been apparent.

Fair enough, but does this mean that anybody who is in a foul mood for a week (more likely a Bachelor week, which is actually 4-5 days) automatically has anger management issues, and is possibly dangerous? I've been in some foul moods that have lasted longer than that!

[pavalygurl]

Just pulling this from CH's tv guide interview. Doesn't sound like JP was acting out off camera to me. jmo

Will J.P.'s jealousy continue to rear its head?
Harrison: It's kind of a Catch-22 because you're supposed to start falling in love and caring about someone; but if you do, then obviously you don't want them dating a bunch of other guys and you definitely don't want to watch it. I don't think it was showing a bad side of J.P., it wasn't psycho, he explained himself so well and in a very endearing way. And he told it to Ashley which I liked instead of bitching and moaning behind the scenes.

Yes but...LOL, in another part of CH's interview he says JP was in a foul mood all week...so the guys are picking up on a vibe that must have been apparent.

[Guest]

I believe RS is going to be eating crow again this season.....

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LOL, love it.............kinda think so!!

What do ya mean....I'm lost????

From what I have been told, how the editing is going, I really don't think RS is right.

Oh yeah, something interesting...can you share what you were told...please?

Re: Reality Steve
by Coastal Today at 6:11 am

.jojo47 wrote:
Coastal wrote:
anders wrote:
Coastal wrote:
Gina wrote:
Yes, I was wrong and it was not Lucas, but JP. However, Ashley said she understood as she's been in his position on the show and she gave him a rose. I think his reaction was like a guy in real life and not a scripted b/s show would act if his girl was with other guys. I know my boyfriend would act just like JP did and my b/f is a kind and good guy like JP. It's all just our opinions.

We'll see who's F1, but I would not definitely say "NOT F1" about either Ben or JP. Until then, we can believe what we want and post what we want.

I am actually questioning a bunch of things. I was told something from someone recently that is really got me questioning everything, from what we have been told by RS, to Fijiman and his first comments to Love........to even what happened tonight with Ryan and knowing that he does come back........As far as what I can tell, the ending isn't definate yet..........

I was rather shocked with her PIs about letting Ryan and Lucas go - I don't recall any lead ever expressing so much doubt about letting 2 people go like that - not before F4 anyway. I don't think she has 'those' feelings for Ryan or Lucas, but sometimes 'those' feelings dont' happen in 4 weeks - sometimes, for some people it takes more time, like with Dino, his deadline is looming and he's pretty sure he's not going to get there by then. The pressure to fall in love in the span of 6 weeks while whittling the contestants down every 4 days has got to be a huge mindf***

This is why the source that I have might very well be telling me the truth considering Ryan's departure tonight. That scenario on the show isn't adding up very well and Ryan's return has to do with the ... scenario that is still remaining between her and Ryan. She told him that she doesn't know if she is doing the right thing.

I definitely see a set up for Ryan's return. Her misgivings in her PI plus how long they focused the camera on him when he left totally feeds into a return in Fiji. However, I'm not sure that Ryan's return will factor into her decision-making about WHO she'll choose, because she's clearly stated (more than once) that the romantic feelings were missing. He will affect HOW she gets to her end decision, but I don't see the WHO. Do you believe differently Coastal, based on your information?Yup, like I said, they apparently spend more time together than what RS has said, then there is the issue of the maybe connection beyond the security and other attributes she is feeling from Ryan. There is definately more to tell. I have serious reservations as to whether JP is the F1 as RS states. Still too many unanswered questions out there that need to be finalized. Ben is looking more and more like the likely F1, IMO..
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[klarson79]

Man, I WISH my middle schoolers would act like JP. It would make my job SO much easier!!

Boy do I wish the same. It would stop me from pushing them in the pool, sending them to the office every chance I get, and just outright ignoring them. Bet their parents would love to know this is what happens at camp. But telling preteens and teenagers to follow rules and behave when they want to be on summer vacation is nearly impossible. So I would gladly take a group of JPs any week.

I share your pain!

I'm glad I work with all adults...teenagers make me stabby. Even though...there is a certain subset of adults at my job that make me stabby too.

I thought you were going to say "crabby." I had no idea you would say "stabby"! Hilarious! :giggle:

LOLOLOL!!! Crabby isn't a strong enough word!!

[ironcat]

Lucas hasn't exactly been a shining example of good behavior. I'm just curious what everyone thought of the way he acted at the cocktail party in HK.
That didn't look very mature to me! JMO

Maybe not so, but don't forget, Ames and Ryan also called JP out on his temper/jealousy/moods.

Exactly when did Ames and Ryan call JP out and what did they say? I only remember one comment from Lucas. Thanks.

They were at the breakfast table, both Ames and Ryan were discussing that JP wasn't handling the fact that Ben hadn't come home yet.........they BOTH commented that he is in his dark moody state.

Thanks, but commenting on his moodiness is a far cry from what you originally posted about them calling him out on his temper or jealousy. In fact, the only people commenting on JP's temper are here, none of the guys on the show mentioned it at all.

[mnmhughes]

Man, I WISH my middle schoolers would act like JP. It would make my job SO much easier!!

Boy do I wish the same. It would stop me from pushing them in the pool, sending them to the office every chance I get, and just outright ignoring them. Bet their parents would love to know this is what happens at camp. But telling preteens and teenagers to follow rules and behave when they want to be on summer vacation is nearly impossible. So I would gladly take a group of JPs any week.

I share your pain!

I'm glad I work with all adults...teenagers make me stabby. Even though...there is a certain subset of adults at my job that make me stabby too.

I thought you were going to say "crabby." I had no idea you would say "stabby"! Hilarious! :giggle:

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