Re: Vent/Complaint Department - Bachelorette 8 - Discussion

by Guest Wed Jul 11, 2012 5:36 pm

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by stuckinsc Wed Jul 11, 2012 6:06 pm

bilolo wrote:I have a question
Almost everybody (regular posters) said they did not send PM to Love_Me so tell me who did because this is so funny
Guys come on

Confessing, I was one of them. I PMed back on May 26th when I was still relatively new to this place and how it worked. I am copying it here so you all can see, but am deleting the name of the person I had the question on, as that just isn't necessary toward them. I have grown and learned lots in the last month and a half.

Hi Love_Me and San,

Thank you for helping to make this board possible. I enjoyed it a lot during Sweet Home Alabama Three and have enjoyed it so far during Emily's Season.

But, I do have a quick question. Poster not named gets very snippy in his/her posts to other people, but if you take the same tone with him/her you get a reply how it is his/her right to feel what they want. I wasn't sure if I should try to PM this user, and honestly if it would do any good.

I think we all have the right to our opinion, but this user seems to put down those who don't agree with them. Most users have an opinion here, but are fairly nice to the other users, but I have logged off multiple times after reading a Poster not named somewhat nasty post. It reminds me of the bad days at FORT when I stopped going there because everyone was so mean to each other.

I don't wish to cause an issue, but have liked that this board seems to want to respect others, so wanted to know how the board administrators would like this to be handled.

Thanks,

stuckinsc

I have gotten a little too invested the last couple of days and am sorry to the at least four people that I have upset with posts or PMs. I appreciate you all and what Love_me and San have set up here. I am going to take a break so I can come back at the finale with a clear head. Please, don't post messages that I don't have to leave. I am not leaving, I am taking a self chosen break, but wanted to make a full confession before I go.

Hope to see you all on July 22nd for an interesting finale, and I promise to come back snarky, but not temperamental. Putting my big girl panties on and peace out for now.

by Guest Wed Jul 11, 2012 6:32 pm

I haven't PM'd them about anyone, but confess I have Foe'd a few when tensions ran high! This board is a fun place to come to get away from real life for awhile and interact with people with a common interest. The things that sleuthers have learned to dissect in order to uncover the truth is pretty fascinating. Now, back into the fray! :gotcha:

by Guest Wed Jul 11, 2012 9:55 pm

I think there should be a limit on the number of posts any one person can make in a day! :hidingchair :hidingchair :hidingchair
Whew - glad to get that off my chest!!

by Kels0012 Wed Jul 11, 2012 11:39 pm

Where CAN I give a grievance about a particular post/person who is personally bashing me? I don't want to bother the moderators but I do believe I need to take action. When words such as "psychological" come into play, that is playing with fire. C'mon. Honestly? Don't bash a person on a forum for having psychological issues based off of one post. That is rude, disrespecful and ignorant. Nor should you ever bash a person with those problems anyway!

by Kels0012 Thu Jul 12, 2012 12:03 am

I think it goes to show that BOTH the Arie and Jef threads have been shut down at this time. Let's respect the rules people. Fine to bash people ON the show, just not off. And just because people question your bashing of people ON the show, please don't deflect the blame onto said askers or normal people in general, incluing posters that disagree with opinons.

by LoveDovez Thu Jul 12, 2012 12:11 am

just logic wrote:
Kashathediva wrote:
bilolo wrote:I have a question
Almost everybody (regular posters) said they did not send PM to Love_Me so tell me who did because this is so funny
Guys come on [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]

Was not me. [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.] I wear my mom's big girl panteez.

Not me - I read through the posts and somehow miss most of the 'interesting' stuff. I'd just pm someone if I thought they were out of line anyway wouldn't bother the admins. Always did hate people 'running to mommy'.

Yeah, Mommy of Fliess either one...; )

by LoveDovez Thu Jul 12, 2012 12:15 am

realityfan26 wrote:I think there should be a limit on the number of posts any one person can make in a day! [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]
Whew - glad to get that off my chest!!

Really? Just curious and very nicely asking, what's the thought process behind that?

by Guest Thu Jul 12, 2012 12:19 am

Kels0012 wrote:Where CAN I give a grievance about a particular post/person who is personally bashing me? I don't want to bother the moderators but I do believe I need to take action. When words such as "psychological" come into play, that is playing with fire. C'mon. Honestly? Don't bash a person on a forum for having psychological issues based off of one post. That is rude, disrespecful and ignorant. Nor should you ever bash a person with those problems anyway!

Unless you're lying on their couch and paying them $200 an hour, it's probably best to roll your eyes and move on... :winkie:

Just because someone says something, doesn't mean you have to react to it, or even acknowledge it...

by yumyum1 Thu Jul 12, 2012 12:22 am

LoveDovez wrote:
just logic wrote:
Kashathediva wrote:
bilolo wrote:I have a question
Almost everybody (regular posters) said they did not send PM to Love_Me so tell me who did because this is so funny
Guys come on [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]

Was not me. [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.] I wear my mom's big girl panteez.

Not me - I read through the posts and somehow miss most of the 'interesting' stuff. I'd just pm someone if I thought they were out of line anyway wouldn't bother the admins. Always did hate people 'running to mommy'.

Yeah, Mommy of Fliess either one...; )

True. People shouldn't be bothering or tattletaling to the Mods or to Mike Fleiss. Not cool in my book. Trying to get other posters or show contestants in trouble doesn't seem like a nice thing to do. Oh well. Only 10 days left.

by LoveDovez Thu Jul 12, 2012 12:30 am

yumyum1 wrote:
LoveDovez wrote:
just logic wrote:
Kashathediva wrote:
bilolo wrote:I have a question
Almost everybody (regular posters) said they did not send PM to Love_Me so tell me who did because this is so funny
Guys come on [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]

Was not me. [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.] I wear my mom's big girl panteez.

Not me - I read through the posts and somehow miss most of the 'interesting' stuff. I'd just pm someone if I thought they were out of line anyway wouldn't bother the admins. Always did hate people 'running to mommy'.

Yeah, Mommy of Fliess either one...; )

True. People shouldn't be bothering or tattletaling to the Mods or to Mike Fleiss. Not cool in my book. Trying to get other posters or show contestants in trouble doesn't seem like a nice thing to do. Oh well. Only 10 days left.

I totally agree. 10 LONG days ahead of us, Yum. : )

by yumyum1 Thu Jul 12, 2012 12:34 am

LoveDovez wrote:
yumyum1 wrote:
LoveDovez wrote:
just logic wrote:
Kashathediva wrote:
bilolo wrote:I have a question
Almost everybody (regular posters) said they did not send PM to Love_Me so tell me who did because this is so funny
Guys come on [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]

Was not me. [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.] I wear my mom's big girl panteez.

Not me - I read through the posts and somehow miss most of the 'interesting' stuff. I'd just pm someone if I thought they were out of line anyway wouldn't bother the admins. Always did hate people 'running to mommy'.

Yeah, Mommy of Fliess either one...; )

True. People shouldn't be bothering or tattletaling to the Mods or to Mike Fleiss. Not cool in my book. Trying to get other posters or show contestants in trouble doesn't seem like a nice thing to do. Oh well. Only 10 days left.

I totally agree. 10 LONG days ahead of us, Yum. : )

Yup. 10 very long days. :Smiley: I love this season, but it has been exhausting at times, and part of me will be glad when it's over.

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