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Hi. Can someone please guide me to the non-fan forums for the F3 contestants? I have a lot to say and would like to say it without being attacked. Thanks!

IrishGal wrote:Hi.  Can someone please guide me to the non-fan forums for the F3 contestants?  I have a lot to say and would like to say it without being attacked.  Thanks!  

This is a good idea.
It makes it hard to snark on a fan thread. :Frown: 
I don't want to rain on anyone's parade.

Not sure where to post this, but lately I've been clicking on some link on this site accidentally and being directed to a porn site (badoink something). It's happened 4 or 5 times. I can't figure out what's causing it. Has anyone else experienced this? It's very disconcerting.:Frown: 

No l havent had that problem yet anyways.

Kashathediva wrote:

IrishGal wrote:Hi.  Can someone please guide me to the non-fan forums for the F3 contestants?  I have a lot to say and would like to say it without being attacked.  Thanks!  

This is a good idea.
It makes it hard to snark on a fan thread. :Frown: 
I don't want to rain on anyone's parade.

Hey Scooby, I haven't had your problem thank goodness!  How horrible!  LOL.  

But I still have a very serious problem that there is no where to discuss the season that just ended which is on ALL our minds except in fan threads.  Brooks fans are freaking out when people try to post any thoughts that involve Brooks in his fan thread if they don't absolutely agree with the prevailing fan opinions.  So where do we go?  I believe it's causing a lot of unnecessary tension on the board.  Very sad.

The Episode Threads are still open to discuss Season 9. A General discussion thread is going to be started soon. It is hard to make everyone here happy, but we always try to.

ETA: https://www.bachandbachettefans.net/t2111-the-bachelorette-9-general-discussion-news-updates#526274

I greatly appreciate all you do and have to put up with, Love. But Episode Threads and General Threads have never been where we discuss particular contestants. I really feel we need specific fan and non-fan threads for at least the lead and the F3 especially after the season ends when we all have so many unresolved concerns/thoughts. We always had them in the past. Otherwise the fans have a huge advantage over those of us who are more neutral. I don't worship the ground of any of these contestants so where do I post my opinions be they negative or positive? I get trashed in the Brooks fan forum if I don't kiss his ass and apparently that's acceptable since it's his fan forum. It feels like "fangirls" are being given a huge advantage over more neutral sleuthers and viewers. JMHO and no harm meant.

Scooby wrote:Not sure where to post this, but lately I've been clicking on some link on this site accidentally and being directed to a porn site (badoink something). It's happened 4 or 5 times.  I can't figure out what's causing it. Has anyone else experienced this? It's very disconcerting.:Frown: 

Yes! It happened to me too! I'd say since a week or two ago? I'm on iPad btw.

Karen5354 wrote:

Scooby wrote:Not sure where to post this, but lately I've been clicking on some link on this site accidentally and being directed to a porn site (badoink something). It's happened 4 or 5 times.  I can't figure out what's causing it. Has anyone else experienced this? It's very disconcerting.:Frown: 

Yes!  It happened to me too!  I'd say since a week or two ago?  I'm on iPad btw.

I'm on my ipad also. Can you figure out what you're clicking on?

IrishGal wrote:

Kashathediva wrote:

IrishGal wrote:Hi.  Can someone please guide me to the non-fan forums for the F3 contestants?  I have a lot to say and would like to say it without being attacked.  Thanks!  

This is a good idea.
It makes it hard to snark on a fan thread. :Frown: 
I don't want to rain on anyone's parade.

Hey Scooby, I haven't had your problem thank goodness!  How horrible!  LOL.  

But I still have a very serious problem that there is no where to discuss the season that just ended which is on ALL our minds except in fan threads.  Brooks fans are freaking out when people try to post any thoughts that involve Brooks in his fan thread if they don't absolutely agree with the prevailing fan opinions.  So where do we go?  I believe it's causing a lot of unnecessary tension on the board.  Very sad.

This is the first opportunity I have had to check out what everyone thought during the last epi and the ATFR. Are all the threads just gone? Are we not even able to read them? I would like to give my views without worrying about offending anyone. All I find are "Fan" threads. Can someone clarify if this is now becoming strictly a fan site? Are dissenting views no longer permitted? I would think that after this season this site would be more than ready to get back to sleuthing and really looking at the edits to determine what is going on. I think there were so many clues that Chris was the F1 that were totally ignored by most because the Brooks drama and the fact that he was the spoiled F1. Kudos to those who were really watching and who stood by what they saw rather than by what they were told. I hope those of us who aren't in the "Fan Club" for any particular contestant will get the opportunity to voice our thoughts also.

Love me, I can't find the episode threads. But I found the contestant, non fan forum, at the very very bottom of the forum list.There are some Older contestant threads there already. I'll post something there so it might be easier to find .

Personally, I think a good solution would be to have one thread in the Brooks section and one in the Chris/Des section for general discussion. And then all of the fan threads for fangirl stuff.