Bachelorette 8 - Videos - Discussion

Shelby wrote:I am impressed.

Fleiss said that the bach show is about 66 hours of air. We are what? half season? Shall we say maybe 35 hours?

And some of you know her soooooooooooooooooooo well in 35 hours and from reading a couple of trash magazines!!

again. I am impressed. Claiming all the trash things some of you are saying about her in such a short time....

yep... I am impressed! some of you deserve an award or something.

What I have read are posters who are expressing their opinion about how Emily dealt with this situation. :greenman:

This post reads to me like you are mocking those posters. :greenman:

Shelby wrote:I am impressed.

Fleiss said that the bach show is about 66 hours of air. We are what? half season? Shall we say maybe 35 hours?

And some of you know her soooooooooooooooooooo well in 35 hours and from reading a couple of trash magazines!!

again. I am impressed. Claiming all the trash things some of you are saying about her in such a short time....

yep... I am impressed! some of you deserve an award or something.

However, The only rule we have is that you not bash posters personally, tell them what to do, or tell them how to feel.

nanab wrote:Early on, Love_Me told us there was nothing to the rumor that Emily was upset about Arie-Cassie. My theory is that all the players in this drama are play-acting it out because TPTB saw how much publicity it had stirred, so they went back later and injected the scenes with Emily and Cassie, and whatever VO or PI fit that storyline. What kind of producers would they be if they didn't pounce on it? We need to see if Emily's roots show more in the scene with Cassie than they did in other scenes supposedly filmed then. And identify the place where it was filmed. Ok, maybe I'm kidding a little, but I wouldn't be at all surprised!

you are right. Lets remember ashley and the PI in the "hotel corridor" with same clothes but o-too-perfect hair to be true when she spoke angrily about bentley. She even said to ashley spivey that this episode (re: this PI) would make a final point to the bentley mess. Ashley was rumored to be pissed at the producers to show her as stupid versus bentley treating her like shit behind her back.

so yes. I have no doubt that they could find any street, same clothes and makeup and add this segment.

Jef said that she was told before the 1:1 arie in prague so that would be ridiculous to see emily with the same clothes she had with arie during this 1:1 in prague.

On top of it, emily is not a good actress. we can see when it is spontaneous and when it is a scene that was done again.

Chacharo wrote:

Shelby wrote:I am impressed.

Fleiss said that the bach show is about 66 hours of air. We are what? half season? Shall we say maybe 35 hours?

And some of you know her soooooooooooooooooooo well in 35 hours and from reading a couple of trash magazines!!

again. I am impressed. Claiming all the trash things some of you are saying about her in such a short time....

yep... I am impressed! some of you deserve an award or something.

What I have read are posters who are expressing their opinion about how Emily dealt with this situation. :greenman:

This post reads to me like you are mocking those posters. :greenman:

that is an interesting way to say it.

carry on. I'm outta here. Not fond of and :puke: and much prefer in other friendly thread. Have fun!

Communication plays a huge part in any successful relationship and Emily needs to learn to communicate effectively. Guys are not good at reading your minds. How many times do you hear about your women friends complaining they hint this and that but their guys never pick up on those signs?

It's all in your ability to ask the right questions to find the answer without coming across as interrogative and self-centered or trying to put words in the guy's mouth.

One thing i notice from watching the season is that Emily is very good at asking the right questions to dismiss the guys she's not interested in.

But when it comes to guys that she does care about such as Arie, her way may ruin the relationship. I think the Cassie/Arie connection may be one of the hurdles for Emily and Arie to overcome and possibly a chance for them to prove how well they can communicate. I can't help but relate to the Bentley situation and we all saw how Ashley and JP worked through it together in their season and it actually made them stronger as a couple.

Again, this is just my opinion. We all have to wait to see how it is played out.

doantam wrote:Communication plays a huge part in any successful relationship and Emily needs to learn to communicate effectively. Guys are not good at reading your minds. How many times do you hear about your women friends complaining they hint this and that but their guys never pick up on those signs?

It's all in your ability to ask the right questions to find the answer without coming across as interrogative and self-centered or trying to put words in the guy's mouth.

One thing i notice from watching the season is that Emily is very good at asking the right questions to dismiss the guys she's not interested in.

But when it comes to guys that she does care about such as Arie, her way may ruin the relationship. I think the Cassie/Arie connection may be one of the hurdles for Emily and Arie to overcome and possibly a chance for them to prove how well they can communicate. I can't help but relate to the Bentley situation and we all saw how Ashley and JP worked through it together in their season and it actually made them stronger as a couple.

Again, this is just my opinion. We all have to wait to see how it is played out.

Or just edited to seem that way?

yes. it could be edited that way to explain how her relationship with Arie failed and hers with Jef thrives in the end?

doantam wrote:Communication plays a huge part in any successful relationship and Emily needs to learn to communicate effectively. Guys are not good at reading your minds. How many times do you hear about your women friends complaining they hint this and that but their guys never pick up on those signs?

It's all in your ability to ask the right questions to find the answer without coming across as interrogative and self-centered or trying to put words in the guy's mouth.

One thing i notice from watching the season is that Emily is very good at asking the right questions to dismiss the guys she's not interested in.

But when it comes to guys that she does care about such as Arie, her way may ruin the relationship. I think the Cassie/Arie connection may be one of the hurdles for Emily and Arie to overcome and possibly a chance for them to prove how well they can communicate. I can't help but relate to the Bentley situation and we all saw how Ashley and JP worked through it together in their season and it actually made them stronger as a couple.

Again, this is just my opinion. We all have to wait to see how it is played out.

And just maybe, this lack of being able to communicate by both Emily and Arie in as effective a way as JP and Ashley, means Arie was/is not her F1 and that she is able to communicate easily and effectively with her F1?

ETA: in real life, I've had relationships where the physical chemistry was off the charts, but once we hit the little bumps in the road that all relationships have, we found out we were not a good fit due to not being able to communicate effectively. Maybe emily found this out and since she was also in "relationships" with her other F3 guys, which were more balanced, this led her to let Arie go at F3 in spite of their off the walls chemistry (which I totally see and don't deny at all).

you have to communicate well to build trust. Arie is obviously her frontrunner at this point. But Arie may slowly fall from grace because as she's losing trust. She may communicate better with her chosen one.

I am just guessing. I can be wrong.

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missmilano wrote:

doantam wrote:Communication plays a huge part in any successful relationship and Emily needs to learn to communicate effectively. Guys are not good at reading your minds. How many times do you hear about your women friends complaining they hint this and that but their guys never pick up on those signs?

It's all in your ability to ask the right questions to find the answer without coming across as interrogative and self-centered or trying to put words in the guy's mouth.

One thing i notice from watching the season is that Emily is very good at asking the right questions to dismiss the guys she's not interested in.

But when it comes to guys that she does care about such as Arie, her way may ruin the relationship. I think the Cassie/Arie connection may be one of the hurdles for Emily and Arie to overcome and possibly a chance for them to prove how well they can communicate. I can't help but relate to the Bentley situation and we all saw how Ashley and JP worked through it together in their season and it actually made them stronger as a couple.

Again, this is just my opinion. We all have to wait to see how it is played out.

And just maybe, this lack of being able to communicate by both Emily and Arie in as effective a way as JP and Ashley, means Arie was/is not her F1 and that she is able to communicate easily and effectively with her F1?

ETA: in real life, I've had relationships where the physical chemistry was off the charts, but once we hit the little bumps in the road that all relationships have, we found out we were not a good fit due to not being able to communicate effectively. Maybe emily found this out and since she was also in "relationships" with her other F3 guys, which were more balanced, this led her to let Arie go at F3 in spite of their off the walls chemistry (which I totally see and don't deny at all).

Exactly how i see it.

doantam wrote:you have to communicate well to build trust. Arie is obviously her frontrunner at this point. But Arie may slowly fall from grace because as she's losing trust. She may communicate better with her chosen one.

I am just guessing. I can be wrong.

:hidingchair

Don't hide under the chair. I posted much the same thing a few minutes ago.

And just maybe, this lack of being able to communicate by both Emily and Arie in as effective a way as JP and Ashley, means Arie was/is not her F1 and that she is able to communicate easily and effectively with her F1?

Oh I have no doubt that Arie is not her F1. It remains to be seen whether she will be able to communicate effectively with Jef in the real world. Time will tell.