Bachelorette 8 - Videos - Discussion

seton wrote:
I agree that after a while, the woman has to realize that he is not gonna marry u and give up. But that doesnt excuse the fact Sean gives lip service about how his pop taught him to 'be a man', yet he couldnt MAN UP and be honest with someone he SUPPOSEDLY loved and strung her along for 3 yrs. If that is how he treats someone he loves, he doesnt know the meaning. And by the way he talked about it, I doubt he will anytime soon.

And I am done. I have no doubt that there will be plenty of people saying something about this when E9 airs.

Seton, sorry I am not trying to fight. But if Sean was happy, then why did he need to break up? If he hasn't had a girlfriend in two years and dated this one for 3 then he was 23 when they started dating and fresh out of college, where he was a student athlete and trust me they have very little free time. I guess to me, he was probably growing and learning, maybe he thought that he loved her and if he waited long enough he would be ready for marriage, he just wasn't at 23, 24, or 25 (which I respect). I am just not comfortable calling a young man a sociopath for dating someone he decided he didn't want to marry for 3 years in his early 20s. I dated someone from 17-21 that I didn't want to marry and didn't have the courage to break it off until he started talking about buying my ring. It happens. Our early 20s are supposed to be about growing up and learning who we are.

seton wrote:I agree that after a while, the woman has to realize that he is not gonna marry u and give up. But that doesnt excuse the fact Sean gives lip service about how his pop taught him to 'be a man', yet he couldnt MAN UP and be honest with someone he SUPPOSEDLY loved and strung her along for 3 yrs. If that is how he treats someone he loves, he doesnt know the meaning. And by the way he talked about it, I doubt he will anytime soon.

And I am done. I have no doubt that there will be plenty of people saying something about this when E9 airs.

I'm not wanting to fight either...but we don't know he strung her along for 3 years. She has said nothing but nice/great things about him. So my guess would be that once they finished school and got out in the real world, is when he realized that they were wanting 2 different things out of the relationship or that he wasn't ready for marriage yet or that she wasn't the one. If it had been for the whole relationship, I doubt she'd be so complimentary of him and friends with him and his family still.

And stuckinsc, I agree...our 20s are for growing up, learning who you are and what you want out of life! And for what its worth, what I wanted or thought I wanted changed as I progressed through my 20s and learned more about myself and realized what I really needed in and out of my life.

nutty1 wrote:It is going to take a lot to convince me Arie, Jef or Sean are bad guys at all!!!

Im right there with ya nutty! I cannot bring myself to say that Sean is a bad guy, because I DONT KNOW HIM. I think both Sean and Arie will find happiness and success after the show and I cannot wait to keep up with them!

'The Bachelorette's' Sean Lowe
Sean Lowe talks to The Times' Amy Kaufman at the "Men Tell All" taping about what is felt like to be the third-to-last man standing.

http://www.q13fox.com/videogallery/70980495/Entertainment/apos-The-Bachelorette-apos-s-apos-Sean-Lowe

momoftrips wrote:

'The Bachelorette's' Sean Lowe
Sean Lowe talks to The Times' Amy Kaufman at the "Men Tell All" taping about what is felt like to be the third-to-last man standing.

http://www.q13fox.com/videogallery/70980495/Entertainment/apos-The-Bachelorette-apos-s-apos-Sean-Lowe

Sean called Jef and Arie dainty! That's so funny, but ya know, he does have a point ... LOL

Compared to Sean, they definitely are!:giggle:

Has this been posted? It sounds as if there might be a televised wedding.

http://www.etonline.com/tv/123203_Emily_Maynard_s_Single_Mom_Advice_to_Katie_Holmes/

AmberTrails wrote:Has this been posted? It sounds as if there might be a televised wedding.

http://www.etonline.com/tv/123203_Emily_Maynard_s_Single_Mom_Advice_to_Katie_Holmes/

Someone did post it yesterday. She looked glowing and I think she absolutely hinted at a TV wedding.

momoftrips wrote:

'The Bachelorette's' Sean Lowe
Sean Lowe talks to The Times' Amy Kaufman at the "Men Tell All" taping about what is felt like to be the third-to-last man standing.

http://www.q13fox.com/videogallery/70980495/Entertainment/apos-The-Bachelorette-apos-s-apos-Sean-Lowe

Nice interview...Sean is really a sweetie. Em really did have 3 great guys at the end.

http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/video/bachelorette-sneak-peek-emily-maynard-dishes-kalon-mcmahon-16753673

omg Emily hi 5 with Chris H that's

ouch. Kalon needs to shut-it and just say sorry if I ever offended you. enough.

btw- emily looks beautiful!!