Re: Bachelorette 8 - Media - Thread #3

by Guest Sat Jun 16, 2012 7:21 pm

Longhornfan wrote:
veg_out wrote:
NCGalBecca wrote:I'm sure this is just Chris being PR Chris as usual but I found his quote in the Life and Style article above to be interesting:

Says CH believes that Emily deserves to find that perfect man that every woman dreams of. Stating "Emily is looking for a guy to come in and take her hands off the wheel for a while - she's just exhausted" he tells Life and Style. "She needs a strong man who can take control and take care of her and Ricki. It's been a tough life so far."

I don't see her handing over the keys very easily, jmo.

Yeah, that's what Chris thinks that Emily wants, but does it match up with her final choice? I see some very different relationships between these guys and Emily. I see Ryan and Sean as very much wanting to be the protector and the provider, leading his family and his wife as their faith encourages them to do and be. Emily would fight tooth and nail with Ryan about it, because I don't think she trusts him, which is the crux of this whole shebang.

Emily must trust the guy implicitly. Even then, I do think she'll struggle immensely to turn over the reins unless she has a very patient man by her side who will walk her through these 1 gazillion freak outs that she has. Everyone on this board has a different idea of who Emily trusts and which of the guys actually would be this man for her.

I absolutely agree with everything that you said, Veg_out.

I do too Veg! Emily worries about every little thing, hopefully through this experience she is able to relax and enjoy what she has with her F1. I'll really be surprised though, if she did pick someone, they make it to the ATRC.

by nd4reality Sat Jun 16, 2012 8:15 pm

Lost17 wrote:
Longhornfan wrote:
veg_out wrote:
NCGalBecca wrote:I'm sure this is just Chris being PR Chris as usual but I found his quote in the Life and Style article above to be interesting:

Says CH believes that Emily deserves to find that perfect man that every woman dreams of. Stating "Emily is looking for a guy to come in and take her hands off the wheel for a while - she's just exhausted" he tells Life and Style. "She needs a strong man who can take control and take care of her and Ricki. It's been a tough life so far."

I don't see her handing over the keys very easily, jmo.

Yeah, that's what Chris thinks that Emily wants, but does it match up with her final choice? I see some very different relationships between these guys and Emily. I see Ryan and Sean as very much wanting to be the protector and the provider, leading his family and his wife as their faith encourages them to do and be. Emily would fight tooth and nail with Ryan about it, because I don't think she trusts him, which is the crux of this whole shebang.

Emily must trust the guy implicitly. Even then, I do think she'll struggle immensely to turn over the reins unless she has a very patient man by her side who will walk her through these 1 gazillion freak outs that she has. Everyone on this board has a different idea of who Emily trusts and which of the guys actually would be this man for her.

I absolutely agree with everything that you said, Veg_out.
I do too Veg! Emily worries about every little thing, hopefully through this experience she is able to relax and enjoy what she has with her F1. I'll really be surprised though, if she did pick someone, they make it to the ATRC.

She did acknowledge that though during some interview and said she needed someone who could calm her.

by Piper61 Sat Jun 16, 2012 8:19 pm

nd4reality wrote:
Lost17 wrote:
Longhornfan wrote:
veg_out wrote:
NCGalBecca wrote:I'm sure this is just Chris being PR Chris as usual but I found his quote in the Life and Style article above to be interesting:

Says CH believes that Emily deserves to find that perfect man that every woman dreams of. Stating "Emily is looking for a guy to come in and take her hands off the wheel for a while - she's just exhausted" he tells Life and Style. "She needs a strong man who can take control and take care of her and Ricki. It's been a tough life so far."

I don't see her handing over the keys very easily, jmo.

Yeah, that's what Chris thinks that Emily wants, but does it match up with her final choice? I see some very different relationships between these guys and Emily. I see Ryan and Sean as very much wanting to be the protector and the provider, leading his family and his wife as their faith encourages them to do and be. Emily would fight tooth and nail with Ryan about it, because I don't think she trusts him, which is the crux of this whole shebang.

Emily must trust the guy implicitly. Even then, I do think she'll struggle immensely to turn over the reins unless she has a very patient man by her side who will walk her through these 1 gazillion freak outs that she has. Everyone on this board has a different idea of who Emily trusts and which of the guys actually would be this man for her.

I absolutely agree with everything that you said, Veg_out.
I do too Veg! Emily worries about every little thing, hopefully through this experience she is able to relax and enjoy what she has with her F1. I'll really be surprised though, if she did pick someone, they make it to the ATRC.

She did acknowledge that though during some interview and said she needed someone who could calm her.

Sounds just like Jef.

by Guest Sat Jun 16, 2012 8:41 pm

Piper61 wrote:
nd4reality wrote:
Lost17 wrote:
Longhornfan wrote:
veg_out wrote:
NCGalBecca wrote:I'm sure this is just Chris being PR Chris as usual but I found his quote in the Life and Style article above to be interesting:

Says CH believes that Emily deserves to find that perfect man that every woman dreams of. Stating "Emily is looking for a guy to come in and take her hands off the wheel for a while - she's just exhausted" he tells Life and Style. "She needs a strong man who can take control and take care of her and Ricki. It's been a tough life so far."

I don't see her handing over the keys very easily, jmo.

Yeah, that's what Chris thinks that Emily wants, but does it match up with her final choice? I see some very different relationships between these guys and Emily. I see Ryan and Sean as very much wanting to be the protector and the provider, leading his family and his wife as their faith encourages them to do and be. Emily would fight tooth and nail with Ryan about it, because I don't think she trusts him, which is the crux of this whole shebang.

Emily must trust the guy implicitly. Even then, I do think she'll struggle immensely to turn over the reins unless she has a very patient man by her side who will walk her through these 1 gazillion freak outs that she has. Everyone on this board has a different idea of who Emily trusts and which of the guys actually would be this man for her.

I absolutely agree with everything that you said, Veg_out.
I do too Veg! Emily worries about every little thing, hopefully through this experience she is able to relax and enjoy what she has with her F1. I'll really be surprised though, if she did pick someone, they make it to the ATRC.

She did acknowledge that though during some interview and said she needed someone who could calm her.
Sounds just like Jef.

by Guest Sat Jun 16, 2012 9:02 pm

Piper61 wrote:Sounds just like Jef.

'ell to da yeah! Let's just hope that she picks with her head and heart and not her hoohah! :Smiley:

by Guest Sat Jun 16, 2012 9:04 pm

seton wrote:
Piper61 wrote:Sounds just like Jef.

'ell to da yeah! Let's just hope that she picks with her head and heart and not her hoohah! :Smiley:

by shannonmac Sat Jun 16, 2012 9:05 pm

seton wrote:
Piper61 wrote:Sounds just like Jef.

'ell to da yeah! Let's just hope that she picks with her head and heart and not her hoohah! :Smiley:

by Piper61 Sat Jun 16, 2012 9:09 pm

I was watching the first part of Jef and Emily's 1 on 1 date, and who else could have pulled of having tea with Jean more so than Jef? He was so polite, and was such a gentleman playing along with all of Jean's commands. And you could just see that Emily was not enjoying it at all...Jef was like, there are so many moving parts to this (and I'll do it for you Emily) and Emily ...I just want to eat a PB&J with the crust on it. Jef? "Don't do it." LOL. They were so cute when they got up and were all "we're oughta here!" Thanks, Jean. But not really. Too cute!

Jef is charming!

by Shelby Sat Jun 16, 2012 9:28 pm

Piper61 wrote:

I was watching the first part of Jef and Emily's 1 on 1 date, and who else could have pulled of having tea with Jean more so than Jef? He was so polite, and was such a gentleman playing along with all of Jean's commands. And you could just see that Emily was not enjoying it at all...Jef was like, there are so many moving parts to this (and I'll do it for you Emily) and Emily ...I just want to eat a PB&J with the crust on it. Jef? "Don't do it." LOL. They were so cute when they got up and were all "we're oughta here!" Thanks, Jean. But not really. Too cute!

Jef is charming!

very scripted, but charming indeed :gotcha:

by Guest Sat Jun 16, 2012 9:32 pm

I worry about Jean watching that epi. Such a proper British lady. She'll be mortified that they weren't fully appreciating the knowledge she was trying to give! Embarressed!

(I'm being snarky in case it doesn't come thru in the written word!)

by Piper61 Sat Jun 16, 2012 9:33 pm

Shelby wrote:
Piper61 wrote:

I was watching the first part of Jef and Emily's 1 on 1 date, and who else could have pulled of having tea with Jean more so than Jef? He was so polite, and was such a gentleman playing along with all of Jean's commands. And you could just see that Emily was not enjoying it at all...Jef was like, there are so many moving parts to this (and I'll do it for you Emily) and Emily ...I just want to eat a PB&J with the crust on it. Jef? "Don't do it." LOL. They were so cute when they got up and were all "we're oughta here!" Thanks, Jean. But not really. Too cute!

Jef is charming!

very scripted, but charming indeed

yet Jef can do no wrong in my eyes. He's such a sport, and seems like he can really pour on the snark and be mischevious, which are things I just love.

by Piper61 Sat Jun 16, 2012 9:35 pm

nanab wrote:I worry about Jean watching that epi. Such a proper British lady. She'll be mortified that they weren't fully appreciating the knowledge she was trying to give! (I'm being snarky in case it doesn't come thru in the written word!)

To quote Jean, "No, no, no, no, no...." She was in on the jig. "Where'd they go?"

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